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GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting

Boy V/S Girl

A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?

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neha Mom of 15 children 5 years ago

no.a mom always feel same pain when labour pain is start.dono ko hi hi duniya me aane k liye 9 month lagte hai.a healthy baby happy baby is most important rather than a boy or girl.

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Riya Gandhi Mom of a 5 yr 7 m old girl 5 years ago

B4 for me gender used to not matter to me at all...but our society influence our mind...

Ajina Najeem Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

whether girl or boy.... it doesn't matters..... all matters is s/he should have a good personality..... should be kind hearted one

Dhriti Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

I m myself a planned single girl child grown up in a family with liberal views & raised up with no differences ever ♥️ n now m expecting & all what matters to me be it a girl or a boy .. will be equally special 😍 Boy ll learn to respect a girl & olso household chores & self reliant !
Girl shall b equally bold & successful in whatever she does 💓

Neha Gupta Mom of a 6 yr 11 m old girl 5 years ago

Now a days a girls mother have lot of fire🔥in there hart to change her daughter coz she faced a problem of gender differentiation. but are the boys mother also have that fire 🔥 to change thair boy child? I see vary less. I mean we are raising a girl child like a boy. but do we raising a boy child like a girl. we teach cycling, driving, sports, financial independency and so many things which we think only boys do. But do we teach our boy child cooking, others house chores, taking care of grand parents, taking care of a kid n all things which we expect a girl only do 😃. How he ll help her wife if she is sick

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Aanchal Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

If it’s ur first child then boy or girl doesn’t matter. The baby must b health. But if it’s your second child , this thought really matters. Having a boy or girl after a boy, can b accepted. Having a boy after a girl, we feel thankful to god. But if there is a girl after girl, it’s really very hard to accept. No matter how modern you are , how modern your thoughts are, your family looks incompleted.

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Suja Suresh Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

Preference for one of the child (boy) more is put into our mind by people around us. The couple who don't have children will feel atleast could be blessed by one child, when you are blessed with one you may think you should have second with the opposite gender of the first. But having a little one who looks like you, speaks like you did is a really a boon. Girl or boy it's yours, give them a best lessons of life. Respect the feelings of elder, younger or of any gender. I would prefer my son should have a sibling like my brother a best support system like my parents.

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Ayushi Agarwal Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

To me it really doesn't matter being a girl or boy, to me what really matter is a child be it boy or girl, must be a good human being. If u have a boy of what people has preference of and who is not a good human being, what can you do. Having a girl or boy really doesn't matter at the end. Ask a person who does not have a single child be it a girl or a boy.