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GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting

Boy V/S Girl

A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?

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Neha Tanwar Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

For me it really doesn’t matter, i love to be a mother of a baby girl. I am a mother of boy nd i love him very much bt i always want to have a baby girl nd this is my only dream. Hope it will come true. I still dont understand how people dont want a baby girl nd always want a baby boy. They both r equally important

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Sajitha Gafoor Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

To me they are gift of God 😀
I'm blessed with two son and a girl . Two of them are twins . so I'm very lucky to get the precious gift by God.
There is a saying boys will be proud of the family but in my opinion both of them have their own role in family and life.
Pray to God to keep thier life safe
DON'T DIFFERENTIATE THEM

Sudeepthi Mom of a 5 yr 10 m old boy 5 years ago

mumma doesn't matter what the gender is,she only matters the love towards her baby only bothers about how to bring up her baby with good qualities

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Pooja U Mom of a 5 yr 3 m old girl 5 years ago

For a mom it doesn't matter it's a girl or boy. But still old people thinks they want baby boy for their family. Today also there are some people in society says that if you have 1girl you should try for second pregnancy for boy. I like baby girl and wanted to show such kind of people that baby girls are best.

Manish manwani Father of 3 children 5 years ago

Well it's all dsetined and according to me whatever gender it is, u must accept happily coz it's sent by God for u, it's a gift, appreciate it and value it.. If u fail in this u say no I want a boy or no I want a girl than even if u get one u won't get happiness in long term that very much boy will teach lessons that very much girl can be a cause of sorrow and when u accept happily.. God might erase the sorrow as a blessing for u coz u accepted his gift valued his choice for u.. Think deeply.. Thank you

Neha Sharma Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

It doesn't matter

swati gupta Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

offcourse matter but only in your head...having a girl or boy child its not in our hands...then why bother... why we dont accept what we have...how could some1 forget the journey that a mother go through..9 months she keeps her baby inside...its a miracle in itself ...life take birth..... so what matter most.... how better human being they become...😀

Deepali Mom of a 6 yr old girl 5 years ago

Bishmaya Ranjan Padhiary Guardian of a 6 yr old boy 5 years ago

In reply to Shalini Jaiswal

In my opinion, it really doesn't matter to me. what actually matter is, how you raise your child to make the difference. My child is 2.6 month old teach so as of now, i only teach my child how to live better being happy and respectfully. But in near future, i will also make my children learn how to cook, washing dishes, how to do laundry, cleaning-dusting along with earning their own livelihood as these are not gender limited or gender specific skills. Teachings for Loving humanity, equal love and respect for everybody's culture and tradition and also to follow your own would be an important part of teaching and learning.

completely agree with you. i m also going to teach all these things to my baby boy. i & my hubby had already decided whatever we ll have boy or girl, doesnt matter. but we ll try to make our child healty & teach him to be a good hunan being. we are trying to give him the best upbringing as we can provide & yes he must learn cooking, cleaning etc along with studies & extra curricular. cz nothing is gender specific. hopefully he ll learn, cz his parents do te household work together.

niti thakur. Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

i have seen many women desiring a boy rather than a girl..but for me becoz i m d mother of one boy nd one girl,its doesnt matter..i just want to teach both of dm to be a good human neither a boy nor a girl..we r living in 21st century but old mindset of having a boy to keep their family continue is a rubbish thought..

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