POOJA KOTHARIMom of a 8 yr 5 m old boy2 years agoA. Stubbornness in children has always been viewed as a negative trait by their parents. But may be they should attempt to look upon it in a more positive fashion. A child's stubbornness may just be his way of demonstrating that he can think for himself and that he can assert his thoughts and beliefs. Stubbornness gives them a feeling that they have a measure of control over the situation, which in turn, boosts their self-esteem. Parents should also make a push to understand the root of their children's stubbornness. Stubbornness can have a range of causes. It may vary from irrational fears to resistance to change or just a simple attack of rebellion.Identify the problem and involve your child in seeking a solution. You will cease to be the enemy and she will feel that you are both on the same side.If you want your child to do something, try to time your request so that it does not interrupt her while she is doing something else. This is one way of avoiding conflict.If your child is not very happy about change, give her adequate notice so that she knows what to expect and is willing to cooperate.Be assertive when asking your child to do something. You are not asking them for a favour. Also, make clear the consequences of non-compliance.Keep in mind that your requests should be reasonable.Praise her when she is cooperative and well-behaved.
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