HomeQuestions & AnswersI have 17 months old twins baby boy and girl. My baby girl is very aggressive some times hits me pull my hair hits her brother. I told her no but she wont listen. How to tackle ??
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I have 17 months old twins baby boy and girl. My baby girl is very aggressive some times hits me pull my hair hits her brother. I told her no but she wont listen. How to tackle ??
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A. Whenever my baby starts throwing tantrums or things or starts hitting ..whatever I m doing I stop and make her calm by soft speach hug and smile saying I understand let me hug u and I hug her..
After few minutes she calms down and stops crying with this Jadu ki jhapi.. then I say I understand u got upset bt can u pls share wat made u upset..and she started telling me the reason and then I try to find a way out to answer her and make her understand
And trust me things which she threw like today ka episode she threw beads and then she threw pom pom both she helped me to pick up and keep it at its place..
The idea is to understand why such behaviour from toddlers by making them calm down
Its not that I don't face statements like aur chada sir par..ya teri jaise poddadi i.e. dhili aurat buna usko bi baat baat par roye n bla bla .
It's okay..family may go against saying all this .bt I hav noticed lil changes by talking and hugging the child during the melt down .
Eventually if kid is angry and we get more angry kya faayda yaar..
I too had listen some really bitter statements today..felt lil bad too but let it go because u want your child to start sharing their thoughts problems from this age..
Pls try warm hugs some kisses and some affirmative talks
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