Understanding Egocentrism in Young Children
Analyzing The Egocentric Stage of Child Development
1. The Beginning
During the first few months after birth, your little one will be the centre of her universe. Everyone around her will also fuel her desires. After crossing the six-week mark, your little one will yearn for social interaction. She will scream out “Hold me, feed me, burp me!” – these are only some of the examples of egocentrism in toddlers. When she gets positive vibes from certain people, she will form bonds.
2. The Follow-Up
When your toddler starts to walk, she begins to explore the spaces around her. Everything from tidbits around the house to even the electrical outlets will be touched or looked at. Your toddler will be curious about her surrounding and connected to the ‘big people’ who care for her. However, she will show a streak of rebellion when the same people who care for her start to put limits on her behaviour. She definitely wouldn’t like other people cramping her style! This stage of development is usually seen in kids around the age of 18 months.
3. Setting Boundaries
Egocentrism in toddlers needs to be nipped in the bud, even if in stages. Setting boundaries is absolutely essential. She will rebel if anyone goes against her ideas of the world. No matter how loudly she protests, setting limits will keep her secure and safe. When your toddler says ‘no’, it deserves a firm response from your end. A temper tantrum should never go unnoticed to curb egocentrism.
4. Their View
Toddlers will always tend to focus on their wants and needs. Their egocentric views mean that their perceptions are clouded by things that are most obvious. For most toddlers, including your little one, seeing is believing. Your toddler might believe that since she can see gifts, she should be able to have them. Childhood egocentrism needs to be dealt with effectively.
5. Forming Bonds
Your toddler’s egocentric views are challenged when they are introduced to kids their own age. When your little one has to play with her friends, she is forced to accept other toddlers’ opinions. Through this exercise, your little one will be pushed to understanding that other toddlers also have a perception of reality that could be different from hers. When your child exhibits signs of an egocentric personality, it’s time to introduce her to a playgroup.
To understand egocentrism in children, a thorough reading of Piaget’s four stages of cognitive development is recommended. However, going with your instincts could help you make smarter choices.
Share your observations and experiences if your child has exhibited egocentrism in early childhood.