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GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting

Boy V/S Girl

A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?

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Ayushi Agarwal Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

To me it really doesn't matter being a girl or boy, to me what really matter is a child be it boy or girl, must be a good human being. If u have a boy of what people has preference of and who is not a good human being, what can you do. Having a girl or boy really doesn't matter at the end. Ask a person who does not have a single child be it a girl or a boy.

Shybina Shinoy Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

if its a boy or girl... giv den good study & make a bright futur

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Poornima Verma Mom of a 6 yr 3 m old girl 5 years ago

Does not matter at all, just a healthy baby... thats it... i am blessed vd a baby angel.... she means everything in the world.

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Udayan Father of 2 children 5 years ago

Yes, baby girls are closer to 💓...

Subhrodeep Paul Father of 2 children 5 years ago

I can clearly see extreme level of gender discrimination in this comment section itself where everyone is saying that they just wanted a girl child, I mean come on you people, our society is neither completed without a girl nor it will be completed without a boy. Even if a mother by any chance says she wanted a male child, the entire society literally started protesting against her thought, though we all know everyone has their personal opinion and that is not gender discrimination at all, you can't discriminate the male child as well in the name of gender equality and trust me now a days boys are going through this disgusting mentality where every other women is saying that only fortunate people get a girl child, girls are more attracted and affectionate towards their parents, which I completely disagree with cause this is your upbringing which make your child affectionate towards you whether its a boy or a girl, they will learn it from you, respect your won parents and in laws to the fullest and trust me your child will learn to love and respect you in the same way, but please don't discriminate the boys either to only glorify the girls, remember both are same, its your upbringing which can teach them humanity

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RITIKA MISTRY Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Neeru Gupta

A healthy baby is one should pray for and Girls are very special. I have a baby boy but we wished we could have a girl child. Any ways its Gods will but a healthy baby matters not the gender.

same here

Neeru Gupta Mom of a 7 yr 5 m old boy 5 years ago

A healthy baby is one should pray for and Girls are very special. I have a baby boy but we wished we could have a girl child. Any ways its Gods will but a healthy baby matters not the gender.

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RITIKA MISTRY Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Aanchal

If it’s ur first child then boy or girl doesn’t matter. The baby must b health. But if it’s your second child , this thought really matters. Having a boy or girl after a boy, can b accepted. Having a boy after a girl, we feel thankful to god. But if there is a girl after girl, it’s really very hard to accept. No matter how modern you are , how modern your thoughts are, your family looks incompleted.

in today's world it really don't matter even if you have two girls.... I have seen many families having two daughters and they are not having regret of anything

Afroza Wani Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

when i conceived i daily prayed to Allah to bless me with a baby girl....he listened to my prayers......

Hena Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

In reply to Sruthy

why don't we change this first and talk about gender differences later? who said dolls are only for girls

This is such a good example. I am a mother of a boy. I feel confused when even toys are differentiated. Don’t know how to raise my boy efficiently in this gender discriminating society!!

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