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hetal mav Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

In reply to prati

Same thing happened with me.... My daughter also did not took bf and my mil said u did not feed her u r not her mother.... I cried a lot but I alert her last to don't say anything Abt feeding

Did she took later?

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hetal mav Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

In reply to prati

Same thing happened with me.... My daughter also did not took bf and my mil said u did not feed her u r not her mother.... I cried a lot but I alert her last to don't say anything Abt feeding

Did she took later?

ROHIDAS CHORGHE Father of 5 children 7 years ago

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pooja Guardian of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to kaushalya

I think I am only unlucky person as after my delivery that to cesarean ..on 11day I was told to go back to my house with husband ...and my mother said to me all these ...I just had years in my eyes she never liked my son .....after surgery I had gone into severe depression n my in-laws also did not come to see my baby till now he is 8 months now........the best part is my husband supported me alot ......I am very thankful to him .....he used to massage me,take care of me n my baby

same story with me

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Kavita Shukla Mom of a 8 yr 8 m old girl 7 years ago

In reply to hetal mav

hi me too suffering from depression, my baby just don't breast-feed, he just won't feed from the hospital itself. wen I came home my sis in law gave him bottle. he is on formula. I feel so angry and depressed that y did I allowed in laws to do so. All doctors said not to give bottles. N no doctors n sisters in the hospital taught me how to feed. My baby kept on crying. I still don't understand what actually happened. I feel like I dnt take care of my baby and my mother-in-law keeps on taunting abt hospital that it was ur choice. I am tired n feel like m not a good mother.

Hi hetal.. i too went through the same.. and it continued till 2.5 months. I learnt breast feeding after 2.5 months. Thanks to lactation consulatent .. can you tell mewhich place u belong to ? I can connect u with my lactation consultant.. and plz do not stress abt all these.. only mantra to keep ur baby healthy and happy is that mother should be happy.. milk or formula comes second.. lots of hugs

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sindhu bharathi Mom of a 7 yr 5 m old girl 7 years ago

it's been more than 4 months now my baby has born.. I had a c section.. dono if it has happened to any of u ppl.. I had gone into a different kinda depression.. I have started worrying I may have any deadly disease.. even if I have a little pain in head I think it's a serious problem.. once I check up with the doctor for a specific problem... once they say am alright.. I think of something else to worry... I dono how I should be coming out of this.. any tips ppl???

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pooja Guardian of 2 children 7 years ago

I too suffered from huge depression, I felt so alone, no one supported me. I even broke my mobile. now I am trying to come over depression. depression is the worst feeling. my daughter is now 5 months .

hetal mav Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

In reply to Kavita Shukla

Hi hetal.. i too went through the same.. and it continued till 2.5 months. I learnt breast feeding after 2.5 months. Thanks to lactation consulatent .. can you tell mewhich place u belong to ? I can connect u with my lactation consultant.. and plz do not stress abt all these.. only mantra to keep ur baby healthy and happy is that mother should be happy.. milk or formula comes second.. lots of hugs

hi Kavita..Thanks for ur motivation
I m from Mumbai
Was ur baby too on formula and bottle fed?

kaushalya Mom of a 7 yr 10 m old boy 7 years ago

I think I am only unlucky person as after my delivery that to cesarean ..on 11day I was told to go back to my house with husband ...and my mother said to me all these ...I just had years in my eyes she never liked my son .....after surgery I had gone into severe depression n my in-laws also did not come to see my baby till now he is 8 months now........the best part is my husband supported me alot ......I am very thankful to him .....he used to massage me,take care of me n my baby

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hetal mav Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

hi me too suffering from depression, my baby just don't breast-feed, he just won't feed from the hospital itself. wen I came home my sis in law gave him bottle. he is on formula. I feel so angry and depressed that y did I allowed in laws to do so. All doctors said not to give bottles. N no doctors n sisters in the hospital taught me how to feed. My baby kept on crying. I still don't understand what actually happened. I feel like I dnt take care of my baby and my mother-in-law keeps on taunting abt hospital that it was ur choice. I am tired n feel like m not a good mother.

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