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GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting
Boy V/S Girl
A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?
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Divya Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
Hello all
We are two daughters . The love the care our parents have given us is always more than a son and they have proudly raised their two daughters without what society thinks back then 30 yrs . After both of our marriage we think they are left all alone i am not saying suppose even if we have a brother and he is not living with my parents then even they are left alone whatever we as daughters are 24*7 with them but all the time it is not possible for us as married daughters . But With a son they have the right over one person they can call or stay with him .
Lets think this way what the society says it is different .
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Nitika Arora Mom of a 6 yr 1 m old boy 5 years ago
Why are we discussing this does it really matter?? Is this even a valid question?
Bushra Mom of a 9 yr 2 m old boy 5 years ago
I won't think so...thy r happy fr me...today am lecture only becoz f them...thy dint discriminated between son and daughter
Neha Tanwar Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
For me it really doesn’t matter, i love to be a mother of a baby girl. I am a mother of boy nd i love him very much bt i always want to have a baby girl nd this is my only dream. Hope it will come true. I still dont understand how people dont want a baby girl nd always want a baby boy. They both r equally important
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Sajitha Gafoor Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
To me they are gift of God 😀
I'm blessed with two son and a girl . Two of them are twins . so I'm very lucky to get the precious gift by God.
There is a saying boys will be proud of the family but in my opinion both of them have their own role in family and life.
Pray to God to keep thier life safe
DON'T DIFFERENTIATE THEM
Sudeepthi Mom of a 6 yr 4 m old boy 5 years ago
mumma doesn't matter what the gender is,she only matters the love towards her baby only bothers about how to bring up her baby with good qualities
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Pooja U Mom of a 5 yr 8 m old girl 5 years ago
For a mom it doesn't matter it's a girl or boy. But still old people thinks they want baby boy for their family. Today also there are some people in society says that if you have 1girl you should try for second pregnancy for boy. I like baby girl and wanted to show such kind of people that baby girls are best.
Manish manwani Father of 2 children 5 years ago
Well it's all dsetined and according to me whatever gender it is, u must accept happily coz it's sent by God for u, it's a gift, appreciate it and value it.. If u fail in this u say no I want a boy or no I want a girl than even if u get one u won't get happiness in long term that very much boy will teach lessons that very much girl can be a cause of sorrow and when u accept happily.. God might erase the sorrow as a blessing for u coz u accepted his gift valued his choice for u.. Think deeply.. Thank you
Neha Sharma Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
It doesn't matter
swati gupta Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
offcourse matter but only in your head...having a girl or boy child its not in our hands...then why bother... why we dont accept what we have...how could some1 forget the journey that a mother go through..9 months she keeps her baby inside...its a miracle in itself ...life take birth..... so what matter most.... how better human being they become...😀
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