Discussion about Is your daughter fair?? Does it really matter!!

Vijaya Mom of a 5 yr 7 m old boy 5 years ago

skin is not important. skills r very very important.

vijayasanthi Mom of a 6 yr 5 m old boy 5 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

such a cutie😍

Aiman bhilwarawala Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

she is very beautiful the way she is 🥰

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Urvashi Chaudhari Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to pooja

when my daughter was born no one came from my in laws (except my husband) in hospital to see my Mee and my daughter. after 2 months my father in law died, then I went to my in laws home with my daughter, no one showed any interest in new born baby. my sister in law taunts Kali(black). I was not hurted because she called her black I got hurted because none of them had feeling for the new born baby. the colour of baby would never decide how much I love her. and her fate wouldn't be decided on her colour. the people who cry to get white complexion and those who thinks white skin is beautiful they all belongs to a lower mentality. if you are not fair so it doesn't mean you not beautiful and if you can't speak English language so it doesn't mean you have lack of knowledge.

people won't be able to make her think of low of herself 'coz of her complexion.she has a clear minded mom...so no worries...👍🏼

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Ambili Gopan PE Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

no

Hussain Bamboat Mom of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago

a child believes what they have been told especially by mothers... if u make them feel beautiful they ll feel the same.. what defines beauty is different for different parents...

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Priyanka Mahendra nalla Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

no

Kavya Pareek Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Tripti 0

Not at all.
Always thanks to god that you have a child, ask to other women who wants to become a mother.

very true..nd atleast a healthy child

ANURAG AGARWAL Father of 2 children 5 years ago

Completely rubbish, all what matters is baby should be healthy and fine

मैं एक बहुत ही सुंदर बच्ची की मम्मी हूं मुझे यह बच्चे शादी के 4 साल बाद इनफर्टिलिटी ट्रीटमेंट के बाद हुई है मेरा खुद का रंग डार्क हैं और मुझे अपने डार्क कलर की वजह से अपने स्कूल के समय बहुत शर्मिंदा होना पड़ा था यहां तक मेरे पति भी मुझे काली ही कहते हैं तो मैं सचमुच नहीं चाहती थी कि मुझे भी डार्क बच्ची मिले मैं बहुत कुछ करती थी जैसे कि ज्यादा विटामिन सी लाइक ऑरेंज नारियल का पानी दूध में सैफरन लेती थी क्योंकि मुझे बताया गया था इससे बच्चे का कलर साफ होता है लेकिन मेरी सोच तब बदली जब बच्ची मुझे 7 महीना में हुई और वजन उसका 1 किलो था उस वक्त मुझे खुशी अपने मां बनने पर थी उसका रंग मेरे लिए कोई मायने नहीं रखता था उसका जीवन मायने रखता था मैं बहुत रोती थी मेरी बच्ची एक महीना आईसीयू में रही तब मुझे कहीं पर भी उसका रंग नहीं उसका बिगड़ता स्वास्थ्य ही नजर आया बस एक ही दुआ मांगती थी कि मेरी बच्ची बच जाए मैं अपनी बच्ची को इंटेलिजेंट बनाने पर ध्यान देती हूं ना की गोरे कैसे हो। मेरी बच्ची अपने हुनर की वजह से पहचानी जाए ना कि अपने रूप और रंग से

Rose Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

मैं एक बहुत ही सुंदर बच्ची की मम्मी हूं मुझे यह बच्चे शादी के 4 साल बाद इनफर्टिलिटी ट्रीटमेंट के बाद हुई है मेरा खुद का रंग डार्क हैं और मुझे अपने डार्क कलर की वजह से अपने स्कूल के समय बहुत शर्मिंदा होना पड़ा था यहां तक मेरे पति भी मुझे काली ही कहते हैं तो मैं सचमुच नहीं चाहती थी कि मुझे भी डार्क बच्ची मिले मैं बहुत कुछ करती थी जैसे कि ज्यादा विटामिन सी लाइक ऑरेंज नारियल का पानी दूध में सैफरन लेती थी क्योंकि मुझे बताया गया था इससे बच्चे का कलर साफ होता है लेकिन मेरी सोच तब बदली जब बच्ची मुझे 7 महीना में हुई और वजन उसका 1 किलो था उस वक्त मुझे खुशी अपने मां बनने पर थी उसका रंग मेरे लिए कोई मायने नहीं रखता था उसका जीवन मायने रखता था मैं बहुत रोती थी मेरी बच्ची एक महीना आईसीयू में रही तब मुझे कहीं पर भी उसका रंग नहीं उसका बिगड़ता स्वास्थ्य ही नजर आया बस एक ही दुआ मांगती थी कि मेरी बच्ची बच जाए मैं अपनी बच्ची को इंटेलिजेंट बनाने पर ध्यान देती हूं ना की गोरे कैसे हो। मेरी बच्ची अपने हुनर की वजह से पहचानी जाए ना कि अपने रूप और रंग से

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