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Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

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Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!
Chubby cheeks, dimple chin, rosy lips, Teeth within, curly hair, very fair, eyes are blue ! Indians are obsessed with fair skin and girls are 'meant' to be beautiful! Express your opinion on how you want to redefine beauty for your daughter or future daughter-in-law. Share stories where you have been /seen girls getting remarks for having darker skin.
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Gowhar Jan Father of 2 children 6 years ago

For my daughter
You are dusky, you are twilight, your face isn't bright but seems to be delight.
You hair are fluffy, your hands are fluty, no one in this world can compare your beauty.
Truly n surely, you are very beautiful.
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nausheen Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
Color doesn't matter for me but i think good looks are one of the many factors which boost their confidence...
But we can change this by nurturing them from beginning... That beauty doesnt lie in colour it depends on how beautiful you are from inside.
Heena Shirodkar Mom of a 7 yr 10 m old boy 5 years ago
In reply to Firstcry User
yes it does matter those who r commenting it doesnt matter go in the memories section and see only fair chubby cheeks and good looking babies get likes and the babies with dark complexion there photos just got 3 to 4 likes and u guyz say yes i believe it doesn't matter those who r saying this they must also have liked good looking babies pics so pls it is true that it matters alot.
i dont agree with you dear... my son is not dark and still his photos never got likes more than 1-2 max... soooooo that's not true that only good looking, fair babies get more likes... ur baby is beautiful for u and all that matters is how well u do the upbringing... rest skin colour changes as time change.
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Community User 6 years ago
No that never matters for me
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fanhafoize Mom of 2 children 6 years ago
Every one likes their children how matter it is if they are fair or not fair. My baby is very cute beautiful to me. I love her however she is. I love her very much. She is my world
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Deepa Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
u r blessed with a cute baby. stop bothering about those useless ppl. u love ur baby, the way she is. As she grows, she will look more beautiful
Teena Kumawat Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
No,it doesn't matter.God blessed us with a baby.We should thanks a lot for that only.
sitara pradhan Mom of a 7 yr 7 m old girl 5 years ago
Children never differentiate between color of the skin. All they understand is love and care. So its our duty as a parent and as a builder of future society to not to teach our children such differences.
Sirisha Mom of a 6 yr 10 m old girl 6 years ago
In reply to Firstcry User
yes it does matter those who r commenting it doesnt matter go in the memories section and see only fair chubby cheeks and good looking babies get likes and the babies with dark complexion there photos just got 3 to 4 likes and u guyz say yes i believe it doesn't matter those who r saying this they must also have liked good looking babies pics so pls it is true that it matters alot.
spoke the truth!!!
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Aravind Father of 2 children 5 years ago
I'm proud of her fair complexion .....no one in the world s beautiful...
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