#AskTheExpert dr. my son doesn't listen to me. he does opposite of everything i say. what should i do. he ignores me

A. hi...What i have being doing 1. Spend some more time with the kids 2. Involve them in day to day activities... Like i ask her can u pls go and ask everyone what will they have for lunch etc... 3. While cooking i ask her to help me remove the vegetable and then tell her to make the same in her kitchen 4. Whenever they scream divert the mind... I ask her name how old are you . 5. Sing along with them ... It helps