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When are you planning?? A question every women hears after marriage

When the world comes forth to advice when to have a child! Shouldn’t it be a couple’s choice when they want to become parents??Share your views or instances on such situation.

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sanket Guardian of a 7 yr 10 m old boy 6 years ago

as per her own wish & health.

mounica Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

no one should force especially women for childre defnitely its her wish when to have child,she has to prepare mentally, physically, emotionally.Infact it isn't about just mothers but also about fathers.couples especially in cities are waiting to plan a child even after years of wedding. because they need to prepared in every possible way for adding a member into their lives.

roopa Mom of a 7 yr 6 m old boy 6 years ago

LOL...IT should be a couple's choice need not plan it happens . But.... we have to plan all the surrounding circumstances should be healthy, hygiene (means our financial situations sometimes , our age , our goals,our health condition all should be clear.
Now a days all are wanted to be an independent after settlement they get marry after that they take time to adjust finally children in general plan...
planning gives results but not feelings r emotions

Rashi Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

yes definitely a couple's choice. When to stop working if she is earning, if they can afford raising a kid with one income, weather to buy a new bigger house, maternity hospital nearby, good and experienced Gyneac, care taker or help available for delivery and after, baby products to buy from, siblings or family issues if any, medical issues of any partner if any, job related shifting of city or state, till when to continue job, each and every step I have mentioned has to be discussed between both the partners. After that only they should go ahead and plan. Parenting is a lot more fun and interesting if both the parents are free of tensions and enjoy their parenthood.

Isha Singh Mom of a 7 yr 10 m old girl 6 years ago

I agree that there is ticking biological clock which needs to be taken care by women for having baby on time and that time everybody knows...but no one else has right to pin point that...
In today's generation everyone wants to plan the things so that they could enjoy that phase not feel burden up because earlier parents use to have babies in the initial 20s of age and they spend there time to enjoy into the baby care and responsibilities which they were doing but feels as burden.... rather growing kid is always a big task fr anyone but when you have babies at matured level you are well versed to handle all the situations physically as well as mentally.
having baby is not a competition that everyone should have it at the same time...my in laws were quiet competitive fr us to have first baby to be from us because my huaband is the eldest among his cousins..but we both were knowing when to plan and we had our first baby last year..

So our generation should learn not to force or ask anyone about the baby plan because it's there choice and the rest is destined.😊

Asni Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

😓i hate such people who always find something like this to irritate you. Until u get married everyone will be asking you about marriage . Once you get married they will ask about having a baby. Once you have one they will tell about importance of having another one at the earliest.....😡. Guys just let the couple decide when do they want a baby nd all.

Arrtti Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old girl 6 years ago

I remember when I was single Every1 would ask me when I am getting married, once I was married Every1 asked when is d good news , now that i have my first baby. I have another question when is d next one?
People will ask you when, what and how, it's both of you who has to decide when to plan the baby coz it's big responsibility mentally, physically and financially.

Arrtti Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old girl 6 years ago

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