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Your husband is a busy man and hardly has enough time to spend with you. However, the love and care that he lavishes on you is what makes you overlook all this. Still, if it gets you down from time to time, don’t worry. There are a lot of women out there who are in identical situations.
How to Deal with a Loving But Busy Husband Calmly
1. Don’t make last-minute plans
If you‘ve ever tried to make last-minute plans with your husband without consulting him, more often than not, you’re in for disappointment. He probably spells out a long list of things that he needs to get done and why the plan will have to be postponed. So, make sure that you consult your husband before chalking up any.
2. Time out is a serious business
Since your husband hardly has enough time to spend with you, whenever he does get an opportunity, he tries to fit in as many activities as possible. Instead of a date, you end up with a hectic schedule that you’re trying to keep. Don’t complain about it; make the most of the time you spend with him, or gently suggest doing just one or two things.
3. No Saturday night fever? Improvise!
If you’ve been trying to cope with a loving but busy husband, you’ll relate to this.For your busy husband who has a deadline to meet over the weekend, maybe a lunch date or evening tea would work best. Sit with him while he works or keep yourself entertained by the tube or a book.
4. Don’t just cancel a plan
If cancel a plan in the last minute, your husband probably hits the roof and tells you of the 101 things he could have done in the time instead. If you cancel a plan that was made some time back, make sure you have a good reason for it. Try to make up for it too by mixing a delicious drink and showering him with kisses.
5. Keep him updated
Though this can be annoying, take it in your stride and tell yourself to update his calendar and set a reminder for him. After all, he is a busy man!
6. Remember that it’s always the boss’ way!
When you start to plan a date with your husband, does he ask you to hold on till he confirms it with his boss? It’s certainly an irritating quirk, but the fact is, he needs his superior to assert that there’s no agenda before he plans an outing. Keep your cool and understand his predicament.
Being married to a man who’s always busy is not easy. There are times when you feel left out and lonely. But, don’t forget that he loves you. Hang in there and make the most of the time that you get with him.