#AskTheExpert My son who will complete 4 yrs this month is very stubborn and doesn't listen to anything. He hits everyone if his wish is not fulfilled . Also doesn't care if he gets hit or falls by mistake. Is this erratic behaviour normal ? Also do we need to consult anyone for this ? IF YES, THEN WHO ?

A. Try empathizing, giving choices, and understanding that respect goes both ways. Looking for win/win solutions rather than just laying down the law keeps strong-willed children from becoming explosive and teaches them essential skills of negotiation and compromise. Strong-willed kids aren't just being difficult.