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swati gupta Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

offcourse matter but only in your head...having a girl or boy child its not in our hands...then why bother... why we dont accept what we have...how could some1 forget the journey that a mother go through..9 months she keeps her baby inside...its a miracle in itself ...life take birth..... so what matter most.... how better human being they become...😀

Deepali Mom of a 6 yr 9 m old girl 6 years ago

hi

Bishmaya Ranjan Padhiary Guardian of a 6 yr 9 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Shalini Jaiswal

In my opinion, it really doesn't matter to me. what actually matter is, how you raise your child to make the difference. My child is 2.6 month old teach so as of now, i only teach my child how to live better being happy and respectfully. But in near future, i will also make my children learn how to cook, washing dishes, how to do laundry, cleaning-dusting along with earning their own livelihood as these are not gender limited or gender specific skills. Teachings for Loving humanity, equal love and respect for everybody's culture and tradition and also to follow your own would be an important part of teaching and learning.

completely agree with you. i m also going to teach all these things to my baby boy. i & my hubby had already decided whatever we ll have boy or girl, doesnt matter. but we ll try to make our child healty & teach him to be a good hunan being. we are trying to give him the best upbringing as we can provide & yes he must learn cooking, cleaning etc along with studies & extra curricular. cz nothing is gender specific. hopefully he ll learn, cz his parents do te household work together.

niti thakur. Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

i have seen many women desiring a boy rather than a girl..but for me becoz i m d mother of one boy nd one girl,its doesnt matter..i just want to teach both of dm to be a good human neither a boy nor a girl..we r living in 21st century but old mindset of having a boy to keep their family continue is a rubbish thought..

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Shalini Jaiswal Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

In my opinion, it really doesn't matter to me. what actually matter is, how you raise your child to make the difference. My child is 2.6 month old teach so as of now, i only teach my child how to live better being happy and respectfully. But in near future, i will also make my children learn how to cook, washing dishes, how to do laundry, cleaning-dusting along with earning their own livelihood as these are not gender limited or gender specific skills. Teachings for Loving humanity, equal love and respect for everybody's culture and tradition and also to follow your own would be an important part of teaching and learning.

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Smita Patel Mom of a 6 yr 3 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Rupinder 0

When I got pregnant... my husband and I both want to have a healthy child.. doesn’t matter either boy or girl.. it’s god gift to every parent. God blessed us with a baby boy.. healthy that’s the main thing we want

yup that what only matters healthy and naughty kid

Rupinder 0 Mom of 5 children 6 years ago

When I got pregnant... my husband and I both want to have a healthy child.. doesn’t matter either boy or girl.. it’s god gift to every parent. God blessed us with a baby boy.. healthy that’s the main thing we want

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Smita Patel Mom of a 6 yr 3 m old boy 6 years ago

In reply to Pramod

Absolutely, it matters
baby girls are best...I mean cuteness overloaded
ting ting tidding :p

really sorry it doesn't matter if it's a boy or girl both are cute tiny little innocent kid

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Community User 6 years ago

no kid is different for parents it's all about society which change parents desire and this should change wh by not bothering about what people think about our kids gender.
I love my kid irrespective of his/her gender

Frani Mom of 7 children 6 years ago

we r talking about gender inequality..so saying a boy is must or a girl is must will be very wrong.. both are very important and plays equally important roles in our society.. it really doesn't mean that we should have 2 kids ,1 boy and 1 girl, but it means whatever is given by God to us either we want 1 or 2 kids ,we should accept it with love and responsibility.. Both girl and boy r equal...

Boy V/S Girl