Memory Retention in your 17 Months Old

Memory Retention in your 17 Months Old

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The level of memory retention in a 17-month-old child is quite limited. Known as infantile amnesia, there are interesting reasons to why kids fail to remember things like their first birthday or their first favourite toy. Parents, for their part, can help enhance their toddlers’ memories with a few activities.





How far back can children recall things? Just as you find it tough to remember the first few months after your birth, your toddler suffers from the same memory loss too. He’ll find it quite hard to recall his first memory experiences. Let’s take a closer look at the limitations of memory retention in kids.

An Insight into Toddlers’ Memory Development

1. Pace of Memory Development

Infantile amnesia can be best explained with the help of the pace of brain development in toddlers. At about 2years of age, a toddler’s brain develops actively and learns intensely. Specifically, new synapses – such as the connection between neurons – disappear and form constantly. So, the brain keeps forming extra connections without knowing which will be useful. At a later stage, it removes the less important ones.




2. Selective Memory Retention and Recall in Children

Aside from a few exceptionally emotional or traumatic memories that babies retain, toddlers forget most of their earliest memories. For instance, a child may vaguely remember a car accident she was involved in at the age of 2. Others may remember drowning, falling off a horse, or a sibling’s birth at home. These are experiences that caused emotional stress of some kind in infancy and are remembered for long.

3. No Long-term Memory

Long term memory retention and recall is quite poor in children aged about 15 months or less. Even though these young ones get to know their moms and dads via daily visual contact, they fail to remember or learn much at this stage. As they use their short term memory only, it’s best to limit teachings to simple things.





4. When Does a Child Start to Remember Things?

The frontal lobe of a toddler’s brain, which is the region associated with the retention and retrieval of memory, fails to mature before 12 months after birth. According to experts, 6-month-old babies usually remember things for up to 24 hours. At about 9 months, they start remembering events for almost a month. However, it’s only when they are about 17 months or older that they begin developing powers of recall for four months or more.

5. Retrieval of Memory in Children

The period pertaining to how far back toddlers can remember, and the methods of memory retrieval, are important factors that influence what can be recalled. Along with the emotions associated with a specific event, the age of a child when the remembered event took place, and the age when he has to recall a memory, matters too.




There are many ways to improve memory retention in toddlers. You can play ‘I spy’ games, sing to your child, and praise him enthusiastically when he remembers something. As he grows older, move toward asking questions, encourage him to help you complete a familiar bedtime story, and motivate him to recite his favourite nursery rhymes.