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When are you planning?? A question every women hears after marriage

When the world comes forth to advice when to have a child! Shouldn’t it be a couple’s choice when they want to become parents??Share your views or instances on such situation.

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Kalpana Mom of 2 children 1 Year ago

both choice wife and husband

Vijay Kumar Father of 3 children 2 years ago

own choice. of the couples

Nikita Mom of a 2 yr 10 m old boy 2 years ago

Bacha kab kr rhe ho?

Shailja Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

I believe for babies a woman should not be forced. Ita her decision when she wants to have a baby. Babies are not a joke..they are a new soul , new body. Web a woman's body is capable of having a body then only she should carry it otherwise forcefully having a baby means injustice with the baby and the mother.

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Community User 7 years ago

Hey i am a mother of 4 month old boy and i am married for almost 4 years and i agree to this thing that it should be a couple’s choice when to have baby. When i got married my inlaws and relatives started advising me to have baby and i was like wait i have just got married and you are asking me bto have baby(sic). But me and my husband were very clear in our head that whenever we will be prepared to have a baby than only we will plan for it. Eventually many people(my relatives) were actually discussing may be i am not able to conceive therefore we are not having baby (Lol) anyways we had baby and he was ofcourse planned😉. One advice i want to give every couple is please plan your baby when you want to because it is s very very big responsibility don’t plan because everyone is saying to plan.

I am enjoying my motherhood and everyday i am learning.

GoodDay

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Sudha Ved Guardian of a 5 yr 10 m old girl 4 years ago

its couple choice only .not a second thought.

Rifat Khan Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

it should be a couple's choice only.

Monali Gaikwad Mom of a 8 yr 2 m old boy 7 years ago

My husband and I had our first child in August, after 7 and half years of marriage. We always spoke about having kids but we never set a timeline to it. We focused on our careers, travelled, bought a house, and we became a very strong team along the way, and my husband is so involved taking care of our son now. We kept trying throughout these 7 years.

My in laws never asked us about kids, but my mother kept pestering me to the point where I dreaded speaking to her on the phone or meeting her. Then one day she said you know so and so was asking me again when you were having a baby, it's so embaracing when people keep asking me. Then I asked her, why is this person so concerned about me having babies? Is she going to help me raise the baby, provide for my baby, sponsor my child's education, etc? No right? So unless she plans on doing any of these things, tell her it's none of her business. My mom never brought up the subject again :).

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Shruti Shukla Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

I also think that it's couple's choice to have a baby and when but in a conservative family people starts to ask just after marriage.

In my case my In laws started asking just after few months of marriage, some people used to say that maybe I am not fit to have a baby. But after 1 and half years of marriage I found out that I was pregnant. I have a two year old lovely daughter.

And now we are again asked to have another baby quickly and that too a boy so that our family will be complete

You can't change the society, it's better to change your own self.

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Sabira Gaikwad Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old girl 6 years ago

it's couple wish,,, by the way they will spent n they only hv to tk care of bbys other ppl will not.....

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