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Social media is a rapidly evolving platform for younger people lately to communicate, express themselves and share content of all kinds. It has given rise to a new cultural paradigm that drives technology and businesses while changing the way people interact. As a tool, social media is a double-edged sword; while it has many benefits, it can also influence youngsters in unhealthy ways.
Positive Effects of Social Media on Children
While social media is mostly talked about in a negative light when it comes to its impact on children, there are certain very strong positive arguments in favour of social media. Here are the advantages of social media for kids include:
- Spending time online on social networks is important for the younger generation to pick up on the necessary technical skills they will need to navigate their way through the future. It allows them to be competent citizens in a digital age where they can fully participate in the broader society and learn the social skills of that generation. They will also learn to adapt to having an elaborate online network of friends and acquaintances.
- Social media is being used by the youth in positive ways that weren’t thought of before. It is not just a medium for socializing, but kids and adolescents have found a new way to express creatively, interact, and learn with a broader audience. Students are using it to form study groups where they can easily and instantaneously share ideas and learning material.
- Social networking has also changed the way kids learn. It has introduced a more peer-based learning method where students are motivated to learn from their peers in the group. They are always interacting and giving feedback to one another which refines their learning process. They are also more enthusiastic to learn from each other than from adults. Learning can now come from newer sources and not just their parents or teachers.
- Not only is social media a tool to communicate, but it is also an import part of the lives of adolescents and young adults. It gives them an avenue to stay connected with their peers from sports teams, activity clubs and classes while also allowing them for networking with others having similar interests.
- It has been observed that social media makes people more empathetic, considerate and relationship-oriented. They express how they feel by commenting or liking pictures, videos or status updates posted by their friends. They also wish more people than ever before on their birthdays.
- Kids maintain long-term friendships with others by staying in touch with them online even when they can no longer meet each other in person.
- It has been observed that virtual empathy shown by youngsters is received positively by their distressed friends on social media. It is known to improve their moods and find solutions to problems. The virtual empathy can also spill over into the real world and teach youngsters how to be more compassionate.
- Social media offers a platform for youngsters to connect with others with whom they share similar interests. It can be anything relating to hobbies or professions involving music, art, games and blogs.
- They also get to have an influence on their community through their social networking groups and bring about positive changes. Some of the examples being fundraising campaigns and participating in political events and debates.
- Social media allows youngsters to network with people from around the globe, exposing them to cultures and ideas they may not otherwise come across. It helps them acquire a broader perspective on life and people in general.
Negative Effect of Social Media on Kids
Popular opinion of the impact of social media on children is that it does more harm than good. Here are some negative impacts of social media on children:
- The most well-known downside of social media is the addiction it creates. Constantly checking the news feed of the different social media sites becomes an addictive habit. Experts think that some of the features such as ‘likes’ and ‘shares’ activate the reward centre in the brain. This reward circuitry is highly sensitive during adolescence and may partly explain why more teenagers are into social media than adults. These features further influence our moods. Being social creatures, we value interaction and connection, both of which determine how we think of ourselves. This drives a lot of our behaviour on a day-to-day basis to be centred on social media.
- Youngsters addicted to social media end up spending hours each day watching videos, photos and other content posted by their friends and accounts they follow. This addiction disrupts other activities such as school work, sports, study and other productive routines. They end up wasting a substantial amount of time every day resulting in poor grades in school. Some heavy users of social media admit to checking their feeds as many as 100 times a day and sometimes during school hours too. Some of the kids also realize that they are wasting a lot of time on social media and that affects their mood negatively. It also builds in them a defeatist attitude.
- Psychologists have also long observed bad effects of social media on the mental health of children. One finding suggests that children spending more than 3 hours a day on social media are twice as likely to suffer from poor mental health. Their immersion in a virtual world delays their emotional and social development. The effects on teens are much stronger. One report by the IZA Institute of Labour Economics suggests that spending only an hour a day on social media can make a teen miserable. It could be due to the influence of social comparisons, cyberbullying and decreased person-person interactions.
- Using Facebook is also known to lead to a decline in subjective well-being in youngsters. The more they use Facebook, the worse they feel on a moment-moment basis while feeling less satisfied with their lives in general. Teens are also observed to be suffering from “Facebook depression” after spending too much time on it or other social networking sites. Some also become anxious and moody as they see that the lives of their friends are better than theirs, even though they may know that their representation is idealized. However, vulnerable teens are more prone to this than their confident counterparts.
- Screen relationships also detract real-life relationships and building social skills in children and teenagers. This happens as they grow up without learning how to read non-verbal cues and facial gestures of people. Social interaction is critical to developing the skills needed to understand other people’s moods and emotions. Hence children growing up interacting mostly with social media may turn out non-empathetic and also become poor at communicating verbally and nonverbally.
- While some teenagers get affected by the pressure of having to react to posts of their friends or respond to messages, others fear not being in the social loop. Called FOMO (fear of missing out), teens obsessively check their media feeds for updates by friends as they don’t want to miss out on jokes, activities, parties and gossip. FOMO is also known to lead to depression and anxiety while being a major contributor to teenagers’ heavy use of social media.
- Obsession with the self and posting endless updates and selfies on social media is also known to increase narcissism in youngsters. Their moods depend heavily on how appreciated their photos are on social media and go into anxiety when they don’t get the attention they expect. Having their own pages makes kids more self-centred. Some vulnerable children would then live under the notion that everything revolves around them. This is a precursor to dysfunctional emotional conditions later in their life and a lack of empathy for others.
- Selfies turned into the most popular thing with the advent of camera phones. Taking selfies every hour and posting it on social media is strongly linked to narcissism and can trigger obsessions with one’s looks. Some selfie addicts have been known to do dangerous things such as scale skyscrapers, pose with wild animals or weapons or stand close to moving vehicles such as trains to get a “cool” selfie which has ended fatally. Risky behaviour is also observed in teens as they participate in mass social media challenges that involve engaging in absurd or dangerous activities while filming themselves.
- Facebook and other social media platforms have had a negative effect on the brains of youngsters. It infantilizes their brains to a state similar to a child that gets attracted to bright colours and buzzing noises while having a short attention span. It is no surprise this happens as it barely takes any concentration or thought process to participate in social networking sites.
- It is often the case with social media effect on child development that having grown on superficial stimulus, children lack the ability to engage deeply with others and themselves. They end up living for perfect Instagram photos while missing out on the actual experience of the event, which may be a vacation or having lunch with friends or family.
- Among other dangers of social networking sites for children include cybercrime and cyberbullying. Bullying is easier on social media platforms in the form of threatening messages or subtle posts with offensive content directed at a particular person. Younger children can also become targets of stalking by predatory individuals who intend to cause harm. Parents must also be concerned with how social media affects children as it is easy to gain access to explicit or violent content.
How Can Parents Help Kids Be Smart About Social Media?
Parents always want the best for their children, while also protecting them from the worst. Parents try and enable children to handle bad situations, while also advising them to stay away from them in the first place. So here is how parents can be smart about their kids using social media:
- Parents can begin with researching on the impact of social networking sites on children and educating them about the pros and cons of it. Initially set boundaries on what sites they can be on and for how long.
- Encourage your children to engage more in actual communication with people rather than online networking. They need to be taught the importance of spending more time in real life friendships and activities.
- Instead of constantly lecturing them about the bad influence of social media on children, encourage other interests or passions they may have. It could be hobbies, sports, social work or anything that is not virtual.
- Suggest them to use social media platforms constructively to enhance their learning or to collaborate with others who have similar interests. Teach them how to differentiate between what has substance and what is not worth spending time on.
- Supervise their online activity, so you can teach them to protect themselves from online predators and bullies. Give them enough freedom but ensure they know you are aware of their online habits.
- Join their social networking site so you can be better aware of how it works. If possible follow them on the site so you can see their posts. However, Refrain from commenting or interacting with their posts.
- If your child is often upset after looking at their phones or their time online, talk to them about it. They may need guidance on how not to take to their heart, what happens to them online.
- Ensure they spend only as enough time on it as it is useful. You may even allow social media time as a reward for good behaviour.
- Let them understand that having 500 friends on Facebook doesn’t mean they are cool and social or popular.
- Emphasize the difference between the spelling of social networking and spelling in real.
As with just about all things, social media should be used moderately to stay in touch with the times and trends. Trouble begins only with excessive indulgence.
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