I am a 4 years old kid's mom.My daughter is not willing to go to school.Her school is 40 minutes distant from home.she is used to go to the car.Previously she was in kindergarten near the locality.she was not willing to go to the kindergarten also.She is used to do drama for not going to school.I am very fed up for her behaviour.My mornings start with this.she is not willing for last 2 years almost everyday.many children at her age are going to school happily after summer vacation.my mental health is also got hampered for her behaviour.I don't know what to do.

A. I understand your concern as a mother you really must be frustrated but please understand 40 minutes distance is too much for a four year old child at this age kids are mostly in nursery you cannot expect the child to travel 40 minutes one side to go to the school kids don’t like it and you’ve actually put your child way too far you should put your child into the school which is about five or 10 minutes away or where you can pick of the child for at least one year in the beginning so right now you just have to comfort your child and say that you’re going to see out of the bus you see so many new things you have so many friends to talk to and all so hopefully things are going to change over the period but as of now modern the child I feel it is your mistake I should say that you have put your child in a far of school and every child is different you cannot compare to kids Sam comfortable with that distance some are not it’s basically separation anxiety and nothing else which is very common in this age