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When are you planning?? A question every women hears after marriage

When the world comes forth to advice when to have a child! Shouldn’t it be a couple’s choice when they want to become parents??Share your views or instances on such situation.

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sudhir rana Father of 4 children 7 years ago

sometimes it's totally dependents on nature will .. hahaha. it should be on time.

saurabh Father of a 7 yr 4 m old girl 7 years ago

it's totally couple's decision when they are physically,mentally and financially ready to have a baby.....

neha Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

it tottaly depends on couple's,specially to mother to be
coz it will change whole life
.if both parents are working then it is very difficult for them
one should also concern about the age n lifestyle job etc dont delay much in planning for it
after all u should gv ur best to ur baby
at the end what matters is its u and ur partner's decision to have baby not anyone else.

Swapnil Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

I very well remember after completing a year of my marriage, elders in house started questioning about our family plans.
We both are working and wanted to spend time with each other. And most importantly this is our life and we should be the one deciding when we want baby.
I felt very embarrassing initially when very personal questions were asked like you both are trying, you should have baby before 30, etc.
So one day when this question was asked you both are trying right...I very casually said "Yeah...we are having sex daily 😂"
My reply put end on the questions for many days 😁😁

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Rakhi 7 years ago

Couple should have all rights for this discussion...

saba Mom of a 7 yr 5 m old boy 7 years ago

It should be couples decision. More importantly the woman's decision, because most women are working these days and giving birth to a child means she'll have to devote a significant part of her time the child and put aside her career, temporarily, at the least. None the less, couple have to take a joint decision as they have to be financially stable and emotionally ready too.

shibin Father of 2 children 7 years ago

Yes it’s absolutely the choice of the parents
Its the parents who decide when are able and mentally and financially to have a child. It shouldnt be imposed by others and jump into troubles for the kid

Babli Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Its should b always your choice ,.so that u dont have any regret in future,..if you are physically n mentaly prepared ,.then u r ready for every thing

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Shabana Zool Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Having kids is definitely a couples choice.. precisely mother’s choice is to be considered; bearing a baby in womb for 9 months is not that troublesome. But; after the Baby is born, it’s a responsibility. We, the ladies undergo many changes in our body post delivery,all sort of mental stress is also possible at that time. It can drive us all the way crazy and we have to mould the little ones to responsible citizens.. so; it’s overall nearly 25 years of our life looking after them, protecting them , pampering them, taking care of all their needs.
And mainly, the pain we undergo during the delivery is only known and experienced by us. We get cut in few areas to get the baby out and later been stitched up. The pain is really excruciating. Honestly; when my due date came I was praying plz go back and make my belly normal. We were supposed to be ready mentally and physically to have a baby. Yes; fathers do have to take care of baby financial needs etc. but the part of having a baby should definitely be a lady’s choice. Coz it’s us who have to go through all the phases with the little one

Tanusha Tr Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

It’s undoubtedly the couples choice as to when they want a baby. If u r financially, emotionally and physically ready then go for it. All said and done it’s ideal for a lady to plan her first pregnancy before she’s 30 to avoid most medical complications like GDM, PIH, chromosomal anomalies and the like which are higher beyond the age of 30 years.

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