Hello, i really worried a lot. i live in a nuclear family. my in laws are in first floor. and we are in ground floor. I don't like some of their activities. like they give chocolate, ice cream to my baby. i don't like their vocabulary too. i told them many times. but they fought with me. that's why we came separately. same thing happened 2 months ago. then I won't send my babies to their home. last week my in laws worried and complained to my husband that I am not sending my babies to them , etc.... then past 3 days I sent my babies and tolerate everything they are doing. but still they are not changed. whatever I said, immediately they tell she has to adjust everything even it cause her sick. today my elder baby wanted to come down. but they are not allowing her to come down. it really makes me worried. they think they are first priority to my babies but not me. how can I make them to understand I m her first priority. they only decide everything in my babies life help me. suggest something. it makes me stressed.