my kid is 3 yrs 10 months old.he is not obedient.he never listens to us.he is hyper active. we parents are now unable to control his tantrums.he is very arrogant.he always lay down to the floor when we refuse his any kind of demand. even he is hitting us and others too .he is very attention seeker.he always wants us to stay with him.but we have our own work too.we don't have any helping hands.we have to manage everything.now a days it's very challenging to keep him clam..I want to keep him clam.plz help.

A. See first of all I will tell you that you should not fulfil the demands of the child even if the child is crying on the floor and throwing tantrums just ignore the child completely because this way the child will understand this lesson over the period that this is not going to work second try to understand why your child is behaving so arrogantly and becoming so stubborn over the period there has to be something which is driving your child to behave like this so give regular counselling to the child and if your child is hitting you you really need to put a stop to it and tell your child that I’m going to give you one if you do it next time and it is not acceptable at any time so you have to be little more strict with your child and bringing up your child at the same time try not to lose your calm I mean be very firm with your wordsbut not very loud don’t scream or shout just have that kind of stern attitude that your child learns to understand what you are saying