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When are you planning?? A question every women hears after marriage

When the world comes forth to advice when to have a child! Shouldn’t it be a couple’s choice when they want to become parents??Share your views or instances on such situation.

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Farzana Intezar Mom of 5 children 7 years ago

It should be couple choice when they want become a parents but now a day society ll ask when u r getting parents. that is not right. couple should decide no one have to right to decide.

Gurpreet Kaur Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Its so true. We tend to hear this alongwith certain other questions. Why are you not planning, is there any problem, how is the relationship between you and your husband. Every person has his/her own set of questions and intentions. Some do this just out of interest and some out of concern. Well marriage is a big decision in itself and so is having a baby. Its every womens dream to become a mother. While some don't want to plan for it and just go with the flow and some want to plan according to the situation around. People around and your family will be happy when the baby is born and it wont be life changing for them as it will be for you. Moreover, nobody would be able to do as much the parents would do. Therefore, it should be always the couples decision. Sometimes its really heartbraking when somebody asks such questions. For instance, one of my friend got married in her hometown itself and is always surrounded by relatives from both sides and they will always ask her why are you not planning, when are you giving the good news etc. She gets upset hearing all this because they have been trying since long but its not happening. she got all the check ups and tests done. Its a god decision and he will bless them with the baby when its written in their fate. On the other hand, one of my friend didn't planned for 6 years because she wanted her own house before baby. So everybody's situation and aspirations are differenr and people shouldn't judge/interfere in such sensitive and personal issues. Its couple's wish along with Gods blessings.

Ramareddy Father of a 9 yr 2 m old girl 7 years ago

So many people face problems to have children's. we also face many problems and go to lot of temple. But luckily we have a daughter. The main reason of this problem is the way of lifestyle and food.

Priya Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 7 years ago

Purely depends on couples decision💏no 1 else should interfere in this !! Bcs parenting is not as easy as many thinks 💭 so couples should get ready first with full confident

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Sanjana Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

LoL ..... without giving any chance to ask me ,I gave baby first

Akansha Ahuja Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

society decides when we should have kids...hahaha. i personally faced the when are you planning question, infact some also suggested some fertility doctors without even asking if we needed them... anyway. we did not plan for a kid for 5yrs after marriage. it was an arrange marriage and we wanted to spend good time with each other and plan the kid when we are ready mentally and financially to take the responsibility happily. now we are blessed with a baby boy and we are very happy that we planned when we wanted the kid and not under the pressure of society. this way we enjoy every moment with our son and it never feels like a burden

neelavathy Mom of 7 children 7 years ago

now a days getting child is delayed dew to our food , life style has changed and many infertility center's are developed, so it's a god gift we should not postpone it.........

Rupal karavadara Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 7 years ago

yes it's a depend on merried couple but it is also related with both family also I think every parents want to see grand children so it's is also related with all family member

Neha Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

It should be only and only couple choice because marriage is a new chapter in everybody’s life, child is like a beautiful picture with joyful colours so its the only decision of couple when they want their life with more happiness with their comfortable time.

Reetika Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

There is no doubt this question rises many times in everybody life.And for this couple should be mentally prepare first.Then make proper mutual decision

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