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30 Short Moral Stories in English for Kids
Short moral stories for kids have been an essential part of a child’s moral education for generations. These short moral stories in English are not only entertaining but also have a profound impact on a child’s character and personality development. They instil many vital values, such as honesty, kindness, compassion, and respect for others, which go a long way in life.
As kids listen to these stories, they learn valuable life lessons that they can practically apply to their lives. These stories help them navigate their own life more easily. With a vast array of stories to choose from, parents can select tales that are not only age-appropriate but also reinforce the values they want their child to learn. These stories will help them raise their children to be ideal citizens of society who are compassionate towards both animals and humans.
In this article, we have shortlisted engaging and meaningful moral stories for children that can teach them valuable lessons and help them become better individuals.
30 Popular Short Moral Stories for Kids
If you want to imbibe good habits in your kids from early on and watch them grow up to become good individuals, read moral stories to them. Here are 30 children’s stories with moral values that you can read to your kids!
1. The Lion and the Mouse
A lion was once sleeping in the jungle when a mouse started running up and down his body just for fun. This disturbed the lion’s sleep, and he woke up quite angry. He was about to eat the mouse when the mouse desperately requested the lion to set him free. “I promise you, I will be of great help to you someday if you save me.” The lion laughed at the mouse’s confidence and let him go.
One day, a few hunters came into the forest and took the lion with them. They tied him up against a tree. The lion was struggling to get out and started to whimper. Soon, the mouse walked past and noticed the lion in trouble. Quickly, he ran and gnawed on the ropes to set the lion free. Both of them sped off into the jungle.
Moral of the Story
A small act of kindness can go a long way.
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2. Count Wisely
One day, king Akbar asked a question in his court that left everyone in the courtroom puzzled. As they all tried to figure out the answer, Birbal walked in and asked what the matter was. They repeated the question to him.
The question was, “How many crows are there in the city?”
Birbal immediately smiled and went up to Akbar. He announced the answer; he said there were twenty-one thousand, five hundred and twenty-three crows in the city. When asked how he knew the answer, Birbal replied, “Ask your men to count the number of crows. If there are more, then the relatives of the crows must be visiting them from nearby cities. If there are fewer, then the crows from our city must be visiting their relatives who live outside the city.” Pleased with the answer, Akbar presented Birbal with a ruby and pearl chain.
Moral of the Story
Having an explanation for your answer is just as important as having an answer.
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3. The Boy Who Cried Wolf
In a village, lived a carefree boy with his father. The boy’s father told him that he was old enough to watch over the sheep while they graze in the fields. Every day, he had to take the sheep to the grassy fields and watch them as they graze. However, the boy was unhappy and didn’t want to take the sheep to the fields. He wanted to run and play, not watch the boring sheep graze in the field. So, he decided to have some fun. He cried, “Wolf! Wolf!” until the entire village came running with stones to chase away the wolf before it could eat any of the sheep. When the villagers saw that there was no wolf, they left muttering under their breath about how the boy had wasted their time. The next day, the boy cried once more, “Wolf! Wolf!” and, again, the villagers rushed there to chase the wolf away.
The boy laughed at the fright he had caused. This time, the villagers left angrily. The third day, as the boy went up the small hill, he suddenly saw a wolf attacking his sheep. He cried as hard as he could, “Wolf! Wolf! Wolf!”, but not a single villager came to help him. The villagers thought that he was trying to fool them again and did not come to rescue him or his sheep. The little boy lost many sheep that day, all because of his foolishness.
Moral of the Story
It is difficult to trust people who lie, so it’s important to always be truthful.
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4. The Fox and the Stork
One day, a selfish fox invited a stork for dinner. Stork was very happy with the invitation – she reached the fox’s home on time and knocked at the door with her long beak. The fox took her to the dinner table and served some soup in shallow bowls for both of them. As the bowl was too shallow for the stork, she couldn’t have soup at all. But, the fox licked up his soup quickly.
The stork was angry and upset, but she didn’t show her anger and behaved politely. To teach a lesson to the fox, she then invited him for dinner the next day. She too served soup, but this time the soup was served in two tall narrow vases. The stork devoured the soup from her vase, but the fox couldn’t drink any of it because of his narrow neck. The fox realised his mistake and went home famished.
Moral of the Story
A selfish act backfires sooner or later!
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5. The Golden Touch
Once there lived a greedy man in a small town. He was very rich, and he loved gold and all things fancy. But he loved his daughter more than anything. One day, he chanced upon a fairy. The fairy’s hair was caught in a few tree branches. He helped her out, but as his greediness took over, he realised that he had an opportunity to become richer by asking for a wish in return (by helping her out). The fairy granted him a wish. He said, “All that I touch should turn to gold.” And his wish was granted by the grateful fairy.
The greedy man rushed home to tell his wife and daughter about his wish, all the while touching stones and pebbles and watching them convert into gold. Once he got home, his daughter rushed to greet him. As soon as he bent down to scoop her up in his arms, she turned into a gold statue. He was devastated and started crying and trying to bring his daughter back to life. He realised his folly and spent the rest of his days searching for the fairy to take away his wish.
Moral of the Story
Greed will always lead to downfall.
6. The Milkmaid and Her Pail
Patty, a milkmaid, milked her cow and had two full pails of fresh, creamy milk. She put both pails of milk on a stick and set off to the market to sell the milk. As she took steps towards the market, her thoughts took steps towards wealth. On her way, she kept thinking about the money she would make from selling the milk. Then she thought about what she would do with that money.
She was talking to herself and said, “Once I get the money, I’ll buy a chicken. The chicken will lay eggs, and I will get more chickens. They’ll all lay eggs, and I will sell them for more money. Then, I’ll buy the house on the hill, and everyone will envy me.” She was very happy that soon she would be very rich. With these happy thoughts, she marched ahead. But suddenly, she tripped and fell. Both the pails of milk fell, and all her dreams were shattered. The milk spilt onto the ground, and all Patty could do was cry. “No more dream,” she cried foolishly!
Moral of the Story
Do not count your chickens before they are hatched.
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7. When Adversity Knocks
This is a story that explains how adversity is met differently by different people. There was a girl named Asha who lived with her mother and father in a village. One day, her father assigned her a simple task. He took three vessels filled with boiling water. He placed an egg in one vessel, a potato in the second vessel, and some tea leaves in the third vessel. He asked Asha to keep an eye on the vessels for about ten to fifteen minutes while the three ingredients in three separate vessels boiled. After the said time, he asked Asha to peel the potato and egg, and strain the tea leaves. Asha was left puzzled – she understood her father was trying to explain her something, but she didn’t know what it was.
Her father explained, “All three items were put in the same circumstances. See how they’ve responded differently.” He said that the potato turned soft, the egg turned hard, and the tea leaves changed the colour and taste of the water. He further said, “We are all like one of these items. When adversity calls, we respond exactly the way they do. Now, are you a potato, an egg, or tea leaves?”
Moral of the Story
We can choose how to respond to a difficult situation.
8. The Proud Rose
Once upon a time, there was a beautiful rose plant in a garden. One rose flower on the plant was proud of its beauty. However, it was disappointed that it was growing next to an ugly cactus. Every day, the rose would insult the cactus about its looks, but the cactus stayed quiet. All the other plants in the garden tried to stop the rose from bullying the cactus, but the rose was too swayed by its own beauty to listen to anyone.
One summer, a well in the garden dried up and there was no water for the plants. The rose slowly began to wilt. The rose saw a sparrow dip its beak into the cactus for some water. The rose then felt ashamed for having made fun of the cactus all this time. But because it was in need of water, it went to ask the cactus if it could have some water. The kind cactus agreed, and they both got through summer as friends.
Moral of the Story
Never judge someone by the way they look.
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9. The Tale of the Pencil
A boy named Raj was upset because he had done poorly in his English test. He was sitting in his room when his grandmother came and comforted him. His grandmother sat beside him and gave him a pencil. Raj looked at his grandma puzzled, and said he didn’t deserve a pencil after his performance in the test.
His grandma explained, “You can learn many things from this pencil because it is just like you. It experiences a painful sharpening, just the way you have experienced the pain of not doing well on your test. However, it will help you be a better student. Just as all the good that comes from the pencil is from within itself, you will also find the strength to overcome this hurdle. And finally, just as this pencil will make its mark on any surface, you too shall leave your mark on anything you choose to.” Raj was immediately consoled and promised himself that he would do better.
Moral of the Story
We all have the strength to be who we wish to be.
10. The Crystal Ball
Nasir, a small boy, found a crystal ball behind the banyan tree of his garden. The tree told him that it would grant him a wish. He was very happy and he thought hard, but unfortunately, he could not come up with anything he wanted. So, he kept the crystal ball in his bag and waited until he could decide on his wish.
Days went by without him making a wish but his best friend saw him looking at the crystal ball. He stole it from Nasir and showed it to everyone in the village. They all asked for palaces and riches and lots of gold, but could not make more than one wish. In the end, everyone was angry because no one could have everything they wanted. They became very unhappy and decided to ask Nasir for help. Nasir wished that everything would go back to how it was once, before the villagers had tried to satisfy their greed. The palaces and gold vanished and the villagers once again became happy and content.
Moral of the Story
Money and wealth do not always bring happiness.
11. A Bundle of Sticks
Once upon a time, three neighbours living in a village were having trouble with their crops. Each of the neighbours had one field, but the crops on their fields were infested with pests and were wilting. Every day, they would come up with different ideas to help their crops. The first one tried using a scarecrow in his field, the second used pesticides, and the third built a fence on his field, all to no avail.
One day, the village head came by and called the three farmers. He gave them each a stick and asked them to break it. The farmers could break them easily. He then gave them a bundle of three sticks, and again, asked them to break it. This time, the farmers struggled to break the sticks. The village head said, “Together, you are stronger and work better than you do it alone.” The farmers understood what the village head was saying. They pooled in their resources and got rid of the pests from their fields.
Moral of the Story
There is strength in unity.
12. The Ant and the Dove
On a hot scorching day of summer, an ant was walking around in search of water. After walking around for some time, she saw a river and was delighted to see it. She climbed up on a small rock to drink the water, but she slipped and fell into the river. She was drowning but a dove who was sitting on a nearby tree helped her. Seeing the ant in trouble, the dove quickly dropped a leaf into the water. The ant moved towards the leaf and climbed up on it. The dove then carefully pulled the leaf out and placed it on the land. This way, the ant’s life was saved and she was forever indebted to the dove.
The ant and the dove became the best of friends and days passed happily. However, one day, a hunter arrived at the forest. He saw the beautiful dove sitting on the tree and aimed his gun at the dove. The ant, who was saved the dove saw this and bit on the heel of the hunter. He shouted from the pain and dropped the gun. The dove was alarmed by the voice of the hunter and realised what could have happened with him. He flew away!
Moral of the Story
A good deed never goes unrewarded.
13. The Fox and the Grapes
On a hot summer day, a fox wandered across the jungle in order to get some food. He was very hungry and desperately in search of food. He searched everywhere, but couldn’t find anything that he could eat. His stomach was rumbling and his search continued. Soon he reached a vineyard which was laden with juicy grapes. The fox looked around to check if he was safe from the hunters. No one was around, so he decided to steal some grapes. He jumped high and high, but he couldn’t reach the grapes. The grapes were too high but he refused to give up. The fox jumped high in the air to catch the grapes in his mouth, but he missed. He tried once more but missed again. He tried a few more times, but couldn’t reach. It was getting dark and the fox was getting angry. His legs hurt, so he gave up in the end. Walking away, he said, “I’m sure the grapes were sour anyway.”
Moral of the Story
We pretend to hate something when we can’t have it.
14. The Ant and the Grasshopper
Once upon a time, there were two best friends – an ant and a grasshopper. The grasshopper liked to relax the whole day and play his guitar. The ant, however, would work hard all day. He would collect food from all corners of the garden, while the grasshopper relaxed, played his guitar, or slept. The grasshopper would tell the ant to take a break every day, but the ant would refuse and continue his work. Soon, winter came; days and nights became cold and very few creatures went out.
On a cold day of winter, a colony of ants was busy drying out some grains of corn. The half-dead grasshopper, cold and hungry, came up to the ant who was his friend and asked for a piece of corn. The ant replied, “We work day and night to collect and save up the corn so that we don’t die hungry on cold winter days. Why should we give it to you?” The ant further asked, “What were you doing last summer? You should have collected and stored some food. I told you as much before.”
The grasshopper said, “I was far too busying singing and sleeping.”
The ant replied, “You can sing all winter as far as I am concerned. You will not get anything from us.” The ant had enough food to last through the winter, without any worries at all, but the grasshopper didn’t and he realised his mistake.
Moral of the Story
Make hay while the sun shines.
15. The Bear and Two Friends
One day, two best friends were walking on a lonely and dangerous path through a jungle. As the sun began to set, they grew afraid but held on to each other. Suddenly, they saw a bear in their path. One of the boys ran to the nearest tree and climbed it in a jiffy. The other boy did not know how to climb the tree by himself, so he lay on the ground, pretending to be dead. The bear approached the boy on the ground and sniffed around his head. After appearing to whisper something in the boy’s ear, the bear went on its way. The boy on the tree climbed down and asked his friend what the bear had whispered in his ear. He replied, “Do not trust friends who do not care for you.”
Moral of the Story
A friend in need is a friend indeed.
16. Friends Forever
Once upon a time, there lived a mouse and a frog, who were the best of friends. Every morning, the frog would hop out of the pond to visit the mouse, who lived inside the hole of the tree. He would spend time with the mouse and go back home. One day, the frog realised that he was making too much of an effort to visit the mouse while the mouse never came to meet him at the pond. This made him angry, and he decided to make things right by forcefully taking him to his house.
When the mouse wasn’t looking, the frog tied a string to the mouse’s tail and tied the other end to his own leg, and hopped away. The mouse started getting dragged with him. Then, the frog jumped into the pond to swim. However, when he looked back, he saw that the mouse had started to drown and was struggling to breathe! The frog quickly untied the string from his tail and took him to the shore. Seeing the mouse with his eyes barely open made the frog very sad, and he immediately regretted pulling him into the pond.
Moral of the Story
Don’t take revenge because it can be harmful to you.
17. The Elephant and Her Friends
Once upon a time, a lone elephant made her way into a strange forest. It was new to her, and she was looking to make friends. She approached a monkey and said, “Hello, monkey! Would you like to be my friend?” The monkey said, “You are too big to swing like me, so I can’t be your friend.” The elephant then went to a rabbit and asked the same question. The rabbit said, “You are too big to fit in my burrow, so I can’t be your friend.” The elephant also went to the frog in the pond and asked the same question. The frog replied, “You are too heavy to jump as high as me, so I can’t be your friend.”
The elephant was really sad because she couldn’t make friends. Then, one day, she saw all the animals running deeper into the forest, and she asked a bear what the fuss was about. The bear said, “The lion is on the loose – they are running from him to save themselves.” The elephant went up to the lion and said, “Please don’t hurt these innocent people. Please leave them alone.” The lion scoffed and asked the elephant to move aside. Then, the elephant got angry and pushed the lion with all her might, injuring him. All the other animals came out slowly and started to rejoice about the lion’s defeat. They went to the elephant and said to her, “You are just the right size to be our friend!”
Moral of the Story
A person’s size does not determine their worth.
18. The Woodcutter and the Golden Axe
There was once a woodcutter working hard in the forest, getting wood to sell for some food. As he was cutting a tree, his axe accidentally fell into the river. The river was deep and was flowing really fast – he lost his axe and could not find it again. He sat at the bank of the river and wept.
While he wept, the God of the river arose and asked him what had happened. The woodcutter told him the story. The God of the river offered to help him by looking for his axe. He disappeared into the river and retrieved a golden axe, but the woodcutter said it was not his. He disappeared again and returned with a silver axe, but the woodcutter said that was not his either. The God disappeared into the water again and came back with an iron axe – the woodcutter smiled and said it was his. God was impressed with the woodcutter’s honesty and gifted him both the golden and silver axes.
Moral of the Story
Honesty is the best policy.
19. The Needle Tree
There lived two brothers near a forest. The elder one was very mean to the younger brother – he would finish all the food and wear all the new clothes of his younger brother. One day, the elder brother decided to go into the forest to get some firewood and sell it at the market. As he went around, chopping tree after tree, he stumbled upon a magical tree. The tree said, “Oh, kind sir, please do not cut my branches. If you spare me, I will give you golden apples.” He agreed but was left disappointed with the number of apples the tree gave him. As greed overcame him, he threatened the tree to cut the entire trunk if it didn’t give him more apples. The magical tree, instead, showered upon the elder brother hundreds and hundreds of tiny needles. The elder brother lay on the ground, crying in pain, as the sun set.
The younger brother was worried, and so he searched for his elder brother. He found him lying in pain near the tree, with hundreds of needles on his body. He rushed to his brother and removed each needle lovingly and gently. After he finished, the elder brother apologised for treating him badly and promised to improve. The tree saw the change in the elder brother’s heart and gave them all the golden apples they would ever need.
Moral of the Story
It is important to be kind and gracious, as it will always be rewarded.
20. The Greedy Lion
On a hot day, a lion in the forest started feeling hungry. He was starting to hunt for his food when he found a hare roaming around alone. Instead of catching the hare, the lion let it go – “A small hare such as this can’t satisfy my hunger”, he said and scoffed. Then, a beautiful deer passed by, and he decided to take his chances – he ran and ran behind the deer, but since he was weak because of hunger, he struggled to keep up with the deer’s speed. Tired and defeated, the lion went back to look for the hare to fill up his stomach for the time being, but it was gone. The lion was sad and remained hungry for a long time.
Moral of the Story
Greed is never a good thing.
21. The Goose and the Golden Eggs
Once upon a time, a farmer lived with his wife in their cottage. They had a goose that would lay one golden egg every day. The farmer and his wife were mighty pleased because of this. Every morning, the wife would set out with her basket to collect all the eggs from the hens and the goose. But over time, they started getting greedier. They wondered if the process could be sped up. They were very upset that they were getting just one golden egg daily. They wondered that if the goose was laying golden eggs, its insides must surely be made of gold too! They imagined getting rich as they would get all the gold at once. So, they caught hold of the poor bird and killed it. Alas, upon opening it, they didn’t find any gold, and the insides of the goose were like those of any other bird.
Moral of the Story
Think before you act.
22. The Greedy Dog
Once upon a time, there was a dog who was roaming around the village in search of food. He was a greedy dog and never satisfied with whatever he had. On one particular day, he managed to snatch a piece of bone from a butcher’s shop and ran away to eat it in peace. On the way, he came across a river. He was very curious, so holding the bone, he peeped into the river. He was astonished when he saw his reflection. But he thought that it was another dog with a bone. As this dog was greedy, he wanted that bone too. So he opened his mouth and started barking in the hopes that the other dog would get scared and leave his bone behind. But, as soon as he opened his mouth, his bone fell into the river and started floating away. The dog then got upset that in his greed to get the second bone, he lost his own bone.
Moral of the Story
Do not be greedy.
23. The Tortoise and the Hare
In a lush forest, a speedy hare was always bragging about how fast he could run. Tired of his boasting, a slow but steady tortoise challenged him to a race. The hare laughed at the idea but agreed. When the race began, the hare quickly raced ahead. Seeing the tortoise far behind, he decided to take a nap under a tree, confident he could still win. Meanwhile, the tortoise kept moving slowly but without stopping. When the hare woke up, he saw the tortoise near the finish line. He sprinted, but it was too late—the tortoise had already won the race.
Moral of the Story
Slow and steady wins the race.
24. The Wind and the Sun
The Wind and the Sun were arguing about who was stronger. They saw a traveller walking below wearing a cloak. They agreed that whoever could make the traveller remove his cloak would be the stronger one. The Wind went first. He blew with all his might, but the traveller only wrapped his cloak tighter. Then, the Sun took his turn. He shone gently and warmly. The traveller, feeling the pleasant heat, soon untied his cloak. The Sun shone brighter, and the traveller, now too warm, took off his cloak completely.
Moral of the Story
Kindness and gentleness are often more effective than force.
25. The Crow and the Pitcher
On a hot summer day, a very thirsty crow was searching for water. After a long time, he found a pitcher with a little water at the bottom. He tried to drink, but his beak could not reach the water. He thought of tipping the pitcher over, but it was too heavy. Then, he had an idea. He started picking up pebbles nearby and dropping them one by one into the pitcher. The water level slowly rose. He kept adding pebbles until the water was high enough for him to drink. His cleverness saved his life.
Moral of the Story
Where there is a will, there is a way.
26. The Dog in the Manger
A sleepy dog found a comfortable manger filled with soft hay in a stable. He curled up and went to sleep. Later, the tired oxen returned from the fields, hungry for the hay in the manger. But the dog woke up, snarled and barked, refusing to let the oxen near. He wouldn’t eat the hay himself, but he wouldn’t let the oxen eat it either. The oxen shook their heads and said, “How selfish you are! You don’t need this hay, yet you won’t let us have it.”
Moral of the Story
Do not prevent others from having something that you cannot enjoy yourself.
27. The City Mouse and the Country Mouse
A country mouse invited his city cousin for a simple meal of roots and grains. The city mouse turned up his nose at the plain food and said, “Come visit me, and you shall dine like a king!” In the city, the country mouse was amazed by the feast of cheese, fruit, and cake on the table. But their meal was constantly interrupted by the terrifying sound of dogs barking and people coming and going. The country mouse finally said, “Your food is fine, but I would rather eat my simple meal in peace than live in such constant fear.” He returned to his quiet home.
Moral of the Story
A simple, peaceful life is better than a lavish one filled with danger and fear.
28. The Belling of the Cat
A family of mice lived in constant fear of the house cat. One day, they held a meeting to decide on a plan. A young mouse boldly proposed, “Let us tie a bell around the cat’s neck! Then we will hear him coming and can run away in time.” All the mice cheered for this brilliant plan. Then, an old, wise mouse stood up and asked quietly, “That is a wonderful idea, but who will volunteer to bell the cat?” The mice fell silent. No one was willing to take the risk.
Moral of the Story
It is easy to propose impossible solutions, but much harder to carry them out.
29. The Monkey and the Crocodile
A clever monkey lived in a fruit tree by a river and became friends with a crocodile, often giving him fruit.
The crocodile’s wife grew jealous and demanded the monkey’s heart. The crocodile reluctantly invited the monkey for a ride on his back, planning to kill him. Midway, he confessed his plan. The quick-thinking monkey said, “Oh dear! I left my heart in the tree. Let’s go back for it.” The crocodile swam back, and the monkey jumped to safety, saying, “You can’t trick a true friend!”
Moral of the Story
Quick thinking can save you from danger.
30. The Two Pots
A brass pot and a clay pot were carried down the river together. The brass pot, strong and shiny, suggested they float side by side. The clay pot replied, “Please, dear friend, stay away from me. If you bump into me even gently, I will break into pieces. It’s safer for me to keep my distance.” They floated with space between them.
Moral of the Story
It is wise to know your own weaknesses and to avoid situations where you might get hurt.
Benefits of Moral Stories for Kids
Moral stories for kids benefit them in more ways than one can imagine. The following are the benefits:
1. Prepare kids for their role in society
Moral stories help kids understand what’s right and what’s wrong. They impart a belief system which will help the child cope very well with whatever life has to offer.
2. Help kids become resilient
Very short stories for kids with morals help the child navigate life’s ups and downs by imparting strong ethics and moral values to them. These stories act like guidelines to help the little ones make the right choices.
3. Counter bad influence
Many children start picking up vices under peer pressure. Good values from moral stories help the child stay strong and not succumb to temptations.
Tips on Making Storytime Interesting for Your Kids
No matter how good or engaging a story may be, how you recite it to your kids will make all the difference. If you want to make story sessions fun (and less preachy) for your kids, here are some tips on narrating stories.
Be creative while you read the story to your child. Usually, the personality or character of the story catches a child’s interest the most. So use different voices for each character or act out various parts from the story to bring life to those characters. Acting out parts from the story will make story sessions fun and memorable for your kids.
If you use books or pictures, lay them before your kids. You can ask them to turn the pages or trace the words as you read.
Talk about the story after you’ve finished reciting it. Ask your children questions along the way and discuss the moral of the story in the end. This way, you will also know if your children understood what happened in the story. Asking questions from time to time will keep children engaged and promote speech development in kids. You can also highlight new words in the story and tell their meanings to your kids – this will develop their vocabulary.
Read aloud together with your kids. Ask your child to read with you. This will encourage your child’s reading habits and improve his reading skills.
Take stories outdoors. You don’t have to sit on the bed with your kids while narrating a story to them – you can take the story beyond the four walls of your home. For instance, if you are reading a story on ‘fun in the park’, take your child to an amusement park, lay a blanket under a tree in that park, and read the story there. This will make the story more life-like, and your kid will enjoy it even more.
Try reading stories at different times of the day. Storytime need not always be bedtime. Try reading stories to your kids at different times of the day, like in the afternoon or evening, to understand your child’s attention span. Once you know the time when your child’s attention span is the highest, read stories to him during that time.
These were some inspiring and motivational short stories with a moral. Make storytime fun and exciting with the above tips. These tips will help you leave an impact on your kids and make storytime the favourite part of their day. Also, read the above short moral stories to your kids – we are sure they will enjoy listening to these stories. Furthermore, these easy short stories with moral values will even teach your children some important lessons which they will always remember.
Infographic: Benefits of Moral Stories for Kids
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21 Moral Values for Kids to Build Good Character
Parenting is not just about caring for a child’s physical growth but also about enhancing mental growth. Parents, arguably, play the largest role in the character formation of their child and have the most impact on how the child turns out to be in life as they grow up.
Children need to understand moral concepts from an early age. Moral values for kids are fundamental principles that shape behaviour and decision-making. They act as rules that help a person distinguish between what is good and evil. Making ethical decisions in daily life requires an understanding of these principles, which are best learned through guidance, consistency, empathy, and example.
Some people argue that children learn morals on their own, or that preschool is too early for children to be learning about moral values and ideas. However, that is false; it is best to teach children values at a young age, so that it becomes a part of their personality as they got. Let’s look at some moral values every parent must teach their children.
Also read: Important Life Lessons You Should First Teach Your Kids.
What Are Moral Values?
A moral value is a lesson or principle that directs one’s behaviour, choices, and deeds. Moral values include lessons like learning right from wrong and exhibiting moral behaviours like bravery and honesty.
Importance of Imbibing Moral Values in Kids
The benefits of instilling moral ideals in children are as follows.
Moral values help develop positive character traits, including humility, respect, compassion, and kindness.
It teaches youngsters to discern between good and bad or right and wrong. It may finally encourage unbiased judgment and sensible thought.
It provides a perspective that shapes how people feel and what they believe about many aspects of life.
It increases their self-confidence and helps them stay upbeat despite adversity.
It enables kids to focus their energy in the correct direction.
As adolescents develop into teenagers or adults, it serves as a moral compass to guide them away from the harmful influence of classmates, social media, or society.
Moral values help children build strong and healthy relationships by promoting honesty, trust, and empathy.
They encourage responsibility and accountability for one’s actions, helping kids understand consequences.
Moral values support better decision-making skills, especially in challenging or confusing situations.
They foster a sense of social responsibility, motivating children to contribute positively to their community and society.
21 Moral Values for Children to Lead a Great Life
Moral values help children understand right from wrong and shape their character.
1. Respect
Many parents make the mistake of teaching their children only about respect for elders, but that is wrong. Everyone deserves respect, regardless of age or social standing. Respect is an essential moral value that your child must know about at a young age, as it plays a critical role in their behaviour around strangers and elders. Toddlers that learn respect their peers and elders from a young age will benefit from this, in the future. Even when the times get tough in the future, your child will be more solicitous of others.
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2. Family
Family is an integral part of kids’ lives. It shapes and nurtures them into adults. Therefore, it is essential to give your children a sense of family and help them understand why family is important. Do that, and it’s more likely your children will grow up respecting and loving their family through thick and thin.
3. Adjusting and Compromising
It is important that children know that not everything works according to them. Teach them from a young age that when it is necessary, they may have to try and adjust. Your child must be taught to adapt and to compromise, only if their own life is not at stake here. While adjusting sounds great in principle, there is a thin line where it crosses over to compromise. If the child ends up on the losing end because of a compromise, it is not only detrimental but also curbs identity.
4. Helping Mentality
Your child must be taught to help others from a young age, even if it may be a complete stranger. You have to teach your child why helping others is so important and how you always get it back when you help someone. To be a functional part of society, your child must be empathetic to others’ needs.
5. Respecting Religion
Your child should be brought up, not just to respect his own religion, but also to understand that every person has the right to choose his/her religion. Teach your children, from a young age, that all humans are equal, regardless of their religion or the festivals they celebrate.
6. Justice
A moral compass and a sense of justice are two of the most important values that any child must have from a young age. Your children must always be encouraged to speak up when they perceive wrongdoing, for their own benefit or for the benefit of others.
7. Honesty
From a young age, honesty should be instilled as one of the most important values for kids. Honesty is always the best policy, and your child must be encouraged to tell the truth regardless of whatever mistakes they may have committed.
8. Never Hurt Anyone
Explain to your child that hurting someone is not just a physical problem- any hurt can also have a psychological and emotional effect. Remember to teach your children how to apologise and encourage them to apologise if they ever hurt someone, either physically or verbally.
9. Theft
Theft is wrong, no matter what the justification behind it may be- this is one of the good values for children. Teach your child that theft is a wrong thing, not just legally, but also morally as well, as it means that he/she will be taking something that belongs to someone else.
10. Cultivate Love for Education
Education is the biggest weapon one can have, and the thing that has the most impact on where you end up in life. A love for education must be cultivated in the child, right from preschool, and you should also try to get your child to understand the importance of education in life.
11. Appreciation and Gratitude
Having gratitude means being willing to express your appreciation and gratitude for your possessions. Contentment is the first step. Teach your child to be grateful for what they have in life to help them develop contentment and thankfulness. Never allow anyone or anything to be taken for granted.
12. Sharing
Sharing is being kind. A youngster must therefore understand the value of giving to those in need. Sharing is a behaviour that ought to result from selflessness. You can encourage your youngster to share their possessions and resources with people who might be in dire need of them. Encourage them to give some of their toys to their cousins and siblings or to donate some books, food, and clothing to the less fortunate kids.
13. Empathy
The ability to comprehend another person’s problems, issues, and concerns are referred to as empathy. It is comparable to trying to walk in someone else’s shoes. You must demonstrate empathy toward them to raise an empathic child. Try to assist them while you listen to their difficulties, challenges, and concerns. Create mutually acceptable solutions.
14. Cooperation
Cooperation is the act of offering assistance to others to achieve a common goal. The first step to fostering a sense of cooperation is collaboration at home. A family should cooperate by helping each other with chores around the house and listening to each other’s difficulties. Such behaviours encourage a child to think in terms of “us” rather than “me.”
15. Acceptance
It is the ability to acknowledge another person’s different point of view. It helps the child see things more broadly and allows them to perceive situations differently. For instance, if a child and their sibling have different perspectives on something, ask them to quietly and impartially listen to each other’s viewpoints. Teach children to respect the views of others and to engage in dialogue to find the best answer.
16. Responsibility
Responsibility teaches children to be accountable for their actions, words, and duties. When kids learn to take responsibility early, they understand that their choices have consequences. This habit helps them become dependable individuals who can be trusted by parents, teachers, and friends. Responsible children are also better at managing tasks such as homework, chores, and personal commitments. Over time, this value prepares them to handle real-life challenges independently.
17. Patience
Patience helps children understand that not everything happens instantly. It teaches them how to wait calmly, manage frustration, and control their emotions during difficult situations. Children who practice patience are less likely to react impulsively or aggressively. This value also helps them perform better academically, as learning often requires time and repeated effort.
18. Discipline
Discipline helps children develop self-control and consistency in their daily routines. It teaches them the importance of following rules, managing time wisely, and completing tasks on schedule. A disciplined child learns to balance play and responsibilities effectively. This value also helps children set goals and work steadily toward achieving them. Discipline builds a strong foundation for success in both personal and professional life.
19. Courage
Courage teaches children to face their fears instead of avoiding them. It encourages them to speak up for themselves and others when something feels wrong. Courage also helps children try new activities without fear of failure. By developing courage, children gain confidence and resilience. This value prepares them to handle challenges with strength and determination.
20. Forgiveness
Forgiveness teaches children to let go of anger, resentment, and negative feelings. It helps them understand that making mistakes is a natural part of learning and growing. Children who forgive easily are emotionally healthier and experience less stress. Forgiveness also strengthens friendships and family relationships. It teaches children kindness, understanding, and emotional maturity.
21. Humility
Humility teaches children to stay grounded even when they achieve success. It helps them respect others, accept criticism, and recognise their own limitations. A humble child understands that learning never stops and that everyone has something valuable to teach. This value prevents arrogance and promotes cooperation. Humility helps children grow into respectful and thoughtful individuals.
Ways to Inculcate Moral Values in Your Kids
Moral values are the foundation of a child’s personality and decision-making. Parents can nurture these values through everyday guidance and example.
1. Practice What You Preach
Children learn from the people around them, so in order to teach your kids good values, you must model them in your life, first. You may verbally explain multiple values, but your kid will only pick up the ones you showcase through your behaviour.
2. Narrate Personal Experiences
Personal experiences are like stories, and all kids love hearing stories. Share stories from your own life, where abiding by a moral value had a positive experience in your life, and your child is bound to understand better.
3. Reward Good Behaviour
Come up with each day you reward your child for using the daily in their life. Praise and rewards are positive reinforcement that works incredibly well in shaping children.
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4. Communicate Effectively
Converse with your child, each day, about how these moral values work in day-to-day life. For example, you can discuss an article in the newspaper and ask your child what they would have done in the same situation.
5. Monitor Television and Internet Use
There’s no escape from the television and the internet, but you can definitely monitor what your child watches. Make sure the show promotes good values and morals, and is appropriate for his/her age.
Moral values must be instilled in children right from the beginning, and no age is too early to start. They play a huge role in building the personality of the child and have the most significant say in how your child shapes his/her life.
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25 Panchatantra Stories for Kids
The Panchatantra moral stories are one of the most popular collections of animal-based fables. Originally written in Sanskrit, each of these fables has an associated moral. These Panchatantra stories for kids are light, colourful and appropriate, even for tiny tots, and provide valuable lessons that stay in their minds forever.
The legend about the origin of Panchatantra dates back to the times of King Amarashakti, who appointed a scholar named Vishnu Sharma to educate his three sons.Vishnu Sharma realised that conventional teaching tools and techniques did not work well with these princes, so he taught them through small Panchatantra stories instead. He, therefore, wrote a collection of stories under the following five volumes, and so it was named as Panchatantra (‘pancha’ – five and ‘tantra’ – systems):
Mitra labha (gaining friends) – Collection of stories related to winning friends.
Mitra bheda (losing friends) – Collection of stories related to losing friends.
Aparïksitakárakam (acting without thinking) – Collection of stories about how imprudence leads to losing what is important.
Labdhapranásam (Loss of gains) – Collection of stories that mention how to come out of difficult situations without losing things.
Kákolùkïyam (Crows and owls) – Collection of stories about rules and strategies of war and peace.
The Panchatantra was translated into many languages, including English, various Indian vernacular languages, Persian, and Arabic.
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Panchatantra Stories for Kids in English With Moral
To make story time fun and informative, here are some small Panchatantra stories in English with a moral that will enhance your child’s imagination and teach them something!
1. The Monkey and the Crocodile
Once upon a time, in a forest, there lived a monkey who resided on a jamoon (berry) tree, which was on the banks of a river. In the same forest, there lived a crocodile and his wife. One day, the crocodile came to the banks of the river and rested under the tree. The kindhearted monkey offered him some fruits. The crocodile came back the next day for more fruit, as he loved them. As days passed by, the crocodile and the monkey became good friends.
One day, the monkey sent some fruits for the crocodile’s wife. She ate the fruits and liked them, but was jealous, as she didn’t like her husband spending time with the monkey. She told her husband, “If the fruits are so juicy, I wonder how sweet the monkey’s heart would be. Get me the heart of the monkey.” The crocodile was not willing to kill his friend, but had no choice.
He invited the monkey to his house for dinner, and he hoped his wife would like to meet him. The monkey was happy, but couldn’t swim, so the crocodile took him on his back. The crocodile was happy that he had tricked the monkey; however, while talking, he blurted out the real reason for taking the monkey home. The clever monkey said, “You should have told me earlier, I left my heart on the tree. We must go back and get it.” The crocodile believed him and took him back to the tree. Thus, the clever monkey saved his life.
Moral of the Story: Choose your company wisely and always have presence of mind.
2. The Stork and the Crab
Once upon a time, there lived a stork who used to pick fish from the pond beside him and eat them. However, as he grew older, he found it difficult to catch a single fish. In order to feed himself, he thought of a plan. He told the fish, frogs, and crabs that some men are planning to fill the pond and grow crops, and that’s why there won’t be any fish in the pond. He also told them how sad he felt about this and that he would miss them all. The fish were sad and asked the stork to help them. The stork promised to take all of them to a bigger pond. However, he told them, “As I am old, I can take only a few of you at one go.” The stork would take the fish to a rock, kill them, and eat them up. Every time he was hungry, he would take a few of them to the rock and eat them.
There lived a crab in the pond, who wanted to go to the bigger pond too. The stork thought of eating the crab for a change and agreed to help him. On the way, the crab asked the stork, “Where is the big pond?” The stork laughed and pointed to the rock, which was filled with fish bones. The crab realised that the stork would kill him, and so quickly thought of a plan to save himself. He caught the stork’s neck and did not let it go until the stork died.
Moral of the Story: Always have a presence of mind and act quickly when in danger.
3. The Elephants and the Mice
There was a village that was abandoned by its people after it was shattered, following an earthquake. However, the mice living in the village decided to stay and make it their home. On the outskirts of this village, there was a lake, where a herd of elephants visited regularly to bathe and drink water. Since the village was on the way to this lake, the elephants trampled the mice while walking there. So, the king of mice decided to meet the elephants. He told them, ” O elephants, as you travel through the village, many mice are trampled. We will be very grateful if you could please consider changing your route. We will remember and return the favour when you are in need.”
The elephant king laughed, “We are giant elephants. What favour can you mice return? Nevertheless, we honour your request and change our route.”
After a few days, the elephants got trapped and entangled in nets that were set up by hunters. They struggled hard to escape, but in vain. The elephant king remembered the promise made by the king of mice. So, he sent a fellow elephant who got lucky and was not trapped, to ask the mice king to come and help them.
Soon, all the mice came and started nibbling the nets, freeing the elephants. The king of the elephants couldn’t thank the mice enough!
Moral of the Story: A friend in need is a friend indeed. Always be kind to people and grateful for their help.
4. The Loyal Mongoose
A farmer couple had a pet mongoose. One day, the farmer and his wife had to urgently go out of the house for work, and so they left the mongoose with their infant, assured that he would guard their baby well. While they were gone, a snake stealthily entered the house and moved towards the cradle to attack the infant. The smart mongoose fought and killed the snake in order to protect the baby.
When the farmer’s wife returned home, she was shocked to be greeted by blood stains on the mongoose’s mouth and teeth. She lost her temper and shouted, “You killed my baby!” In her anger, she lost all control and killed the loyal mongoose. When she entered her house, she saw the baby alive and the dead snake beside him. She realised what happened and regretted her actions.
Moral of the Story: Think before you act.
5. The Tortoise and the Geese
Once upon a time, beside a lake, there lived a tortoise and two geese who were great friends. As the lake was drying, the geese decided to migrate to a new place. The tortoise also wanted to move with them, but he couldn’t fly, and so he pleaded with the geese to take him with them. After trying really hard to convince them, finally, the geese agreed. They held a stick with their beaks and asked the tortoise to hold the stick with his mouth, warning him not to open his mouth and let go of the stick.
As they flew high, some onlookers thought that the tortoise was kidnapped and commented, “Oh, the poor tortoise!” This angered the tortoise, and he immediately opened his mouth to say something back. As soon as he did, he fell to the ground and died.
Moral of the Story: Think before you speak. Listen to instructions and follow them.
6. A Tale of Three Fish
In a lake, there were three fish who were great friends. The first fish was very smart, the second one knew how to find his way out of trouble, and the third was adamant and hated changes. The first fish overheard a fisherman’s conversation about coming back the next day and fishing in the lake. Sensing danger, he cautioned his friends to move out of the lake. The second fish said, “I will stay here and find a way out if I’m caught.” The third fish said, “I do not want to move out. I will remain here, and if I have to get caught, I will.” The first fish moved out. The next day, the fisherman arrived and caught the other two fish. The second one cleverly escaped by pretending to be dead. The third fish did nothing and got caught and died.
Moral of the Story: One should always be open to change and adapt accordingly. Take immediate action when you sense danger.
7. The Foolish Lion and the Clever Rabbit
Once upon a time, there lived a greedy lion who attacked and killed animals, because of which every animal in the jungle was very afraid of him. One day, they decided that each animal would go to the lion, once a day, as his prey. The lion agreed. When it was the rabbit’s turn, they decided to send the wise old one. He travelled slowly and reached the lion’s den before sunset. The lion furiously asked him, “Why are you so late?” The rabbit answered, ”A group of rabbits were coming to you, but on their way, the others were attacked by another ferocious lion. I managed to escape and came here.” The rabbit also mentioned that the other lion was challenging this one.
The lion was extremely angry and asked the rabbit to take him to meet the new lion. The wise rabbit took the lion to a deep well and showed him his own reflection. As the lion growled, his reflection did the same. He considered this reflection to be his enemy. The enraged lion jumped into the well to attack the other lion, and ended up dying. Thus, the wise old rabbit saved himself and all the animals in the forest.
Moral of the Story: One must always focus on solutions, rather than problems.
8. The Jackal and the Drum
Once upon a time, a jackal wandered away from his jungle and reached a deserted battlefield. He was very hungry, and so he started looking for food, when he heard a strange sound. The jackal got scared and decided to run away, but then he thought, “Let me carefully see who is making that sound.” As he looked around, he found an abandoned drum lying next to a tree, and as the wind blew, the branches of the tree rubbed against it, making the sound. He was relieved and continued to search for food.
Moral of the Story: Face difficulties, instead of running away from them.
9. The Elephant and the Sparrows
A sparrow couple had a beautiful nest with eggs, on a tall, strong tree, and were expecting their little ones soon. However, an arrogant elephant soon visited the area and shook the tree so hard that he managed to destroy the nest and the eggs. Angered and saddened by this, the sparrows decided to seek revenge.
They asked their woodpecker friend to help them. The woodpecker, along with his friends, the fly and the frog, devised a plan. The frog asked the fly to buzz near the elephant’s ear. He said, “When the elephant closes his eyes, woodpecker, you must pierce his eyes. The elephant will stand up and try to find water. I will croak far away, and the elephant will think there’s water around and reach the place. We will create a big pit, and the elephant will fall into it.”
At sunset, they worked as per the plan, and the elephant fell into the pit and died.
Moral of the Story: It’s not physical strength and haughtiness that win, but intelligence and teamwork that matter.
10. The Wise Minister’s Advice
A gang of owls attacked some crows in a forest one night and killed them all. Because the crows couldn’t see clearly at night, they couldn’t fight back.
The King of the crows was so distressed to hear the news that he went to his wise old minister for guidance. The minister gave him some advice and sent him back.
The next day, the crows went to the owl’s cave and put on a dramatic show! One crow pretended to praise the owls and the other ones struck him down! Seeing this, the Owl King thought that this crow was in favour of the owls. The crow continued to live with the owls till one morning, the crow flew away and, with the help of his crow friends, set fire to the entrance of the owl cave! Since owls are nocturnal creatures, they were fast asleep, and all of them were killed!
Moral of the Story: Keep your friends close, but your enemies closer.
11. The Musical Donkey
After a hard day’s work, a washerman’s donkey would be free to graze on the green field. Instead of staying on the field, he would sneak into the villagers’ farms and eat the growing vegetables before sneaking home. The donkey met a jackal, and they became good friends. They decided to hunt together, and the fat donkey would break the fence to eat vegetables, while the jackal hunted the farm animals. One night, the donkey told the jackal that he felt like singing. The jackal pleaded with him not to sing, as they would get caught. However, the donkey got annoyed and insisted on singing. He opened his mouth and began to bray loudly, and the jackal immediately ran away. On hearing the donkey bray, the farmers came rushing out and thrashed him for eating their vegetables. The farmer tied a mortar on the donkey, and as he walked home, the jackal joked about the farmer gifting the donkey a necklace for his singing.
Moral of the Story: There is a time and place for everything.
12. The Blue Jackal
Once upon a time, a jackal was chased by a pack of fierce dogs in a village. While running for his life, he jumped into a large tub filled with blue dye used by washermen. The dogs ran away, but when the jackal came out, his fur had turned completely blue.
When he returned to the forest, all the animals were shocked to see a strange blue creature. They believed he was a divine being sent from heaven. The clever jackal took advantage of their fear and declared himself the king of the forest. The animals obeyed him and brought him food every day.
For some time, the jackal lived comfortably. But one night, he heard other jackals howling nearby. Forgetting his disguise, he also began to howl. The animals immediately recognised his voice and realised he was an ordinary jackal. Angry at being fooled, they chased him out of the forest.
Moral of the Story: False appearances do not last forever
13. Four Friends and a Hunter
A rat, a crow, a deer, and a turtle were all pals. They were content to live in a jungle. The friends devised a strategy to save the deer when he accidentally fell into a hunter’s trap one day. After struggling and appearing in pain, the deer lay motionless with its eyes open, appearing dead. Then, as they do to a dead animal, the crow and the other birds sat on the deer and began prodding it.
The turtle immediately moved into the hunter’s path to draw his attention away. After leaving the deer, which he presumed to be dead, the hunter pursued the turtle. The crow immediately picked up the turtle while the rat chewed open the net to release the deer.
Moral of the Story: Teamwork can achieve great results
14. The Hermit and the Mouse
A temple in a small community was taken care of by a hermit. He collected alms and gave some of them to those who assisted him in cleaning the temple. Unfortunately, a mouse kept stealing the hermit’s food and giving him grief in the temple. No matter what he tried, the hermit could not get rid of the mouse. Even when the food was put in an earthen jar suspended from the roof, the mouse kept stealing it.
Disgusted, the wise man sought counsel from a friend, who advised him to locate and eliminate the mouse’s food sources. After thoroughly searching the area, the sage discovered and destroyed the mouse stash. The mouse couldn’t hop to the roof to find food since its food supply had run out. The hermit seized and flung it far from the temple when it grew weak. The injured mouse abandoned the temple and never came back.
Moral of the Story: To overcome an enemy, strike at his power source.
15. The Sparrow and Monkey
A monkey suddenly appears in this story, which is about a pair of sparrows residing in a banyan tree. The monkey was shivering from the cold, as it was raining cats and dogs. One of the birds saw the monkey in distress and encouraged him to construct his own home to protect himself. In retaliation, the monkey misunderstood this advice for conceit and destroyed the sparrow’s nest. We learn that those who need assistance resent it the least, and that advice is rarely valued.
Moral of the Story: You should only offer counsel to people who genuinely deserve it to avoid experiencing regret.
16. The Crows and the Cobra
A cobra and two crows were living on a banyan tree in a forest close to a small kingdom. As the crows left the nest searching for food, the cobra, who was evil, ate the crows’ eggs. The crows were disheartened and hurt; they thought of taking guidance from a knowledgeable jackal. One of the crows followed the jackal’s suggestion and proceeded to the royal palace to steal the queen’s precious jewellery while the guards looked on. The crow flew carefully to its nest, allowing the guards to follow it. The snake dwelt in the banyan tree’s hollow cove, where the crow dropped the necklace after arriving there. When the guards discovered a snake in the hole, they killed it and snatched up the necklace. The crows thanked the jackal and continued to live contentedly.
Moral of the Story: With enough intellect, even the most formidable adversaries can be defeated.
17. The Lion and the Camel
A lion lived in a deep jungle with his three assistants: a jackal, a crow, and a leopard. The assistants never had to look for food because they lived near the forest king. One day, they were shocked to find a camel walking through the woods, a creature that generally dwelt in the desert. They discovered that the camel got lost. It received protection and shelter from the lion.
The powerful lion was once hurt during a conflict with some elephants. The lion and the assistants went hungry since they were unable to hunt. The lion declined to kill the camel despite the three assistants suggesting that they consume it. The assistants hatched a plan to make the camel offer itself as food to its protector. The crow, the leopard and the jackal each offered themselves as food to the lion, which he refused. As soon as the camel saw this, it followed suit and was immediately slain by the lion.
Moral of the Story: It isn’t smart to put your faith in crafty people who surround wealthy or powerful people for personal gain.
18. Right-Mind and Wrong-Mind
In a village lived two companions named Dharmabuddhi (sound, virtuous mind) and Papabuddhi (false, wicked sense). Papabuddhi, who was evil, decided to capitalise on the virtues of Dharmabuddhi. So, he persuaded his pal to join him on a lucrative global tour. After they had enough money, Papabuddhi persuaded his friend to bury it in a jungle for protection. So, one night, he grabbed all the money and returned to the community.
Papabuddhi pretended ignorance when the friends returned to the forest to retrieve the money. He accused Dharmabuddhi of stealing it, and brought up the situation with the village elders, who decided that they should inquire with the forest’s tree spirit about Dharmabuddhi’s culpability.
To prove the innocent man’s guilt, Papabuddhi ordered his father to slink away in the tree bark and speak in the voice of the tree spirit. Sensing something wrong, Dharmabuddhi set dry leaves and twigs on fire inside the hollow cove of the tree, forcing his friend’s father out. Later, Papabuddhi’s father confessed to his son’s wrongdoing, and the village elders chastised him.
Moral of the Story: Refrain from associating with the bad since you could also have to pay for their transgressions.
19. The Talkative Tortoise
Once upon a time, Kambugriva, the tortoise, resided beside a lake. It was very close friends with two other residents of the lake, swans. The lake started to dry up one summer, leaving the animals with little access to water. The swans told the tortoise that there was another lake in another forest, where they should go to survive. They devised a method to transport the tortoise. They forced the tortoise to bite the stick from the middle and instructed it not to open its mouth.
The tortoise was sandwiched between the swans as they flew while holding the pole at each end. The villagers in the vicinity were astounded to see a tortoise flying. Two birds using a stick to catch a tortoise caused a stir on the ground. The tortoise opened its jaws and asked, “What’s that noise all about?” despite the swans’ cautions. And it died as it fell to the ground.
Moral of the Story: Speak only when it is appropriate.
20. Goats and the Jackal
A jackal once witnessed two powerful goats fighting while travelling through a village. There were people all around the goats, cheering them on. The goats were bleeding a little and had bruises on their bodies a few minutes into the fight. Due to its attraction to the smell of blood, this jackal desired to consume some of the goats’ meat. So it immediately and thoughtlessly jumped at the goats.
The jackal was cruelly trampled on and killed by the two goats since they were stronger than the jackal.
Moral of the Story: Consider your options before jumping.
21. The Brahmin and the Goat
A Brahmin was once travelling to a nearby village carrying a goat on his shoulders. Three cunning cheats saw him and decided to steal the goat using trickery instead of force.
The first cheat approached the Brahmin and said, “Why are you carrying a dog on your shoulders?” The Brahmin ignored him and continued walking. After some distance, the second cheat said the same thing. The Brahmin looked at the goat and felt slightly confused, but still walked on.
Finally, the third cheat repeated the same words. Now the Brahmin began to doubt himself. He thought, “Everyone cannot be wrong. Maybe I am mistaken.” Believing he was carrying something unholy, he threw the goat away and ran.
The cheats laughed and took the goat with them.
Moral of the Story: Do not lose confidence by blindly believing others.
22. The Monkey and the Wedge
Once, a curious monkey wandered into a carpenter’s workshop. The carpenters were cutting a big wooden log using a wedge. After placing the wedge inside the log, they went away for lunch.
The monkey, who loved imitating humans, climbed onto the log. He noticed the wedge and wondered what it was for. Without understanding its purpose, he pulled it out playfully. As soon as the wedge came out, the log snapped shut.
Unfortunately, the monkey’s tail was caught between the log, causing him terrible pain. Crying loudly, he struggled to free himself. When the carpenters returned, they rescued the monkey, but he was badly injured.
The monkey learned his lesson and never interfered in human work again.
Moral of the Story: Never interfere in matters you do not understand.
23. The King and the Foolish Monkey
A king once had a monkey as his pet. The monkey was very loyal and followed the king everywhere. One afternoon, the king fell asleep in his garden. A fly kept sitting on the king’s face and disturbing his sleep.
The monkey tried to shoo the fly away many times, but it kept returning. The monkey became angry and decided to end the trouble once and for all. Seeing a sword lying nearby, the monkey picked it up.
When the fly sat on the king’s face again, the monkey struck at it with full force. Sadly, instead of killing the fly, the monkey killed the king.
Thus, the monkey’s foolishness caused great harm despite his good intentions.
Moral of the Story: Good intentions without wisdom can lead to disaster.
24. The Rats Who Ate the Iron Balance
Once upon a time, there lived a merchant who had a close friend. Before leaving on a long journey, the merchant handed over his heavy iron weighing balance to his friend for safekeeping. The friend promised to keep it safe until the merchant returned.
When the merchant came back after many months, he asked for his iron balance. The dishonest friend replied, “I am very sorry. Rats in my house have eaten the iron balance.” The merchant understood that his friend was lying but pretended to believe him.
A few days later, the merchant invited his friend’s young son to his house and kept him there. When the friend became worried and demanded his son back, the merchant calmly said, “Rats in my house have eaten your son.”
The frightened friend realised his mistake and begged for forgiveness. He immediately returned the iron balance. Only then did the merchant return the child safely.
Moral of the Story: Cleverness can defeat dishonesty, and lies are often punished.
25. The Bedbug and the Louse
Once upon a time, a king slept on a soft and comfortable bed. A quiet bedbug lived inside the bed. It bit the king gently at night, so the king was never disturbed and slept peacefully.
One day, a restless louse came and settled on the king’s bed. The louse began biting the king again and again, causing itching and discomfort. The king woke up in anger and called his servants. He ordered them to search the bed and kill whatever was troubling him.
Sensing danger, the clever bedbug quickly hid under the bed and remained still. The louse, however, stayed on the bedsheet and continued jumping around. The servants easily found the louse and killed it instantly.
The bedbug survived because of its patience and presence of mind.
Moral of the Story: Calm thinking and intelligence help one survive in difficult situations.
FAQs
1. How beneficial are Panchatantra stories for kids?
Panchatantra tales may help a child’s brain grow and teach them how to handle real-life challenges. The Panchatantra stories with pictures are full of wisdom, valour, and occasionally amorality. These illuminating stories encourage children to study and grow intellectually by stimulating their thinking.
2. Which is the best story in Panchatantra?
The famous stories listed above are a few of the best stories in Panchatantra. They all have a unique moral and are extremely interesting. However, you may try ‘The Crows and the Cobra’ story, ‘Right-Mind and Wrong-Mind’ story, ‘Tortoise and the Geese’ story for wisdom.
3. Why do most Panchatantra stories have animals as characters?
Animals in Panchatantra stories are used to teach lessons because each animal represents human qualities—like courage, cleverness, or greed. Using animals makes the stories fun and easier for children to understand complex ideas without feeling scared or judged.
You can narrate these Panchatantra stories to explain moral values to children. For example, Panchatantra’s stories on discipline, friendship, strength, intelligence and other virtues can make children understand what these morals stand for and their impact on their daily lives. These bedtime stories can also help in your child’s linguistic and cognitive development. To further develop your child’s qualities, get him a kid’s activity subscription kit that contains fun and interesting activities. By trying out these activities, your child can enhance his/her other skills as well.
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Bad Parenting Signs and Its Impact on Children
One of the most challenging tasks is having a good and consistent parenting style. There are instances of bad parenting that can have lasting consequences on children. Most parents use their upbringing as a blueprint for parenting, which is not recommended because of the evolution of society and new social standards. It is proven that specific parenting practices are more harmful than beneficial to your child. And what could they be? Continue reading to learn about various aspects of parenting and understand the difference you can make by being a good parent while moving farther away from bad parenting styles.
What Is Bad Parenting?
Bad parenting is a series of actions that can seriously harm the child’s demeanour and psychology. Bad parenting isn’t restricted to a single act; it is a collection of these acts that are usually what contributes to a harmful effect on the child. Most poor parenting may not be intentional, but this does not reduce its negative impact on the child. Some parents are not aware of the consequences of these actions, and some might not even care. Bad parenting might stem from not knowing enough to be a better parent or from a general lack of apathy to learning the right way.
Bad parenting can have many adverse effects on your child. With our lifestyles being as fast-paced as they are today, it might seem easy to just tell your child what to do. However, you must remember that your child is an individual who requires care and nurturing from you. Make the time to join parenting groups and forums and bring up any issues you might be facing. Have an honest conversation with other parents and listen to any advice they might have. If there are any signs of the effects of poor parenting on your child, it might be best to consult a child psychologist.
Signs of Bad Parenting
There are several actions and incidences that could make you a bad parent. Here are a few examples of bad parenting that you must avoid at all costs:
1. Reprimanding the Child Excessively
If your child does something wrong and you reprimand or scold him excessively for the mistake, it can have a negative influence on your child. This practice can have a worse effect if your child has displayed honesty and has confessed to making a mistake.
2. Disciplining the Child in Front of Everyone
You might lose your patience and scold, yell, or even hit your child in front of others. This is one of the top bad parenting signs. Such an act can have a serious impact on your child’s confidence, and the feeling of shame arising from this method of discipline will be hard to shake off.
3. All Advice, No Encouragement
You dispense advice about everything, from brushing your teeth to picking the right clothes, rather than encouraging your child with support.
4. Withholding Affection
You do not give your child hugs or say ‘I love you’ to your child often. This will make your child feel emotionally disconnected from you.
5. Not Setting Rules
Children need structure and boundaries in order to grow up to be healthy individuals. If the child does not grow with discipline, then he/she will suffer in situations outside the home environment.
6. Lack of Support
Children need support, especially during stressful times like a performance at school or examinations. You could be more concerned about your work, and this might leave your child feeling anxious.
7. Comparing Your Child
You constantly tell your child that he/she should be like other children and emulate their positive traits. This is a sign of bad parenting.
8. Not Proud of His/Her Achievements
You never praise your child for his/her achievements and do not show pride in hard work.
9. Using a Criticising Tone
Using a tone that shows disapproval of all your child’s actions will leave a negative mark on him/her.
10. Not Respecting His/Her Feelings
You do not take the time to have a conversation with your child and understand his/her feelings. When opinions and feelings are disregarded and not addressed in a healthy manner, it could adversely affect kids.
11. Being a Poor Example
Your child will pick up on all your habits and behaviours. You might want to think about why and where your child has picked up a particular behaviour.
12. Not Giving Him/Her a Choice
You do not give your child a choice and instead expect him/her to do something because you have said so.
13. Too Much Pampering
You might think that your child is the most special child, but for the rest of the world they are just another child. Making him/her feel entitled could lead to bad behaviour that causes social isolation.
14. Being Overprotective
You protect your child from every imaginable danger out there. This will make your child fearful and afraid of taking any type of risk, from making new friends to trying new activities.
15. Lack of Trust
You do not allow your child to make decisions because you are sure that they will make the wrong choices or you do not believe him/her.
16. Not Giving Your Time
You are always too busy to talk or play with your child or just have no interest in doing these things. Being glued to your phone screen while your child is talking to you can make them feel neglected.
17. Emotional Invalidation
Emotional invalidation occurs when parents dismiss, ignore, or belittle their child’s emotions. It involves minimising or trivialising their feelings, often by saying things like “Stop crying, it’s not a big deal” or “You’re overreacting.” This form of parenting can lead to the child feeling unheard, invalidated, and emotionally neglected. Over time, it may result in difficulties expressing emotions, low self-esteem, and challenges with emotional regulation.
18. Enmeshment
Enmeshment refers to a lack of healthy boundaries between parents and children. It occurs when parents overly involve themselves in their child’s life, emotions, and decisions, blurring the lines between the child’s individuality and the parents’ identity. Enmeshed parents have difficulty allowing their child to develop autonomy and independence, often exhibiting controlling behaviours, over-protectiveness, or intrusive involvement in the child’s friendships, relationships, or hobbies. This dynamic can hinder the child’s ability to develop a strong sense of self, make independent choices, and establish healthy boundaries in future relationships.
These bad parent signs are neither healthy for the children nor the parents themselves.
Impact of Bad Parenting on Children
Bad parenting can have a lasting adverse impact on your child in terms of behaviour and psychology. Here are a few effects of bad parenting:
1. Antisocial Behaviours
When your child does not consider how his actions might affect others, it is known as antisocial behaviour. A severe form of this can lead to substance abuse, mental health problems, crime, and poor health. Bad parenting actions like parental drug abuse, domestic violence, and maternal depression usually contribute to this condition. This is also observed in children whose parents displayed critical, negative, and coercive behaviour.
2. Poor Resilience
Children learn how to cope with emotional, mental, and physical trauma from seeing how their parents deal with any hardships themselves. In this case, bad parenting comes in the form of not shielding the child from a crisis or not being able to handle negative emotions, which in turn, rubs off on the child.
3. Depression
Many studies have shown that parents who have a negative approach will have children with a higher susceptibility to depression. Bad parenting actions that lead to depression include low levels of emotional and physical support, physical punishment, and an unhealthy expression of negative emotions.
4. Aggression
Many studies have shown that kindergarteners who have explosive anger issues usually have a poor relationship with their mothers. Negative parenting techniques like rough handling and expressing negative emotions towards the child during infancy will cause the child to have high levels of anger.
5. Lack of Empathy
If the child is treated with indifference at home, then chances are high that he/she will behave the same with others outside.
6. Difficulty with Relationships
Parents who do not help their child express their emotions in a healthy manner will find that their children are unable to maintain friendships. Bad parenting also could cause the child to question trust and develop low self-confidence.
What Are the Reasons for Bad Parenting?
Every parent desires to avoid spoiling their children, yet certain circumstances can lead to terrible parenting. Let’s explore how seemingly insignificant aspects of your daily routines can inadvertently contribute to less effective parenting.
Egoism: Some parents put their wants before those of their kids, acting egotistically in ways that could harm their kids’ wellbeing. Such circumstances may have an impact on children’s mental health.
Psychological Disorders: Parents facing mental health issues may struggle to care for their children adequately. Taking care of oneself while dealing with such disorders is already tricky, let alone raising a child.
Poverty: Children raised in households where poverty is a significant problem are more likely to lack access to quality education and other life requirements, even though their parents may be aware of the problem.
Families in Crisis: Parents not living with their partners can significantly impact their children’s happiness and well-being. While a single parent can be an excellent caregiver, having both parents present generally benefits a child’s happiness.
Technology: Allowing children unrestricted access to electronics without proper supervision shows poor parenting. While technology has its benefits, excessive exposure can harm children, making it essential for parents to monitor their children’s usage of technology, especially on social media platforms.
How to Be a Good Parent?
One of the biggest steps you can take is admitting that you have a few bad parenting techniques. You can always learn new ways to overcome these shortcomings. Here are a few tips on being a good parent:
1. Hands-on Parenting
Get involved with your child’s life and take it upon yourself to teach your child some of life’s most important lessons. Focus your energy on building an emotional rapport with your child.
2. Do Not Shout at Your Child
Instead of shouting at or scolding children, try to reason with them calmly. Give them a time-out if they’re being difficult and then sit down and listen to why they were upset in the first place. If it has to do with school, then calmly ask your child to explain the difficulties he/she is facing. Explain to your child why his/her actions are wrong and the larger consequences of those actions.
3. Give Reasons
If you want your child to do something, then explain to him/her the reasons behind your request. If you want him/her to finish school work before going out to play, then explain the reasons behind it. A great way to explain it would be to say that the second he/she finishes, playtime begins. This also works as motivation.
4. Set Rules
The structure is important for your child’s development. However, whatever new rules you put in place, make sure to discuss them with your child. In case you want your child to take up a chore around the house, then have a discussion with him/her about which chore he/she would like to do and to what degree you want that chore to be done. Ask your child to set up a schedule for this new chore. Sticking to this new schedule will boost self-esteem.
5. Give Your Child Choices
Talk to your child about the different options he/she might have. It can be something small like deciding if he/she wants to go to the park with you the next day. Allowing your child to make choices will boost confidence in making decisions.
6. Listen
One of the most important aspects of parenting is listening to your child. Even if what your child says seems mundane to you, you must listen, as it might be something important to him/her.
7. Be a Good Example
Children are known to pick up habits and actions from the people around them. As a parent, your child will be looking up to you for advice on almost everything, particularly in the younger years. Practice healthy habits and your child is bound to pick them up himself/herself.
8. Don’t Raise Your Hand
You’ll encounter numerous times during your parenting journey when your child may misbehave or disobey to a large extent, making you lose your patience. However, take a deep breath and count before you raise your hand on him/her. Physical violence can have serious psychological effects on the child, affecting development. In turn, this causes children to emulate the same behaviour when they become parents/
9. Inculcate Reward and Punishment
Reward and punishment are by far the best ways to discipline a child. Rewarding good behaviour and punishing bad behaviour sets a touchstone for the child on which behaviour to follow and which to avoid. Make sure to set punishments that are non-physical.
10. Don’t Suffocate Your Child
Rather than being too controlling and constantly hovering around your child’s every step, give them some element of freedom. If they know the consequences of bad behaviour, they are likely to misuse the freedom they’ve been given.
FAQs
1. Which Parenting Style Is Most Successful?
The concept of a “most successful” parenting style is subjective and can vary depending on cultural norms, individual circumstances, and the child’s temperament. However, research has identified some parenting styles that tend to promote positive outcomes for children:
Authoritative Parenting: This style combines warmth and responsiveness with clear boundaries and expectations. Authoritative parents provide support and guidance while allowing their children to develop autonomy.
Positive Parenting: Positive parenting emphasises nurturing, positive reinforcement, and open communication. It involves setting age-appropriate limits, promoting independence, and using non-punitive discipline strategies.
2. What Are the Biggest Mistakes Parents Make While Parenting?
Parenting is a challenging journey, and mistakes are a natural part of the learning process. Here are a few common mistakes parents may make:
Inconsistent discipline
Overprotection and helicopter parenting
Neglecting self-care
Focusing solely on achievements
Not listening or invalidating emotions
Bad parenting is not just harmful to your child at the moment but will definitely have a lasting negative impact on your child for years to come, which could stay on, even as an adult. Remember that parenting is not just about imparting wisdom to your child but about allowing them to grow and find their own lifestyles. This includes raising them to be responsible for their actions and accepting responsibility for the decisions they make and the actions they take. How you decide to impart the knowledge and teach them about responsibility can be the key element to raising your child. This should not be forced onto them in any manner. Talk to child psychologists to learn how to communicate with your child. It is recommended that as a parent, both your partner and you attend parenting seminars, talk to counsellors and work out a manner in which to develop and navigate through your parenting philosophy.
Coming up with a parenting philosophy can be a challenge due to the numerous hurdles in both faith and conscience that you will face. Remember that the past generations of parenting are not just to be followed blindly but to be used as a platform to evolve from. In the past hitting your child was acceptable, but research shows physical intimidation does more harm than good when it comes to raising your child. Establishing mutual respect and a line of open communication is important, so is allowing your child to make mistakes and encouraging them to recover from their failures. A point every parent must remember is not to overwhelm the child with restrictions. Letting your child grow while having fun and being social has numerous benefits to their mental health.
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20 Bedtime Prayers for Kids
Do you have a habit of saying bedtime prayer before going to bed at your home too? Well, if you don’t, you must know why it is a good habit to inculcate in your children. Saying bedtime prayers every night can help a child develop a habit of praying regularly and self-reflect on his/her thoughts, behaviour, and actions of the day. Teaching bedtime prayers to your child can be extremely beneficial. If you are religious and want to teach your religion to your child as well, bedtime prayer is a good way to start. Bedtime prayers for preschoolers and kids will not only help your child learn good thoughts but also remind them that there is a true friend in heaven who is mighty, believes in goodness, and does not fear wrong.
Read this article to find out how bedtime prayers can benefit your child and ten popular bedtime prayers you can teach your dear child.
Benefits of Bedtime Prayers for Children
Kids’ bedtime prayers are very beneficial for children. Some of the benefits of kids’ prayers before bed include:
1. Saying Bedtime Prayers Helps Reduce Stress
Studies have shown that spending some time each night on self-reflection and prayer reduces stress levels in both adults and children. Praying increases feelings of calmness and wellness, thus reducing the ill effects of stress. Prayers can also nullify the negative effects of stress on physical health.
2. Praying Helps With Self-Control
Research has found that people who pray regularly have better discipline and self-control than people who do not pray. Studies have also shown that children who pray regularly are less prone to throwing tantrums and are more disciplined.
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3. Praying Makes One Compassionate
Praying makes people more kind and compassionate. This is a value you definitely want to inculcate in your child. Studies have shown that regular prayer can reduce aggressive behaviour and prevent angry outbursts in adults and children. Praying for the needs of other people makes children more empathetic and sensitive to the feelings of people around them. Overall, praying makes kids nicer.
4. Praying Helps Develop Trust
Praying with your child strengthens the bond of trust and unity between you and your child. Praying with family members can help your child get closer to them.
5. Praying Makes One More Forgiving
Adults and children who pray regularly are found to be more willing to forgive others and are less inclined to hold grudges.
6. Praying Strengthens Faith in God
The best way for parents to inculcate and maintain their child’s faith in God is by having them pray before bedtime. Even if kids are unable to visit places of worship, due to school and homework, they still maintain a connection to God. Having a specific prayer time builds a habit that is likely to continue into adulthood as well.
7. Praying Builds Discipline
Praying every day builds discipline in kids, especially as their faith begins to grow each day. Maintaining a routine each day helps keep kids disciplined. Praying can have a great effect on children, especially if parents are having a hard time disciplining them.
8. Praying Sets a Child’s Moral Compass True North
A person’s moral compass is the internalised set of moral values and ethics he/she lives by. This is typically set during childhood, based on the beliefs inculcated in children and the experiences they have had. Praying sets a child’s moral compass north, which means their moral values are in the right place.
9. Praying Improves a Child’s Focus
Praying not only promotes good thoughts, but it also enhances the quality of focus in a child. Praying reduces stress, calms up the mind, and this de-cluttering improves focus in a child.
10. Praying Builds Positivity in a Child
While praying, your child will always have good thoughts to communicate with god. As your little one sleeps with a calm and positive mind, they will wake with a positive mood and eventually develop a positive attitude around them. This will also help them look at difficult things with a positive outlook.
11. Praying Helps a Child Physically
Praying is another form of meditation where you think of good things and try to connect with god. As you pray, you generate positive energy and help your body with reduced stress, a good nervous system, and maintained blood pressure, etc.
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Simple Bedtime Prayers for Children
Here are some simple bedtime prayers for toddlers and young children:
1. Thank You, God!
This prayer is in the form of a rhyme and can be remembered easily by children. It is also simple and can be understood without difficulty. This prayer is about thanking God for all the good things he has provided. It goes as follows:
“Thank you God for the world so sweet,
Thank you God for the food we eat,
Thank you, God for the birds that sing,
Thank you, God, for everything!”
2. Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep
This is a very popular prayer that has several variations. Here are 2 versions of this prayer:
“Now I lay me down to sleep.
I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
If I should live for other days,
I pray the Lord to guide my ways.
Lord, unto thee I pray, thou hast guarded me all day;
safe I am while in thy sight.
Safely let me sleep tonight.
Bless my friends; the whole world blesses;
Help me to learn helpfulness.
Keep me ever in thy sight,
so to all, I say good night.”
“Now I lay me down to sleep;
I pray the Lord my soul to keep.
May God guard me through the night,
And wake me with the morning light.”
3. Hi, It’s Me!
This beautiful rhyme is a child’s bedtime prayer and can be easily understood even by toddlers.
“Hi, it’s me, just come to pray
And thank you for a fun-filled day!
You’ve been with me, so I know you’ve seen
All the great exciting things.
But also when I’m sad or cross
I know you love me, no matter what!
So help me rest and go to sleep
And feel the peace of your love for me.”
4. Dear God
This is a prayer for young children of school-going age and for a child who has had a bad day or is feeling sad or troubled.
“Dear God,
I’ve felt a bit sad today.
Sometimes people say things that upset me.
Sometimes I feel lonely at school.
Sometimes I feel misunderstood by my mum and dad.
Sometimes my feelings are all mixed up inside.
Please make me feel better.
Please make me sleep with good dreams.
Please make a happier day tomorrow.”
5. Father, We Thank Thee
This children’s bedtime prayer shows gratitude to God for showering his blessings on them. This prayer is ideal for making your child understand that it is important to be thankful for the good things in life and to be kind and loving.
“Father, We thank thee for the night,
And for the pleasant morning light;
For rest and food and loving care,
And all that makes the day so fair.
Help us to do the things we should,
To be to others kind and good;
In all we do, in work or play,
To grow more loving every day.”
6. Angels Bless
This prayer asks angels to watch over your child.
“Angels bless, and angels keep
Angels guard me while I sleep
Bless my heart and bless my home
Bless my spirit as I roam
Guide and guard me through the night
and wake me with the morning’s light.”
7. Lord in Heaven
This prayer asks for God’s care and guidance. It also asks God to bless all the people who love you.
“Lord in heaven, hear my prayer,
Keep me in your loving care.
Be my guide in all I do.
Bless all those who love me, too.”
8. When I See the Moon
This is an ancient prayer that praises God for his kindness.
“When I see the moon in the night sky,
I speak my evening prayer;
Praise be to the being of life,
For his kindness and his goodness.”
9. Lord Be Beside Us
This short bedtime prayer for a child asks God to guide and protect the whole family.
“Lord be beside us, all every day
Guiding and leading us gently always.
Lord be above us, help us to see
The hope of the future, of all we could be.
Lord be beneath us, carry us when
We’re too shattered or tired to really have strength.
Lord be ahead of us, smoothing our paths
Protecting and blessing the places we pass.
Lord be behind us, healing our wounds,
Forgiving our mistakes and making us new.
Lord, be within us, this family is yours
Now and forever, you are our Lord.”
10. God, Grant Me the Serenity
This prayer is for slightly older children and asks God for serenity, wisdom, and courage.
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
Courage to change the things I can,
And wisdom to know the difference.”
11. Heavenly Feather
A grandmother wrote this beautiful bedtime prayer for kids, for her granddaughter.
“Heavenly Father, up above
Please bless this child that I love.
Let her sleep all through the night
And may her dreams be pure delight.
When she wakes, be by her side
So she can feel your love inside.
As she grows, please don’t let go
So she will know you hold her soul.
Amen.”
12. Matthew, Mark, Luke and John
This rhyme dates back to medieval times, and kids will easily comprehend this prayer.
“Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John,
Bless the bed that I lie on.
Four corners to my bed,
Four angels round my head;
One to watch and one to pray,
And two to bear my soul away.”
13. Child’s Evening Prayer
This prayer inculcates the belief in God despite not seeing Him.
“I hear no voice, I feel no touch,
I see no glory bright;
But yet I know that God is near,
In darkness as in light.”
14. Counting My Blessings
This is a cute version of a bedtime prayer where children will learn that it is they who they pray for, but for all near them.
“I count my blessings, God, 1-2-3-4,
Mommy, Daddy, friends and even more!
With my warm, snuggly bed and my cuddly, brown bear,
I might be the luckiest kid anywhere!”
15. Holy Lord
This prayer will help teach kids to gain strength and wisdom from bedtime prayers.
“Holy Lord, Thank you for grace.
Please help me move beyond the hurdles that trip me up,
And give me the strength and wisdom to look up and see the hope,
I run toward Christ.
In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
16. God My Friend
This poem is longer than most, but it presents God as a close friend and steady presence who lovingly guides and protects at all times.
“God, my friend, it is time for bed.
Time to rest my sleepy head.
I pray to you before I do.
Please guide me down the path that’s true.
God, my friend, please bless my mother,
All your children–sisters, brothers.
Oh! And then there’s daddy, too–
He says I am his gift from you.
God, my friend, it is time to sleep.
I thank you for a soul unique,
And thank you for another day,
To run and jump and laugh and play!
God, my friend, it is time to go,
But before I do, I hope you know,
I am thankful for my blessing, too,
And God, my friend, I love you.”
17. Hurry to Pray
Ideal for children who struggle with worry, this prayer encourages calm, confidence, and focusing on what can be done rather than what causes fear.
“I won’t fret, and I won’t worry,
Instead, I’ll hurry to pray,
I’ll turn my problems into petitions,
And lift my hands in praise.
I’ll say goodbye to all my fears,
His presence sets me free,
Although I may not understand,
I feel God’s peace in me. Amen.”
18. Thank you, God
By focusing on thankfulness, this prayer shows children how to find gratitude regardless of how their day went.
“Dear God, thank you for this day.
Thank you for providing food, a home, and a warm bed.
Thank you for the love people showed me.
Please guide me as I prepare to head to bed and start the day again tomorrow.
Please guide my thoughts and actions. In your name, I pray.”
19. All Creatures Great and Small
This prayer is well-suited for toddlers, thanks to its gentle rhyming and animal-themed sounds.
“The tiny, yellow chick says, “tweet, tweet, tweet,”
And the black-spotted cow says, “moo.”
The fluffy, brown dog says “woof, woof, woof,”
And the wise, old owl says, “hoo!”
From the very tall giraffe to the fishies in the sea,
All your creatures great and small,
Thank you, dear God, for each and every animal,
We know you made them all!”
20. Help Me Feel Safe in the Dark
This prayer helps comfort children who feel afraid at night by reminding them that someone is always there to protect them.
“Dear God,
When the lights go out, and Mom and Dad say goodnight,
I sometimes feel worried; it gives me a lil’ fright!
I know I am safe, but the room feels scary,
As I toss and I turn, feeling a lil’ wary.
Help me feel safe, help me to see
That even in the dark, you are here with me.
Help me fall asleep and sleep the whole night through
Knowing you’ll always love me, as I love you.”
How to Teach Night-Time Prayers to Your Child?
Just asking your child to learn bedtime prayers won’t help, as this will only bore them and make them dislike prayers. Good night prayers for kids need to be simple and something that resonates with them at their age. In the beginning, pray along with them. Build their interest early on.
Tell them the meaning of the prayer you are teaching them in a creative way that they understand at their age. Teach them about the blessings of God and their wisdom. You can also let them talk freely to God in their own way and own words. Do this every day; once they develop this habit, teach them to do it independently.
FAQs
1. How can bedtime prayers encourage gratitude in young children?
Regularly expressing thanks in prayer helps children notice and appreciate small blessings in their daily lives, fostering mindfulness and a positive outlook from an early age.
2. Are there benefits to letting children create their own bedtime prayers?
Encouraging kids to say their own words helps them feel ownership over their spiritual routine, improves self-expression, and deepens their personal connection to faith.
3. How can cultural or family traditions influence the bedtime prayers children learn?
Children often learn prayers that reflect their family’s religious background, language, or cultural heritage, shaping both the words they use and the rituals surrounding bedtime.
Making your child say a bedtime prayer every night will give you a chance to bond with him/her. You can also talk to your child about the things that might be troubling him/her and give a solution to their problem. After the prayer session, teach your child values like kindness and truthfulness. A bedtime prayer habit will also help your child calm down and sleep restfully. So, teach these bedtime prayers to your little one, and raise a happy child.
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18 Creative Punishment Ideas for Kids
If you have growing children who are naughty and make you run around the house for several impossible things, it’s time you put your foot down and be a little strict with them before they become spoiled. And this means that sometimes, you will have to punish them if they misbehave, but by punishment, we do not mean that you beat them. Spanking and yelling can have negative consequences. It could cause behavioural and psychological problems in kids and, in the long run, it can result in low self-esteem, aggression, and stress-related issues.
As parents, while punishing kids, we often forget that punishment is not supposed to make your kids afraid of you; the only aim of punishing your child is to teach the kids the importance of good behaviour. So, here are a few creative punishments for kids with which you can punish your child but for his own good.
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Is Punishment Good for a Child?
A harsh punishment is never recommended as punishments may restrict a child’s negative or unwanted behaviour for the short term but will also negatively impact the child. So, instead of physical or verbal punishments, the American Academy of Pediatrics suggest using disciplinary methods to teach them what is right or wrong.
Things To Remember Before Punishing Your Kids
Before punishing your child, you must start by discussing the crucial matters with them. Make them understand in a manner which is polite and understandable by them. Explain to them why it is important to obey the instructions and what could be the consequences of disobedience.
Also, before handing out the punishment, make them understand what and why they are getting it, so they understand that actions have consequences and misbehaviour will be punished. You can follow these ways by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) to teach your little one discipline and good values:
1. Set Examples for Them
Children are the best copycats. They do and follow what they see you doing. So, if you want them to behave the best version of themselves, you must act right in front of them as they grow, too.
Suppose you tell them to throw garbage in the dustbin, and you throw a chips wrapper on the floor, they will just do what you do and not what you told them to do.
2. Be More Understanding
Give your child a chance to explain themselves as to why they did what they did. Listen to them with an open mind. Since they are too young and still figuring out their emotions like anger and jealousy, be more empathetic and understanding towards them and then analyse their negative behaviour that prompted the punishment.
Once you understand their side of reason, you can adjust the rules and punishments if needed.
3. Set Boundaries
Right from the start, when your child begins understanding things, let them know the general rules of the house and what is OK and not. By setting boundaries, you will ensure discipline in the child.
4. Make Them Understand Behaviour and Consequence
Punishing children without letting them know what they are being punished for is not going to be effective. Hence, when you punish them, devise creative ways to help them connect the punishment with their misbehaviour and learn the responsibility for their actions.
5. Show Them Your Love and Affection
Children do not understand that the punishments their parents are giving them are for their own well-being. They separate love and affection from punishment and see it in a non-inspiring way.
The best thing you can do is make them understand why they are getting a certain punishment. When punishment is over, show your love and affection towards them, so they don’t separate from you emotionally.
18 Creative Ways to Punish a Child
If you are wondering how to punish a child without losing your temper, we have come up with the top 18 punishments for kids. The creative punishments for kids in this list of punishments for kids are not harsh and ensure that kids learn the importance of following the rules. We hope you find these punishment ideas creative and not suppressing.
1. Time-Ins
Most parents would give their kids time-outs for bad behaviour, wherein the kids sit silently in a corner. However, sometimes sitting idle may not work well with children, as kids are often active. In such cases, parents can try ‘time-ins’ wherein you send your child to the naughty corner, where instead of sitting and doing nothing, the child gets an age-appropriate task. These tasks could include memorising a poem, writing letters of the alphabet, colouring a picture, or solving math problems. This will serve the purpose of the punishment while also giving the child something useful to do.
2. Exercise
This is a punishment that might be a tad undesirable for your child especially if he doesn’t like exercising, but it surely will teach the child the consequences of bad behaviour. For example, if the child leaves dirty dishes on the table after being told not to several times, you can make them do 10 squats or sit-ups. If their behaviour is bad in social gatherings or at other public places, you could ask them to skip a rope. Eventually, they will learn to exercise, which will be good for them in the future. However, do not overdo this as it could cause muscle fatigue in your child.
3. Make them do Chores
Make a list of 25 to 30 chores such as watering the plants, dusting shelves, drying the dishes, etc. Assign points to each task. For example, watering plants could be 20 points, doing dishes could be 40 points. If your child is becoming a spoilt brat, and his bad behaviour is getting out of your control, tell him that he needs to earn points (and his freedom) by completing his punishment. For example, if he gets into a fight with friends, he has to earn 150 points before he gets to play with his friends again. This way, you discipline him, and he will get better at the household chores to earn his privilege back.
4. Timer
If your child takes too long to finish a task, like completing homework or cleaning his room, set a timer. Tell the child that if the timer rings before they are finished, they will lose some privilege like permission to watch cartoons for two days or going out to play with friends for a day. This will encourage the child to complete the task on time, and gradually, it will become a regular habit.
5. Practise
This is particularly for children who have trouble with schoolwork or have been performing poorly in school tests. Make sure you help them get lots of extra practice at home. Print out worksheets and make your children work on those. You can explain your child that until the grades go up, they need to put in extra time practising that subject even if it means less playtime per day. This will help them learn the subject, and they will be glad that you are helping them instead of scolding them.
6. Punishment Jar
Discuss with your child and come up with a list of creative punishments. Next, write down these punishments on pieces of paper and put them in a jar. The next time your child behaves in an ill manner, ask him to pick a chit from the punishment jar and do whatever is written on it. These punishments should help children learn something new or utilise their time better. Some examples of these easy-to-do punishments include activities, like taking out the trash, doing the dishes, folding the laundry, organising their closet or pulling out weed in the garden.
7. Cool-Off Time
If your child is throwing tantrums or has done something wrong in the house, let them cool off by taking them out for a run or sending them to walk the pet, if you have one. This will help them calm down and also give them time to think about what they have done. Once they are back, you can explain calmly what they did wrong and how they need to correct it. The cool-off time will also help the parent calm down so that they can discipline the children without losing their temper.
8. Tidy Up the Clutter
This is an effective way to make sure your child tidies up after making a mess. For example, if your child leaves toys or art supplies in his room, take those toys away and hide them. Tell your child that he will lose the privilege of using those art supplies or playing with his toys until he cleans up after himself.
9. No-Fight Areas
No-fight areas are actually for those parents who have a problem with their kids constantly squabbling. Designate certain areas of the house as no-fight zones. Let them stick their favourite posters or cartoons in those areas and tell them that the rule is that they cannot quarrel in front of those images. This will reduce the number of fights and help them find a way to get along better. If they break this rule, set punishments for them. Here are some examples for punishing the children – hug their sibling for 5 minutes, or do their sibling’s chores for 2 days. This will help them bond better, and you won’t have a headache because of those constant fights.
10. Early Bedtime
This works well for both little and older children. Kids love playing and hate sleeping. So, if they misbehave, tell them that their playtime will cut down, and they will have to go to bed early. The days that they behave well give them extra playtime.
11. Role Reversal
You must be aware of the role-reversal game played for fun, but when making this work as a punishment, you will make your child do one of your chores that he finds boring, like cleaning, laundry, mopping, vacuuming etc. and you will act as the child. Some ground and time-off rules can be set in advance so that kids don’t go all out when the roles are reversed. They should know what is expected out of them if they are to enact a grown-up.
12. Marbles in a Bottle
You could keep a glass bottle or a jar of a preferred size with a mouth wide enough to drop marbles. Using a permanent marker and a measuring scale, make a mark after every 2 to 3 inches. At each mark, there will be a privilege the child will lose. Now, depending on the history of bad behaviour your kid has had, you can define how many marbles need to go into the bottle every time he makes the same mistake. And, every mark he crosses, he will lose a privilege. The child will be pushed to correct his behaviour at some point to avoid meeting the mark and losing his privileges.
13. Door Slamming
Many people have this habit of breaking or banging things when they are angry. Sometimes, when children get angry and frustrated, they slam the door with good force. If your little one has this habit, then what we are going to tell you is one of the funny punishments for door slamming.
When they slam the door, as a punishment, you can instruct them to open and close the door completely in a calm and polite manner. You can ask them to do this 10 or 20 times.
14. Hold the Tongue
Holding the tongue is a creative punishment for kindergarteners as well as other children. When your child abuses, bad mouthes, or is plain rude, tell them to hold their tongue between two fingers for several minutes.
15. Warning Code
Warning code is one of the most subtle techniques to tone down a child’s misbehaviours and works perfectly well in public spaces and gatherings when you don’t want to scold your child. You and your child can decide on a warning code, like a word or a number, between yourself. So, when your child misbehaves, you can say the warning code and save your little one the trouble of embarrassment in front of people.
16. Dinner Serving
Children often fuss at dinner and don’t come to the dinner table on time, even after being repeatedly called. In such case, when they come to the table, you can ask them to serve dinner to everybody present at the table as a punishment. This way, they will understand the person’s efforts to make dinner and the value of time.
17. Withdraw Privileges
This type of punishment works well for children of all ages. A privilege can be anything from a play date or toy to watching their favourite TV show. In short, it’s about taking away something they love or value to make them realise the consequences of bad behaviour.
18. Funny Punishments
Funny punishments are light and work well by changing a negative attitude to a positive one by making them do funny activities. You can ask them to dance funny to a song until they are tired or make a painting. You can also write funny punishments in paper chits, and when a child misbehaves, you can ask them to pick one chit and act accordingly.
Children need to be disciplined in a way that is not too harsh, encourages them to correct their behaviour and listen to their parents. Punishments should not be humiliating for children; instead, they should teach kids to make better use of their time and learn something new, while learning the value of good behaviour. So, try these tips for innovative punishments in this article and see if they help to improve the behaviour of your child.
FAQs
1. What Type of Punishment Is Best for a Child?
Any harsh physical or verbal punishment is not recommended. However, good punishments for kids that are inclined towards teaching patience and non-attachment to things, like delayed privileges or not allowing them to play with their favourite items, might turn out to be effective. The end goal is to realise the consequences of their actions by helping them gain control over their actions.
2. What Happens When You Punish Your Child?
Cruel and harsh punishments like slapping, hitting, or spanking may disturb a child’s physical as well as mental well-being. Since these punishments are hard, a child may think well before doing anything as the consequences may be hurtful for them, in turn curbing their confidence and creativity. These types of punishments may also include aggression and intolerance to disciplinary actions in children when they frequently get used to harsh penalties. Plus, parent-child bonding also suffers as children start fearing the adults.
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35+ Good Habits That Parents Must Teach Their Children
Children look up to their parents throughout their lives. Parents are always a point of reference for their children, someone they turn to for guidance whenever they run into trouble, and children pick up this habit early on in their lives. As they grow, children imitate their parents’ behaviour and actions, and parents are the role models for their kids. Their wisdom and habits inevitably pass on to kids. Thus, it is important to teach children to differentiate between good and bad habits and choose the good ones. In this article, we have covered the importance of learning good habits for kids, along with some good habits that you can teach them.
Video: 10 Good Habits Parents Must Teach Their Kids
What Is Meant by Good Habits?
Good habits are repetitive actions that become a part of the child’s behaviour. These habits have a great impact on the overall development of the children. These habits also help children to develop a better personality.
Why Is It Importance to Teach Good Habits to Kids?
Children often catch some good and some bad habits while growing up. But it is important to tell them what is right for them and what is not. Here are some points on the importance of good habits for kids.
1. Defines Who You Are
Good habits of a person define their personality.
2. Help You Reach Your Goals
Adopting good habits is the first step towards becoming successful.
3. Set a Foundation for a Lifetime
Good habits develop at a young age set a foundation for what a child is going to do in the future.
4. Balanced Life
Good habit helps you to lead a balanced life.
5. Happy Life
Good habits help you to be happy and motivated in life and encourage you to always do good.
Must-Have Good Habits for Children
Inculcating the right manners and good habits for children can feel like an uphill battle. But you must be patient and lead them towards the right path. The points described below can be considered healthy habits which kids must have:
1. Healthy Eating
Pro Tip: Make food colourful.
Kids are mostly inclined towards demanding more fast food, chips, sweets, biscuits, and chocolates. You need to make them believe that even healthy food can taste equally good. They can be served a homemade version of noodles, pasta, cakes, cookies, and pizza too.
In order to make children develop this healthy habit, go the colourful way – make it a target to eat each colour of the rainbow once a week, which means eating foods of different colours in a meal. Not only does it have health benefits, but also ensures that the kids have fun eating. Parents should set a healthy example by eating regular, nutritious, and well-balanced food.
2. Physical Activity
Pro Tip: Don’t encourage sitting, move often.
Allowing your children to sit and get comfortable on the sofa and watching television would be a big mistake on your part as a parent. Do not let your kids get into a sedentary lifestyle. Encourage them to get them going, maybe for a walk or exercise or send them to play outdoors. Plan a family activity, make it something fun, and get your kids involved. Educate your kids that being a couch potato, has adverse effects on the health. Some of the health hazards a sedentary lifestyle poses are as follows:
Obesity
Trouble sleeping
Attention disorders
Emotional and social problems
3. Focus on Food-Nutrition Labels, Not Designer Ones
Pro Tip: Encourage children to read and understand food labels.
At a certain age, especially around their teenage years, your kids get interested in the labels of their clothes. Start educating your children about the more important labels that they should take notice of from a young age – food labels. Once they get into this habit, encourage them to learn about the nutritional value of food in the same way.
Show them their favourite packaged foods and point out the vital information on the nutrition labels. Make it a habit for them to read those labels, analyse the nutritional value, and then decide its worth. Advise them to focus on key ingredients such as the amount of saturated and unsaturated fats, sugar, calories, and carbs. Your conscious efforts will help develop healthy habits, which they will carry for their lifetime.
4. Enjoy Family Meals Together
Pro Tip: Make it a priority to enjoy dinner time together.
In the hectic life that we live today, there is hardly any quality time left to spend with family and elders. A busy work life could end up meaning you are unable to sit with children and listen to their stories and personal issues. Make it a priority to enjoy dinner time together with all your family members. You can discuss a number of things and share your views with each other; this will have a long-lasting impact on your children. Other benefits of eating together include the following:
Children start getting comfortable and adjust well in the family
Children develop good eating habits and avoid junk food when with elders
Bonds get stronger
5. Healthy Hydration
Pro Tip: Drink water, not soda.
Drinking soft drinks is the most common trait adopted by small children emulating elders. You need to guide your children and reinforce the importance of drinking water and avoiding soda.
Simply tell the kids that water is healthy and helps to get rid of a number of diseases; whereas soft drinks are unhealthy, as they have a lot of sugar content and add up calories, causing weight issues. Educate them that water is a vital resource, and should be taken in good amounts to maintain proper hydration. When your kids realise how important water is for their bodies, they are sure to choose it over unhealthy aerated drinks.
6. Cleaning Up the Mess
Pro Tip: Provide an organised environment for your growing children.
Cleanliness must be taught to children by default early on in life. Start by organising things properly around kids. When they get accustomed to seeing things in an orderly fashion, they will want to keep them that way too. Once they are old enough, you can assist them and allot time to clean up the mess and place them appropriately. By doing it regularly, they will soon learn and make an effort to organise their things themselves.
7. Be Responsible With Money
Pro Tip: Give them a budget.
As soon as your children become responsible enough to use money to go and buy things, you can start educating them about the value of your hard-earned money. You can get your children into the habit of saving money, by giving them pocket money once in a while, or keep a piggy bank with them.
Give them a budget and encourage them to manage their expenses and save money. This way, your children will learn the value of money and start saving.
8. Sharing Is Caring
Pro Tip: Start by encouraging sharing at home.
Children should know the value of certain objects, learn to be grateful, and be modest enough to share it with those who cannot afford it. Also teach them about the intangible things that can be shared, such as emotions, feelings, and stories. Children will learn to share with their family first – parents, grandparents, siblings, cousins, extended family, and then with other people. This attitude of sharing will make him or her a better person.
9. Don’t Litter Public Spaces
Pro Tip: Carry a plastic bag to collect your waste; bring it home and dispose it in your dustbin.
Raise your children to be civilised and responsible citizens. Explain that public spaces are not for littering and that one should throw waste into the nearest dustbin. Help them develop this simple habit, and ask them to follow it in all places, as it will help them develop into better people. Make it a habit not to litter, and your children are sure to follow your example. Always look for dustbins to throw things when outside the house. You can carry a small plastic bag with you when you step out of the house and collect all your waste in it – empty water bottles, paper napkins, etc. Bring it home and dispose it in the dustbin instead of simply leaving it at the table in the restaurant, or tossing it on the side of the road, or out the car window.
10. Be Courteous
Pro Tip: Treat people the way you would want your children to treat them – with respect, and courteously.
Being courteous is a virtue admired by everyone. Teach your kids to respect people, be it elders or young ones. Explain to them that even if they encounter someone they are not very fond of, they should be polite and part ways in a decent manner. They should be calm and cordial with everyone. These qualities will stay with them all their life, and they will be always looked upon with respect. Start by treating your children with respect first, and you will see they will pick up on this habit on their own. Be courteous with the maid. Children see, children do.
11. Be Unbiased
Pro Tip: Encourage and foster multicultural friendships.
Children are born innocent and unbiased, and the distinction is a part of social conditioning. As a parent, all you need to do is keep your children away from the tendency to discriminate. Guide them to be unbiased and treat all people equally, be it rich or poor, friend or enemy. You can encourage them to be friends with children of any religion or caste.
12. Do Not Harm Animals or Birds
Pro Tip: Show children documentaries and animal shows on TV.
Children usually get excited around animals and birds. Some feel attracted, some fear them, some get defensive, while some stay calm. They should be educated that animals and birds are living creatures that communicate in their own ways and can be friendly. They should learn to differentiate between creatures that are harmful and those which are not. Advise them to stay away from harmful ones and be kind and friendly to pets. You can educate them about the same by showing them documentaries and animal shows on TV.
13. Exercise Regularly
Pro Tip: Enroll your children for some sport.
Set a routine for yourself and your family to spend some time together for a physical activity such as walking, jogging, swimming, exercising, or doing yoga at home. Exercise will prove beneficial to the entire family in the long run. Starting it early in the children’s routine will keep them active, fit, and flexible. It will help set a healthy lifestyle for your children. Add some excitement to your workout by putting on music. The best way to do this is to enroll your child in some sport. It will teach them valuable life lessons too, the biggest being that of sportsmanship.
14. Do Not Criticise or Bully Anyone
Pro Tip: Always point out mistakes and flaws constructively.
Criticism can make or break young children. At a young age, not everyone is wise enough to take critical comments positively. Parents need to keep a watch and closely guide their children on their interaction and mannerisms. Children should be made to understand that criticism can hurt others, hence they should not speak ill about others. Unnecessary teasing or bullying someone you hardly know just for the sake of fun is wrong and not acceptable. Make it a point to never ever speak ill of family members in front of your child.
15. Be Honest
Pro Tip: Do not lie to your children. Even white lies are lies. Try and be as honest as possible, at all times.
Honesty is a very important virtue and needs to be enforced in kids from childhood. Being a parent, you are the role model for your children. Your actions and words have the greatest impact on them, positive as well as negative. Be honest at all times, especially in the presence of kids. Motivate them to speak the truth under all circumstances.
16. Patience and Perseverance
Pro Tip: Encourage them to take up gardening, or cooking.
It is rightly said ‘Patience is a virtue’, as those who are patient can be at peace, and in today’s stressful world, peace is what everyone seeks. Inculcate the trait of being patient early in your children, so they will grow to be calm and peaceful. Teach them to relax, keep calm, and wait for their turn or for certain things to happen at their own pace. Assure them that patience certainly pays off, and any adverse situation can be dealt with at ease. Encourage them to take part in activities such as gardening, or cooking, where results are not instant, and patience is required.
17. Pay Gratitude
Pro Tip: Cultivate the habit of praying twice a day.
Foster a humble attitude in your children and teach them to be thankful for all things, big and small. Cultivate the habit of praying twice a day, after waking up in the morning and before going to bed at night. Follow it yourself, and your kids will learn from you
18. Wash Hands
Pro Tip: Teach them about germs and diseases that they can pick up due to unclean hands.
Washing one’s hands before and after meals is the most common etiquette taught to students from kindergarten. Let them know that washing hands can prevent common diseases such as flu, cold, and other infections. You need to teach them the following basic rules:
Wash your hands before and after meals or after playing in sand
Use clean dry towels, or maybe tissues, to dry hands
Use antibacterial hand wash
19. Brushing Twice a Day
Pro Tip: Do it together – brush your teeth along with your child.
Oral hygiene is very important and requires to be taken good care from early childhood. The habits imparted early on will stay for a long time. Often kids get lazy when it comes to brushing their teeth, but this routine task should not be taken lightly. As a reward, you may occasionally treat them with their favourite sweets. Educate them about the proper ways of brushing:
Brush daily and twice a day
Gargle post meals – This helps avoid bad breath and cavities
Floss the teeth at appropriate times
Clean the tongue using a tongue cleaner
Do not share your toothbrush
20. Clean Ears
Pro Tip: Do it as part of drying up after a bath.
Ears are one of the most vital organs of your body. Neglecting the cleanliness of your ears may lead to a lot of discomfort and even infections. One must take extra care to clean the ears regularly right from infancy. The outer ear should be cleaned with water and wiped with dry towel daily. As children grow, you can teach them to clean their ears themselves.
21. Daily Showers
Pro Tip: Shower twice a day during summers.
Showering is a basic necessity and is recommended for people of all ages. It needs to be done the first thing in the morning after waking up. You can make your children shower twice during the hot days of summer. Alternatively, your kids should take a shower when they come home after playing outdoors. Showering rejuvenates the skin and makes them feel fresh, ready for the day, as well as for a good night’s sleep.
22. Keep Hair Clean
Pro Tip: Teach children the proper way of combing their hair.
Kids need to keep their hair clean. The scalp and hair often get dirty during travelling or playing outdoors. They should wash their hair often, minimum once in two or three days. This will keep them safe and away from lice infestations, dandruff, and excess hairfall. Make it a habit to apply oil on their scalp regularly before washing. Also make sure you use a comb that touches the scalp too while combing their hair. This improves blood circulation in the scalp, and promotes healthy hair growth.
23. Keeping Nails Short
Pro Tip: Explain to them how their nails can cause germs to enter the body
Babies often tend to put their fingers in their mouth, so it is necessary to keep the nails clean and free from dirt. As children grow, you can coach them about the necessity of keeping their nails short and clean. You can explain to them how their nails can cause germs to enter the body through scratching or through the mouth, thus making them sick.
As your children grow old enough to join school, you need to start coaching them about the value of good health and good habits. Apart from the above-listed healthy habits, here are some essential ones for school children to follow:
24. “Please”, “Thank You”, and “Sorry”
Pro Tip: Use these words as often as you can, with and in front of your children.
You should teach your children the three magical words “Please”, “Thank you” and “Sorry”, which will help them tackle many issues with ease. The habit of using these golden words also makes one respected and admired in society. Your children will come across as polite and warm-hearted people. Practise using these words with your kids often, and soon they will use these greetings frequently.
25. Helping Others
Pro Tip: Encourage children to help one person everyday.
Raise your kids to have a helpful nature. Show them the path of humility and generosity. Encourage them to provide a helping hand to those in need whenever and wherever possible. Do your part; help people, be it a friend or a stranger, in presence of your kids, but at the same time, caution them to be careful with strangers.
26. Having a Healthy and Positive Mind-Set
Pro Tip: Inculcate optimism.
Kids are very sensitive and get discouraged easily by small things or when things don’t go their way. It is very important that you get involved and talk to them so you are aware of what your children are going through and what they think about, so they don’t get into any negative self-talk. Avoid false praise; instead, ensure timely acknowledgement of their achievements and efforts. You can help kids develop self-esteem by assuring them of their capabilities and unique qualities and stress that they are loved no matter what. Try to develop their thinking to be logical and practical, so they can have a positive mindset and think accordingly when faced with challenging situations throughout their life.
27. Spend Time With Friends
Pro Tip: Organise play-dates on weekends.
It is said that friendships made in school stay for longer, maybe even for a lifetime. This is because children have innocent minds; they make friends without any selfish motives. And at a young age, friends play a very important role in the social development of your children. Children learn valuable life skills such as communication, socialising, cooperation, problem solving, and teamwork by being with friends.
During teenage and adulthood, good friends become a part of your kids’ support system. Encourage your children to make friends and spend time socialising and relaxing with them.
28. Don’t Skip Breakfast
Pro Tip: Ensure they have a nutritious, healthy start to the day.
Breakfast is the most important meal for all ages. It is especially mandatory for children and school-going kids, as it kick-starts the brain, metabolism, and body functions and provides energy throughout the day. You can provide your kids high-fibre cereals in their breakfast, as they help reduce the risk of diabetes and heart diseases. Getting used to breakfast will prove beneficial for them in their adulthood. Let them know the harmful consequences that skipping breakfast has, and reiterate that not eating in the morning increases the chances of getting obese.
29. Table Manners
Pro Tip: Start early, and encourage independence.
After a certain age, children insist on having meals themselves. Though they may like holding spoons and forks, they fail to do so properly and create a mess instead. They need to be trained to eat on their own in the right manner. You may treat them as grown-ups and start showing them the etiquette of having meals in an appropriate way.
30. Engaging in Regular Physical Activity
Pro Tip: Dedicate 40 minutes to some sort of physical activity everyday.
Children should be kept physically active by engaging them in activities they find interesting, be it playing sports, music instrument, swimming or gymnastics. This habit will enhance the growth of your children in every way. Kids will stay healthy and alert; they will learn to be strong and may likely continue these activities in later adulthood. If your children are not keen on sports or dread going to gym class, keep encouraging them to try new things and expose them to other activities. Sooner or later, they will definitely find something challenging, pleasurable, and fun.
31. Read Every Day
Pro Tip: Make it a part of your children’s bedtime routine.
The best way to inculcate the love for reading in your children is to make it a part of your children’s playtime and bedtime routine. Choose books which would make reading a treat for your children. Make it a daily habit and maintain it, as it will help build the children’s self-esteem, enhance their reading skills, and develop their imagination, vocabulary, and creativity. It proves beneficial in improving relationship and communication with parents.
32. Value Time
Pro Tip: Encourage punctuality.
We are aware of the phrase “Time is money” and know the value of time as well as money. Children need to be taught to make proper use of time, learn to get ready on time, follow daily schedules, and be punctual.
Make them understand the need of being on time to school, because they may be punished for not being punctual. As a family, you may attend several functions or parties. Make sure you reach before or on time for every occasion, and as the children grow, they will inculcate the same habit.
33. Sleep on Time
Pro Tip: Set a regular bed-time routine.
Sleep is most crucial for a growing infant as well as for a developing child. You need to instil the routine
“Early to bed, early to rise” in your children early on during their infancy. School-going kids need to be active and energetic every day, for which they require adequate sleep. Sleep helps the body retain all the energy lost during the day. Sleeping early will help your children get enough rest, making the kids feel fresh and active the next day.
Put your children to sleep early and sleep along with them. Having you close will make your children feel secure and have a sound sleep
Go to sleep daily at the same time; this will help set the pattern for the children, and they will learn to sleep on their own
Avoid letting your kids sleep for more than the required time at a stretch. If needed, the children can have a short nap during the afternoon
34. Accept Defeat
Pro Tip: Support them through their failures.
Children are prone to feel upset if they fail. It is your responsibility as a parent to support them and motivate them to take the defeat in a positive way and give their best next time. They need to be informed about life’s ups and downs and made to understand that not every defeat is permanent. It is not always about winning or losing. The effort you put in and the progress you achieve are important too.
35. Work Hard
Pro Tip: Teach your children that there are no shortcuts in life!
Enlighten your kids with the importance of working hard. Cultivate the habit of putting in their best efforts in whatever they do, be it reading, writing, or any constructive work. They should learn the fact that good luck alone does not favour success; it requires strong determination and hard work. You may give your example to your kids explaining how hard you work to earn a living.
36. No Smoking, Drinking, and Drugs
Pro Tip: Quit these habits yourself, and your child will follow suit.
Habits such as drinking, smoking, and drugs largely depend on the family background and upbringing. Ensure that you are fully involved in your children’s lives, knowing their shortcomings and supporting them at every stage, as neglect and a lack of communication leave the vulnerable to external influences. You need to educate your kids about such unhealthy habits and teach them to keep away under all circumstances. Also, warn the kids against coming under the influence of peers. As a parent, you can help by firstly not drinking and smoking yourself.
37. Household Chores
Pro Tip: Help your partner with household chores, and your children will follow.
Kids are never too young to help you with the house chores. Keep them involved in the daily activities you do, like laundry, cleaning, kitchen work, etc. This will make them learn to do things quickly.
38. Public Behaviour
Pro Tip: Behave the way you want your child to behave in public.
Teach your little one to behave in public in a good way. They must follow the road safety rules, not speak to waiters or shopkeepers in a disrespectful manner, should not litter or ruin public buildings and monuments, etc.
39. Conserving Resources
Pro Tip: Make your child turn off the tap and lights before they step out or when not in use.
It is important to make your child learn to save precious resources like water and electricity. Make your little one understand that both natural and man-made resources need to be saved.
Tips for Developing Good Habits in Children
Here are some tips on daily good habits for kids that you can follow:
1. Learn From Mistakes
Encourage your child to learn from their mistakes by setting realistic goals.
2. Use Golden Words
Encourage your kids to use golden words and to take part in skills that will help them develop their mental abilities.
3. Listen to Your Child
Listen to your little ones in order to understand them and their problems.
4. Stay Involved
Stay updated with your little one’s life in order to understand their emotions.
5. Give a Reward
Reward your child for their good behaviour to keep them motivated and helps them to continue maintaining their best behaviour at all times.
6. Set Rules
Make a regular routine and a timetable for your kid to follow.
7. Family Bonding
Make your children feel a part of yourself by planning time for everyone in the family to get together and do some activity.
8. Set an Example
Develop good habits in children by setting an example for them and doing good deeds.
FAQ
1. What Is the Difference Between Good Habits and Good Manners?
Good habits mean behaviour that is beneficial to one’s physical and mental health, whereas good manners mean to be polite or well-bred social behaviour.
You may teach your children discipline, but whether your child implements it or not will depend on how well you, as a parent, inculcate it in day-to-day life. Show them the right path and encourage them to stay on it, with positive reinforcement and praise.
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Mahabharata Stories for Kids with Moral
The Mahabharata is a literary treasure and a blend of Hindu mythology and philosophy. It is considered to be for adults only. But this great epic is more than that. Its varied stories and many characters have an appeal for the kids, too. In fact, it is a treasure trove for today’s generation raised on Harry Potter and similar tales. It has countless stories that teach valuable lessons in ethics and morality. This great epic is a part of our culture and should have a rightful place in the hearts of our children. Here are some Mahabharata stories for kids:
What Is the Mahabharata?
What is the story of the Mahabharata? It is one of the two major Hindu Mythological Sanskrit epics of India. It is the narration of the great eighteen-day Kurukshetra war between the hundred Kauravas and the five Pandavas, the children of two brothers. Interwoven with many short stories and a multitude of characters, it comprises philosophical and devotional material. It also contains the Bhagwat Gita, the much-revered Hindu religious text. The Mahabharat is not meant to be read as a pastime for amusement. You have to delve deeply into it and understand the characters and their actions and reactions. Once involved in the story, you will find yourself playing out so many roles, identifying something similar with the characters as they appear in the story.
Mahabharata Story – In Short
Here is the Mahabharat story in English in short:
The story begins with Hastinapur’s King Shantanu of the Kuru dynasty marrying the river Goddess Ganga. Bhishma, one of the prominent characters in the Mahabharata, was their son. Ganga left them to carry out her godly duties, and Shantanu married Satyavati and had two sons with her. Vichitravirya, one of the sons, became the king after him. He fathered three sons, Dhritarashtra, Pandu and Vidur. Dhritarashtra, being blind, Pandu became the king, supported by Bhishma.
Dhritarashtra married Gandhari and had a hundred sons, the Kauravas. Pandu married Kunti and Madri, and with the blessings of different gods, the five Pandavas were born. Unknown to everyone, Kunti was already an unwed mother to her oldest son, Karna.
Having brought prosperity to his kingdom, Pandu decided to retire to the forest, entrusting the kingdom to the care of Dhritarashtra. After Pandu and Madri’s deaths, Kunti came back to Hastinapur with the five boys. The cousins, Kauravas, and Pandavas never got along. There were failed attempts by the Kauravas to kill them. And after one such conspiracy, the Pandavas, with their mother, went into hiding. In this period, Arjun married Draupadi, and they all went back to Hastinapur. But they were exiled to the forest for thirteen years when, in a game of dice, Yudhishthir lost everything to the Kauravas. On their return, Duryodhana refused to give back the kingdom, and the stage was set for the greatest battle despite Lord Krishna’s attempts to bring peace. The war went on for eighteen days and ended with the defeat of the Kauravas. Yudhishthir was crowned the King.
Mahabharata Stories for Kids in English
This lengthy epic has hundreds of stories, many of which are also for children. Here are some well-known Mahabharata stories for kids.
1. Arjun and the Bird’s Eye Test
Guru Dronacharya decided to test the skills of the Kauravas and the Pandavas. He placed a wooden bird on a tree branch and asked his students to aim at its eye. One by one, they were asked what they could see. Some said they saw the tree, the sky, the branches, and the bird.
When it was Arjun’s turn, he replied calmly, “I see only the black eye of the bird.” Pleased with his focus, Dronacharya allowed him to shoot. Arjun’s arrow struck the target perfectly.
Moral: Concentration and focus lead to success.
2. Abhimanyu and the Chakravyuh
Abhimanyu, the brave son of Arjun, had learned how to enter the powerful Chakravyuh battle formation while he was still in his mother’s womb. During the Kurukshetra war, he fearlessly entered the formation to help the Pandavas.
Though surrounded by mighty warriors, the young prince fought bravely. However, he did not know how to come out of the Chakravyuh. After a fierce battle, he was unfairly defeated. His courage remains unforgettable.
Moral: Courage and bravery shine even in the face of great danger.
3. Eklavya and Dronacharya
Eklavya, a tribal boy, wished to learn archery from Guru Dronacharya but was refused. Determined to learn, he made a clay statue of the guru and practised sincerely before it. Soon, he became a skilled archer.
When Dronacharya learned of his talent, he asked for Guru Dakshina. Eklavya humbly offered his right thumb, knowing he would never shoot the same again. His devotion made him immortal.
Moral: True dedication and respect make a person great.
4. The Story of King Shibi
King Shibi was known for his kindness and truthfulness. One day, a dove sought his protection from a hawk. The hawk demanded its prey, but the king promised to save the dove.
To keep his word, Shibi offered flesh from his own body equal to the dove’s weight. As he prepared to sacrifice himself fully, the gods revealed themselves and blessed him for his righteousness.
Moral: Keeping one’s promise is the highest form of righteousness.
5. Ganesha the Scribe
Sage Veda Vyasa wished to compose the Mahabharata and needed someone wise to write it down. Lord Ganesha agreed, but on one condition—the sage must dictate without pause.
Vyasa began reciting the great epic. Whenever he needed rest, he spoke difficult verses, giving himself time while Ganesha carefully understood and wrote them. Together, they completed the magnificent Mahabharata.
Moral: Wisdom and teamwork can accomplish great tasks.
6. The Unused Weapon: Pashupatastra
During exile, Arjuna prayed to Lord Shiva for a powerful weapon. One day, a wild boar charged at him, and he shot it. A hunter claimed the kill, and they argued. Arjuna challenged the hunter but failed to defeat him.
Suddenly, Arjuna realised the hunter was Lord Shiva in disguise. Bowing in humility, he sought forgiveness. Pleased, Shiva granted him the mighty Pashupatastra and taught him to give up pride.
Moral: Humility is greater than strength.
7. Bhishma’s Terrible Vow
Devavrata, the son of King Shantanu, loved his father dearly. When his father wished to marry Satyavati, her father demanded that her son become king.
To ensure his father’s happiness, Devavrata took a terrible vow to never marry and never claim the throne. The gods named him Bhishma for his fearful promise.
Moral: Selflessness and sacrifice are marks of true greatness.
8. Draupadi and the Miracle of the Akshaya Patra
During exile, the Pandavas received a magical vessel called the Akshaya Patra that provided endless food. One day, Sage Durvasa arrived after Draupadi had finished eating, and the vessel was empty.
Worried, Draupadi prayed to Lord Krishna. He found a single grain of rice in the vessel and ate it. Miraculously, the sage and his disciples felt full and left satisfied.
Moral: Faith in God removes even the greatest troubles.
9. Bhima Meets Hanuman
While searching for a rare flower, Bhima saw an old monkey blocking his path. Proud of his strength, he asked the monkey to move. The monkey requested Bhima to lift his tail instead.
Bhima tried with all his might but failed. The monkey revealed himself as Hanuman, his elder brother. Bhima learned that true strength comes with humility.
Moral: Pride weakens, but humility strengthens.
10. Yudhishthira and the Yaksha
During exile, the Pandavas felt thirsty in a forest. Nakula found a lake, but a mysterious voice warned him to answer questions before drinking. Ignoring it, he fell unconscious. One by one, the other brothers did the same.
When Yudhishthira arrived, he listened carefully to the Yaksha’s questions about truth and duty. He answered wisely and patiently. Pleased, the Yaksha revived all his brothers.
Moral: Wisdom and patience save lives.
11. Karna’s Generosity
Karna was famous for never refusing anyone who asked for help. One day, Indra came disguised as a poor Brahmin and asked for Karna’s divine armour and earrings.
Though he knew giving them away would weaken him, Karna removed them and offered them without hesitation. His act of charity made him immortal in fame.
Moral: True generosity expects nothing in return.
12. The Game of Dice
Duryodhana, filled with jealousy, invited Yudhishthira to play dice. With Shakuni’s trickery, Yudhishthira lost his kingdom, his brothers, and Draupadi.
Draupadi prayed to Krishna when she was insulted, and he protected her honour. This unfair game led to the great war of Kurukshetra.
Moral: Greed and dishonesty lead to downfall.
13. Krishna Becomes Arjuna’s Charioteer
Before the war, Krishna offered a choice—his army to one side and himself, unarmed, to the other. Duryodhana chose the army, but Arjuna chose Krishna.
On the battlefield, when Arjuna felt confused, Krishna guided him with wise teachings. With courage restored, Arjuna was ready to fight for justice.
Moral: Right guidance leads to right action.
14. The Birth of Dhrishtadyumna and Draupadi
King Drupada wished for revenge against Dronacharya and performed a sacred yajna. From the holy fire arose a brave warrior, Dhrishtadyumna, destined to defeat Drona. Soon after, a radiant princess, Draupadi, also emerged from the flames.
Both children were born for a special purpose and later played important roles in the great war of Kurukshetra. Their lives showed that destiny often unfolds through divine will.
Moral: Destiny unfolds in mysterious ways through courage and faith.
15. The Story of Barbarika’s Promise
Barbarika, the grandson of Bhima, was a powerful warrior with three magical arrows. He promised his mother that he would always fight for the weaker side.
Before the war began, Krishna realised that this vow would upset the balance of the battle. When asked for his head as a sacrifice, Barbarika agreed without hesitation. His devotion and sacrifice became legendary.
Moral: True devotion means surrendering even what is most precious.
Moral Lessons for Children From the Mahabharata
Here are the moral lessons one can pick from the Mahabharat story for kids.
Be focused, and you will always succeed.
A teacher can guide you and inspire you, but practice will make you perfect.
Keep good company. Bad friends will bring about your downfall.
Respect women. The disrespect shown to women will bring disasters upon you.
Don’t indulge in vices like gambling. You will end up losing everything.
Don’t give up easily. Fight for what is rightfully yours. Truth always wins in the end.
Don’t apply half-learned knowledge to your actions. It will only lead to failure.
Don’t support the wrong acts of your close friends and relatives. It will bring trouble upon you as well.
Do not seek revenge. Vengeance spells the end for the seeker and the sought both.
War is never good. Matters can be resolved with dialogue.
A wrong step taken during any stage of your life can have effects for a lifetime.
Envy gives birth to rivalry, and this can cause a lot of damage to an individual.
These were some of the many moral stories from the Mahabharata for kids. Like all great epics, the Mahabharata is the story of the victory of good against evil. The word ‘Mahabharata’ has become synonymous with any great confrontation in day-to-day life, also. But its moral lessons will be synonymous with the right and truthful way of life for years and years to come.
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25 Good Manners to Teach Students & Kids
It is never too early to start teaching your child the importance of good manners and etiquette. Children at a young age have incredibly absorbent brains. They remember what they are taught with clarity and their minds absorb everything much faster than they would at a later age.
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Manners and etiquette in children is an indicator that they have been brought up well. Teaching good manners to kids may be quite a task, but make sure not to lose patience with your child. After all, being patient is also good etiquette. And kids learn from adults being good role models. Therefore, it is important that we as adults and parents exhibit the best manners in front of our children, so that they can watch and learn.
Instilling good manners in your child also makes him or her an overall pleasant person, polite, kind and more likely to succeed in life. In this article, we will look at a list of 20 good manners that your child should know and learn.
Why Children Should Be Taught Good Manners?
Children with good manners always have an edge over others, whether it is academically or socially. Here are some ways in which good manners benefit children.
1. Boosts Self-Esteem
Being rewarded for having good manners and seeing a positive impact of their behaviour in the real world makes children feel more confident. Feeling worthy of respect is a great confidence booster.
2. Social Life
Kids that are generally rude or aggressive attract the wrong kind of crowd, whereas kids who treat their peers and friends kindly and with respect are more popular and attract more loyal people who mirror their behaviour. Good manners lead to stronger and more positive relationships.
3. Better Opportunities
Well mannered children stand out from the crowd and are handed better opportunities in their academic life, as well as career. Polite people are likely to be employed and grow faster in their career
4. Happiness
Doing one good deed or seeing a positive response from someone gives people a sense of happiness and satisfaction, and they are likely to repeat this behaviour, building a habit. Good manners result in happier children.
Good Manners You Must Teach Your Children
1. Saying ‘Please’ and ‘Thank You’
This is one of the first basic manners to teach your child. The importance of saying ‘please’ when asking for something and ‘thank you’ when receiving something should be instilled in children, from the start. Put this into practice at all times, so it will eventually come naturally to them.
2. Asking Before Taking Anything
Children should learn to ask permission before taking anything that is not theirs, even with people like Mom and Dad. They should also be taught to return anything they have borrowed, with proper thanks.
3. Saying ‘Sorry’
Along with ‘please’ and ‘thank you’, saying sorry when you have done something wrong is also an important habit to instil in your child. Teach your child when and where to say sorry, and not use it casually. Empathy is a skill they have to imbibe.
4. Knocking on Doors Before Entering
Kids should be taught that privacy is paramount, especially at home. They should know that it is respectful to knock on someone’s door and ask permission before entering the room. Doing so in front of your kids will help them pick it up as a good habit.
5. Covering One’s Mouth When Sneezing or Coughing
Teach your kids to cover their mouths when they sneeze or cough. Also, teach them that picking one’s nose in public is considered rude and unpleasant. This is not only a part of good manners, but also hygiene.
6. Saying ‘Excuse Me’
This is another basic manner for children to learn. Children are naturally impatient, so they have to be taught to say ‘excuse me’ and ask permission to talk. They should also know when and how to enter a conversation without interrupting anyone.
7. Not Making Fun of People
This should be taught very early on, as if it is not, children might think it is okay to make fun of people. They should be taught that it is never okay to hurt someone’s feelings by making fun of them or bullying them in public or private.
8. Phone Etiquette
Your child should know how to talk on the phone and also be silent and listen when someone on the other end is talking. This will help make him/her leave a good impression on people.
9. Showing Respect to Elders
Adults have been on this Earth for a longer time, and kids should be taught that experience leads to wisdom, and wisdom leads to respect. They should be taught to show respect to their parents, grandparents, teachers, and any other adults they encounter. One way of doing this can be by always serving food to the elders before the kids or giving up a seat on public transport to an older adult while your kid is watching. They will know that showing deference to age indicates good manners.
10. Learning and Remembering People’s Names
Using and remembering someone’s name shows that you have made an effort to recognise and remember them. Teach your kid to remember a friend’s name or family member’s name by using it often with him or her.
11. Not Pointing or Staring at People
To teach your kids that pointing and staring at someone is rude, tell them that if they point at someone, three fingers will always point back at them. You can use that as a base to teach them to be aware of other people’s emotional space. Asking them how it would feel if they were pointed at or stared at is also a step to getting them thinking.
12. Being Kind to People With Disabilities
Children are naturally curious about everything, so if they see a person with some disability, they would point and stare, ask questions loudly, or even be scared. They should be taught that such people with disabilities are just like everyone else and should be treated with the same consideration.
13. Being a Good Guest
Teach your kids to be considerate and polite when visiting their friend’s homes. They should know how to be adaptable to the other family’s schedules, not be stubborn or fussy with the food served, and express their preferences without being vague. Kids should also be taught to greet hosts well when visiting their homes.
14. Having a Conversation the Right Way
Children should learn that yelling, shouting and screaming are not the right methods to communicate. No matter how angry or irritated they are, they should be taught to speak softly and put their point across. You can help your child to learn this by doing the same in front of them. Also, teach them to wait until the other person is done talking before taking their turn. This will also make your kids listen to you.
15. Being Compassionate and Helpful
Learning to show compassion and being helpful should become a habit to children. It will make them feel really good about themselves and also help them be well-liked by others. You can teach them things like holding the door open for people who have their hands full or helping parents and teachers with chores.
16. Learning to Share
This habit becomes very important for kids when they play with others. They should be taught that sharing is caring and to share their toys or food. You can start teaching this quality by incorporating the act of sharing when you play with them and pointing out that doing so adds to the fun.
17. Cleaning Up After Themselves
Kids can be messy eaters or not put away their clothes or toys properly after using them. To inculcate the habit of cleaning up in them, you can teach them to rinse their dishes in the sink after eating or ask them to help with household chores. They will automatically learn to clean up, as time goes by.
18. Being Honest
Start teaching kids to be honest and not tell any lies from a young age. These are core values that need to be inculcated in your children. Make sure that they stick to what they’ve said. If they make empty promises, sit them down and explain why it is important to tell the truth. Be firm and tell them that honesty is the best policy. Moral development is significant from early on.
19. Establishing Eye Contact With Others
Maintaining eye contact while having a conversation indicates social confidence and respect for people. Teach this to your kids by spending quality time with them and practising eye contact while speaking. If they learn this ability, they will grow up to have good social relationships with people.
20. Never Using Foul Language
Foul language is highly disrespectful and unpleasant. Kids should be taught never to use foul language in front of anyone, even if they have heard it on TV or outside somewhere. It is an essential habit to learn. Sit them down and explain why it is not okay to use such language.
21. Being Empathetic and Understanding
Being empathetic and understanding towards others’ feelings is a highly important manner that children should be taught during their growing years. This will help them earn respect and build stronger and long-lasting social connections in their life.
22. Gossiping
Respecting personal boundaries is one of the most important good habits for kids. Along with that, it is necessary to gossip. Understanding the concept of personal space and the consequences of gossiping or chit-chatting behind people’s backs will help them develop a sense of respect for others’ privacy and comfort.
23. Actively Listening to People
When someone is talking, it is important to pay respect to their efforts and listen to them actively. Teach your child to make eye contact, respond, nod and use appropriate gestures while talking to someone.
24. Personal Hygiene
Personal hygiene is another important manner that children should be taught from a very young age. Children should be taught the difference between dirty and clean, washing hands after using the toilet and before eating food, keeping the surroundings clean, etc.
25. Table Manners
Table manners are very important to instil in children as they show the teachings parents give to their children at home. It also reflects the lifestyle of a particular household. Show your child the proper etiquette of eating and drinking at the table. Other dining etiquette include not taking while eating, not wasting food on the plate, not spilling food out of the plate, waiting for everyone to be served before starting with food, and washing hands after finishing eating.
How to Teach Your Child Good Manners?
As a parent, you also have a huge responsibility to understand the importance of good manners in children and make sure your child grows up with them. You can use the following pointers to set your child on the right path to learning good manners.
The first step is to have all those good manners yourself. Children look up to parents as role models. If you want your child to have good manners, make sure to practice what you preach in front of them. Even in moments of frustration, don’t let your manners slip in front of your children.
Manners like being polite, knocking on doors, cleaning up after one’s self, dining table etiquette, and so on, can be practised at home with your kids repeatedly, until it gets fixed in their minds and behaviour.
When your child does something right or displays a good habit, make sure to encourage him/ her with words of positive enforcement. Children love praise, and encouraging them each time they are good will help them want to be better. Ignoring your child’s good manners may have a reverse effect, as they may resort to misbehaviour to get your attention.
Correct your child on the spot when he/ she does something wrong. Even if it is in the middle of a conversation with someone else, and your child interrupts, take a moment to stop and gently correct him/ her. However, if your child is very sensitive, you can talk in private later.
Children will frustrate you many times with their short attention span and active mind, but be patient. It is important to never lose your temper and get angry at your child. If you are calm and firm, your child will respond in the same way as well.
If you are teaching your kids to be respectful to people of other religions, groups, gender and nationalities, make sure not to carry the same biases yourself. Teach your kids to judge a person solely by their character and not by anything else.
Use polite words around your child. The words, ‘please’, ‘thank you’, ‘sorry’, ‘excuse me’, and ‘may I’ are the first few words that should be taught to a child when teaching him or her good manners. Repeatedly use them with your child and encourage them to use these words with you as well. Make it a rule at home, and your child will naturally imbibe these good manners.
Good manners are basic elements that will instil a sense of etiquette in your children and make them better human beings when they grow up. They will find it easy to get along with people, succeed at work or school, and develop good relationships with others around them. A polite, considerate child will make the best impression on the world. So, start teaching your kids these manners when they are young, itself!
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7-Year-Old Behavior Problems and Tips to Discipline Them
Your seven-year-old child is becoming more independent and can easily perform daily tasks such as bathing by himself, dressing on his own, or even making himself breakfast cereal. Your child at this age may not need hands-on supervision, but he may need constant guidance and support. Your kid may like to make his own choices and preferences at this stage. However, sometimes you may find your seven-year-old child’s behaviour to be erratic; he may talk back to you or even lie to you. Why is your kid behaving like this? There are many behavioural developments happening at this age. Here’s all you need to know about a seven-year-old child’s behaviour problems and what discipline strategies you can adopt as a parent.
What Is the Normal Behaviour of a 7-Year-Old Child?
Every kid is different, and their behaviour may depend heavily on factors such as their environment, emotional development, and physical development. Therefore, a child’s behaviour will be greatly influenced by these factors. However, here we have some behavioural traits of a seven-year-old child (1):
1. The Physical Behaviour
Your kid at this age is a powerhouse of energy and may enjoy loads of physical activities. Physical activities help your kid develop better motor skills and build physical strength. Though your kid may still struggle with his handwriting issues at this stage, his fine-motor skills are still developing. Because your child is engaged in a lot of physical activity throughout the day, they will require 10 to 12 hours of sleep at this stage.
2. The Social Behaviour
Your kid may become very friendly by this age and may also like to have many friends. He develops an attachment with his friends, too. He may get close to a few and may be wary of others.
3. The Cognitive Behaviour
Your child has a better attention span by now; he can concentrate and will even follow detailed commands or instructions from you. He may like to share or impart his knowledge or what he has learnt in school with others. He may also pick up habits from his peer group and follow them too.
4. The Emotional Behaviour
At this age, your kid is more stable in dealing with his emotions. He may adjust well to any sudden changes or transitions. Though he may still find it difficult to handle or practise self-control, which will become better as he grows, he is certainly getting better at dealing with unexpected situations.
What Are the Behaviour Issues in a Seven-Year-Old Child?
Here are some common behaviour issues or some common 7-year-old bad attitude problems:
1. Lying
Lying is one of the most common problems in kids of this age. It is very important to understand the root cause of it. Sometimes kids lie because they are unable to make a clear segregation between reality and fantasy. Parents should analyse the circumstances and situations that lead to this behaviour in their kid.
2. Defiance
Your kid may defy your orders or simply ignore what you expect him to do. Sometimes this behaviour is an indication of your kid trying to test his boundaries with the parents and till where he can get away with it. Your kid may be establishing his likes and dislikes and thus defying what you may expect him to do.
3. Emotional Swings
It is very common for kids at this age to experience emotional swings. This is because the kid at this age is at the threshold of preteens, and he is not a preschooler any longer; this may confuse him and cause emotional swings.
4. Willing to Be Affectionate in Public
You may notice your little one exercising more affection in public than in private. This may be due to the need for attention from the parents. Though this is a very contrasting behaviour, that is what this age is all about: handling confusion.
5. Anger
Anger is one of the most difficult behaviour problems in 7-year-olds. This may be described as mood swings, talking back, frustration, impulsiveness or other such behavioural traits. It is very normal for a child of this age to feel resentment or get angry; however, if the anger is getting out of control or defining your kid’s basic behaviour, then you need to act.
Why Is My 7-Year-Old Child Misbehaving?
It’s common for parents to feel puzzled when an otherwise sweet child starts testing limits. There are several developmentally normal reasons this happens:
1. Testing Boundaries
At 7 years of age, children test limits to understand rules and consequences. This is part of building independence. They are often pushing to see how much control they have over their world.
2. Social & Emotional Growth
Children at this age are learning to express big emotions with words, but they still lack complete self-regulation. Frustration, impatience, and mood swings may look like “misbehaviour” when it’s really growing pains in emotional development.
3. Desire for Autonomy
Seven-year-olds often want more control over play, screen time, food, or choices. If they don’t get something they want, they may throw tantrums.
4. Anxiety
Anxiousness is something that can make a child act out differently than how they behave normally. They may lash out or throw a tantrum to release their tension. It’s common in schools where children are required to follow rules or perform well in studies or extra currculars (2).
5. Response to Expectations
School demands increase sharply around this age. Homework, schedules, and classroom expectations may overwhelm some children, leading to acting out at home.
6. Attention Seeking
At times, children misbehave because they want attention—positive or negative. If they feel overlooked, they may escalate their behaviour to be noticed.
Research shows that children this age are still developing executive function skills (attention, control, self-regulation), and behaviours that seem inappropriate can be a normal part of development.
Parenting Tips for Disciplining a 7-Year-Old Kid With Behaviour Problems
Here are some tips for the parents for disciplining their 7-year-old kid with a behaviour problem:
1. Talk to Your Kid
Your kid is at an age where he is able to understand what you tell him to do. Therefore, the first and foremost thing to solve any kind of behaviour issue with your kid is to talk to him about the same.
2. Let Your Kid Know His Boundaries
Kids who are aware of or know what they are expected to do tend to behave better. Tell your kid about his limits and what he can and cannot do.
3. Be Positive
Always adopt a positive approach in dealing with your kid; if you want respect, make sure you also give respect to your kid and his choices. Refrain from shouting or scolding your kid. Talk in a nice manner and explain the problem (3).
4. Make Use of Quiet-Time
Ask your kid to sit quietly and think about his mistakes and behaviour, instead of you telling him what mistakes he has committed.
5. Use Logical Explanation
Try to give valid explanations for your decisions and actions, and refrain from giving any illogical explanations.
6. Be on Your Kid’s Side
Help your kid understand his faults and mistakes, and then solve various problems together. Be on his side and work on the problems as a team.
7. Avoid Aggression
The last thing your child needs is aggression from your side. They need to be counselled gently in a disciplined manner. So, make sure you teach them about their behaviour and its consequences gently (4) (5).
8. Introduce Him to Anger Busters
You can introduce your champ to stress buster activities like talking to someone whom they find their confidant, going out for play, meditating, doing some yoga, singing and dancing along to the music, doing some jumping jacks, or getting a hug. You can find more stress-buster activities here (6).
FAQ
1. Is it normal for a 7-year-old child to be angry?
Anger and occasional 7-year-old temper tantrums in early elementary school are common and part of emotional development. These emotional outbursts do not necessarily indicate a disorder, but rather an ongoing learning process in emotional regulation. At this age, children are learning emotional language, developing problem-solving skills that are not yet mature, and managing frustrations tied to school, friendships, or rules. So, anger as a part of 7-year-old behaviour is possible at this age. However, if anger is constant, extreme, or combined with extreme withdrawal, affecting academics, then a professional evaluation should be taken.
You can effectively manage various behaviour issues of your kid by following the above-mentioned tips. Alternatively, you may talk to your doctor about the same and know what can be done to solve such issues.
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