Discussion about Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

DIXA Mom of a 6 yr 8 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

aawwww she z such a cutieee

prabhjot kaur Guardian of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to Pratishtha Tarme

That's not the matter, that is fair and dark...every daughter is like beautiful fairy🧚‍♀️...only wonderful created by God...

My daughter's name is Fairy😊

Pratishtha Tarme Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

That's not the matter, that is fair and dark...every daughter is like beautiful fairy🧚‍♀️...only wonderful created by God...

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Pratishtha Tarme Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

That's not the matter, that is fair and dark...every daughter is like beautiful fairy🧚‍♀️...only wonderful created by God...

mitu Mom of a 6 yr 5 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

feeling sorry for the little angel..she is so cute and beautiful..don't worry,make her so so capable that hundreds of fair girls will be her inferior.
Don't be said thinking that its ur fate..think that its a challenge from God to show those nasty minded people who is what..

mitu Mom of a 6 yr 5 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

feeling sorry for the little angel..she is so cute and beautiful..don't worry,make her so so capable that hundreds of fair girls will be her inferior.
Don't be said thinking that its ur fate..think that its a challenge from God to show those nasty minded people who is what..

Aswini Mom of a 7 yr old boy 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

she is such a cutie pie 😍..
don't worry about these words.. all that matters is ur child's health. lots of loving wishes to you and your little baby

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Valiya Rizwan Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

well said

Aparajita Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

every baby is a God's gift to the family,specially to the mother,because only she knows how much trouble she has faced during pregnancy be it her health or work or finances or society. and then some ignorant come from somewhere and starts making comments to the baby. who are they to do so,they were neither asked for and before commenting they should see themselves, do they look like British. every parent should be proud of their children, try to inculcate good culture in them. yes,people do comment for colour, especially the in laws.but we should not give any importance. when we can give a good citizen to the society who is honest, hard working, sincere,truthful, constructive,then colour comments will fade somewhere in the dark.

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Community User 6 years ago

yes it does matter those who r commenting it doesnt matter go in the memories section and see only fair chubby cheeks and good looking babies get likes and the babies with dark complexion there photos just got 3 to 4 likes and u guyz say yes i believe it doesn't matter those who r saying this they must also have liked good looking babies pics so pls it is true that it matters alot.

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