Every woman has a lot of emotions after childbirth. But when it comes to in-laws, she is confused about whether to follow every advice ( which they expect) given by them. As generations change, every mother feels to give her child the best of facilities of that time. Whether to follow all the suggestions coming from all around especially in-laws or concentrate on advice from your age mothers is a choice to be made. So here are my tips on how to deal with in-laws so that you make your laws.
1. Suno Sabki, Karo Apne DIl Ki
God has given mother’s some extra sense other than five senses. So be it anyone in the world, always follow your heart when it comes to making decisions for your child.
2. Give Examples of Other Mothers
It’s always better to have some examples ready when you want others to listen to your deal.
3. Doctors Magic
If in-laws are stubborn on some practice which you feel is bad for your child, always let the doctor come and explain the repercussions of that practice. The doctor always does magic in such situations.
4. Patience is the Key
Sometimes it’s better to let others observe by themselves as to consequences of not listening to mother. The child will automatically prove you right.
5. Knowledge is the Solution
To have confidence in your upbringing of the child, you ought to have some knowledge about motherhood and childcare. This will only happen if you read articles of other mothers and communicate with them.
6. Politeness as a Weapon
When everything fails, one has to be wise enough to be polite and influence others to make the best choices for your child. Remember your child is entirely dependent on you, so it’s your duty to protect your child.
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