Discussion about When are you planning?? A question every women hears after marriage

Pooja Bhat Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Yes its totally up to couple when they want to b parents bcoz becoming parents is not a easy job n one should be mentally physically emotionally and financially strong enough.Ppl don't have any right to interfere in dis matter.Bt becoming parents is really a boon so every couple should plan a baby because sometimes some couples give preference to their freedom n enjoyment and delay a lot.

Abdul Rawoof Father of 3 children 6 years ago

Actually I planned baby for so many years..bt nw inshallah I blessed children..I think after marriage 2 nd year u planned kids..after ur first baby take 3 years time n planned second baby..

Swati Singh Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In the Indian context, marriage often means having a baby as soon as possible. For the present generation however marriage however comes with added responsibilities of a career... A child needs all your time, love and patience which can come only when you are at peace. Being a parent is a blessing and the biggest responsibility of one's life. Happy parents make happy confident children so it should solely be the choice of parents.

sahanaa Expecting Mom due in 1 month 6 years ago

Yes.. thats one of the most irriating question that every couple would face. Each couple have their own privacy and they know when to become a parent. Even i have faced and got pressuried n stressed at times. But thank god that dint lost long because of the arrival of my little prince❤️

Navya Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

couples has to be the final decision makers to avoid further intricacies between each other. Involvements together as a couple throughout the stages ends in having a baby in their arms and that's the happiness they would like to see. A new beginning then begins as parents with lots of responsibilities to take up, as each had promised at the time of planning.
World can just suggest you but finally it's you the mom and dad of a child who actually comes into a picture. Hence couples are the Final decision makers.

Jaspreet Kaur Expecting Mom due in 3 months 6 years ago

yeah .. it's a most irritating topic which every couple used to face just after marriage..but I was lucky one ,no one pressurised us in our family..it was our decision...and luckily was best decision..

Janki Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Children’s dont need a perfect parent thet need a loving parents

Sonam Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

the decision when to have baby is should be of parents. but if one conceive then it should not abort. after abortion body becomes weak then chances of getting pregnant slightly decrease. if u have a healthy body then the baby will also be healthy. Don't take three years gap to have a baby after marriage. one to two years gap is ok. but after three years some women faces problems to conceive. So I would suggest to newly married couples take proper precautions if u don't want baby, if u accidentally conceive then it is better to have a baby. don't go for abortion. baby comes in our life to spread happiness no matter when he come , before marriage or after marriage.

Sonam Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

the decision when to have baby is should be of parents. but if one conceive then it should not abort. after abortion body becomes weak then chances of getting pregnant slightly decrease. if u have a healthy body then the baby will also be healthy. Don't take three years gap to have a baby after marriage. one to two years gap is ok. but after three years some women faces problems to conceive. So I would suggest to newly married couples take proper precautions if u don't want baby, if u accidentally conceive then it is better to have a baby. don't go for abortion. baby comes in our life to spread happiness no matter when he come , before marriage or after marriage.

Navpreet Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

Yes it should be upon a couple's choice to become parents.They must be prepared for having a child so that they can nutured their child in a healthy environment.They must be able to afford and fulfil their child's needs.. So it must be decided by a couple when they want their child not by others .