I’m going to talk about the changes that happen in your child’s behaviour when they start school for the very first time, i.e. playgroup or daycare. Almost every parent worries about their child when they send them to playgroup. Each child needs some time to settle in a new place or environment, so it’s important that you wait for them to settle. Once they do, you will start to notice some behavioural changes. Their behaviour may depend on the outside environment they are slowly imbibing, mostly due to other kids around them. Kids usually try to copy each other, which could also sometimes mean that they can learn to hit or be naughty.
I have seen many parents complain about their kids, stating that their children have stopped behaving well after coming back from school, and then they scold or even hit them for this reason on getting irritated. But that is the wrong way to approach the problem – we should wait and give our children some time to grow and understand right from wrong. Once they settle in this outside environment, i.e. school, they can learn the actual difference between good and bad. So, to all the parents who are eager to get good behaviour from their kids instantly, please wait and watch your child before you punish them for their changed behaviour. You should expect appropriate behaviour from your child once you have given them enough time to settle in an alien environment.
This reminds of two sayings about kids:
Sending your child to playgroup or daycare for the first time can be hard for a lot of parents, but remember that socialising is an important part of your child’s overall growth and development. Since this will be your child’s first time out in such a setting, it’s best to be patient and watch things unfold.
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