If She Is a Wife and a Mother, She Is Twice Blessed

By Soundarya prasanth - Updated: October 12, 2020

I am twice blessed because I have a lovely daughter and a handsome caring husband, and the three of us are leading a happy life. Even though we have problems and tensions, that all goes away when we follow these points-

1. Playing

Playing together once a week shows a heart-based commitment to bring more joy to your life as a family and as a couple.

2. Travelling

Many families in the current economic scenario can’t afford to travel to a remote destination, and so you can plan trips to nearby places. Mark the travel dates on your calendar and commit to new adventures.
Travel expands one’s worldview. Both your children and your relationship with your spouse will benefit from travelling.

3. Surprises

Everyone loves to receive surprises, so on their important days, make them feel they are really special to you by giving them a lot of surprises.

4. B +ve

Here, I am not talking about the blood group. Instead, make sure you say more positive things than negative.
Negative includes corrections, complaints and lecturing. Positive includes telling them what you love about them by your words or by your actions.

5. Listen to Their Words

Listen to their thoughts, feelings and opinions and this will have a lasting impact on your relationship status as a cool mom and super wife.

6. Don’t Force Your Goals on Them

First, listen and absorb their hobbies and interests, then try to develop their knowledge in that. Don’t force your goals on their interest. For example, you may love to be an artist, but due to some unforeseen circumstances, that may have failed. So don’t put your goals on their mind. Everyone has their own talent. Give them their space to show it.

7. Try to Be Friendly With Your Child as Well as With Your Husband

Definitely, at some point, you have to be a strict mom and strict wife. In that stage, you have to correct them because you are the heartbeat of the home.

Finally LOVE is the only mantra that will make your normal life a happy one.

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