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Mitali Patel Mom of a 6 yr 1 m old girl 5 years ago

maa maa Hoti hai unka Apne bchche keliye pyar or Dard sbse adhik hota hai koi dusra utna kabhi Ni kr paate

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pt Mom of 6 children 5 years ago

Anxiety took over me, even now. "Will I be good enough?" is my constant worry.

PAllavi Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 5 years ago

In reply to Aishwarya

hi pallavi, we both are on the same track. The problem arised only after the baby birth as we became dependent on others. Till now we are independent and are able to manage everything. once we became dependent everyone starts showing their true faces. Dont be nervous, once our kid start going to school everything will settle down. Be stubborn to face any kind of situation at any time. Usually some gap will be arise between couple after baby due to one or the other reasons, it might be baby or in-laws or your health conditions. Dont worry, try to spend quality time with baby and your husband.

thnx dear for your lovely suggestion

Aishwarya Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to PAllavi

hello everyone, I am a mother of 22 nd month of child. I thought that after delivery I will be more happy than ever. but it's not true after delivery in-laws have more expectations from me. my in-laws are with me but they have given me lots of house work. due to this I am not able to enjoy my time with baby. they are always scolding me on small things. sometimes I am juss fade up with my life.they are always complain about me to my husband. I give my child first preference due to this sometimes I am not able to give him food on time coz of this they are scolding me alot. they are creating fractions between me n my husband .nowadays my husband don't talk to me because of these silly things.my in-laws always insulted my family.these all happend after baby before they all loves me a lot. but because of baby they always started some issue.I juss want peace in my family. what can I do? plz suggests

hi pallavi, we both are on the same track. The problem arised only after the baby birth as we became dependent on others. Till now we are independent and are able to manage everything. once we became dependent everyone starts showing their true faces. Dont be nervous, once our kid start going to school everything will settle down. Be stubborn to face any kind of situation at any time. Usually some gap will be arise between couple after baby due to one or the other reasons, it might be baby or in-laws or your health conditions. Dont worry, try to spend quality time with baby and your husband.

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PAllavi Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 5 years ago

In reply to Aishwarya

Hi all...., i am the mother of three months old baby boy. in my 37th week of pregnancy my hubby attacked with dengue fever, n on 40th week of delivery i have undergone 27 hours of labour pain, on the day of delivery my mom attacked with viral fever....., after all these we have decided to go to my mother in laws hometown. My MIL is a typical person, she is having half knowledge n always says opposite to me. if i say right she says it is wrong n if i say something is wrong she says it is right. initially she dint allow me to feed my baby for every 2hrs, she said we have to feed only when baby cries. when i am trying to make him sleep she says let him play. now she is not allowing me to go to my moms house after 3rd month and not even allowing to go to my house and insisting my husband in the concern of baby let her stay here upto 5months. All my maternity leaves are going like this dipressed, am unable to enjoy with my baby, she z not allowing me to make him bath r dress up, applys lot of kajal into his eyes even though he cries. Finally now she z planning after maternity leave i have to leave my kid with her so she z trying seperate me from him n making habituated to her. when i take baby into arms she says keep him in cradle r on bed n let him grow. only for the sake of feeding she z allowing me to take him. Day by day i am feeling like hell with her, i am not able to get out of the situation, i have lost interest in all the worldy things, dont have any right to spend with my kid.

hi aish, I am suffering same problem like ur in-laws behavior. but now I am doing what makes me happy n my child also. there is lots argue between me n my in-laws. but now I am able to handle all situations. I am mother of 21 month child. I know what is wrong and what is right for my child. there is lots of problems started but being a mother give first preference to ur child not other. u r the not entertainment box to happy all the members of ur family. so spend as much as quality time with ur child. plz take care of ur child n u also

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PAllavi Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 5 years ago

hello everyone, I am a mother of 22 nd month of child. I thought that after delivery I will be more happy than ever. but it's not true after delivery in-laws have more expectations from me. my in-laws are with me but they have given me lots of house work. due to this I am not able to enjoy my time with baby. they are always scolding me on small things. sometimes I am juss fade up with my life.they are always complain about me to my husband. I give my child first preference due to this sometimes I am not able to give him food on time coz of this they are scolding me alot. they are creating fractions between me n my husband .nowadays my husband don't talk to me because of these silly things.my in-laws always insulted my family.these all happend after baby before they all loves me a lot. but because of baby they always started some issue.I juss want peace in my family. what can I do? plz suggests

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PAllavi Mom of a 7 yr 8 m old boy 5 years ago

In reply to Medha Bhargava

plan play dates for ur child...meet those frnds who also hv kids of ur child age.....n njoy raising child...take help from elders as much u can....i knw tough but it is required for our goodness only....yesterday i was in wedding with my 3 month old son....despite all troubles i tried enjoying coz i took all needful help from my in laws n relatives....we r mothers n not slaves.....pls dont hesitate to take help....

thnx alot dear for your suggestions

Medha Bhargava Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

In reply to PAllavi

I am mother of 21 month baby. I feel lonely 😔 and empty. I think that no one loves me.i am more worried about my carriers. I am not going anywhere because of baby. I want to go outside but my hubby is always busy. I don't know what makes me happy. I am juss fade up with my life. no one is care about me. what things can I do that makes me happy? plz suggests

plan play dates for ur child...meet those frnds who also hv kids of ur child age.....n njoy raising child...take help from elders as much u can....i knw tough but it is required for our goodness only....yesterday i was in wedding with my 3 month old son....despite all troubles i tried enjoying coz i took all needful help from my in laws n relatives....we r mothers n not slaves.....pls dont hesitate to take help....

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Prathma Shah Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

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RasminaRamshid Mom of a 7 yr 2 m old boy 5 years ago

In reply to Aishwarya

Hi all...., i am the mother of three months old baby boy. in my 37th week of pregnancy my hubby attacked with dengue fever, n on 40th week of delivery i have undergone 27 hours of labour pain, on the day of delivery my mom attacked with viral fever....., after all these we have decided to go to my mother in laws hometown. My MIL is a typical person, she is having half knowledge n always says opposite to me. if i say right she says it is wrong n if i say something is wrong she says it is right. initially she dint allow me to feed my baby for every 2hrs, she said we have to feed only when baby cries. when i am trying to make him sleep she says let him play. now she is not allowing me to go to my moms house after 3rd month and not even allowing to go to my house and insisting my husband in the concern of baby let her stay here upto 5months. All my maternity leaves are going like this dipressed, am unable to enjoy with my baby, she z not allowing me to make him bath r dress up, applys lot of kajal into his eyes even though he cries. Finally now she z planning after maternity leave i have to leave my kid with her so she z trying seperate me from him n making habituated to her. when i take baby into arms she says keep him in cradle r on bed n let him grow. only for the sake of feeding she z allowing me to take him. Day by day i am feeling like hell with her, i am not able to get out of the situation, i have lost interest in all the worldy things, dont have any right to spend with my kid.

how did u manage this pain. ur bany deserves ur love and even ur mothers. dont let this happen for long. try to make ur husband understand this situation. its very sad wen i heard ur story.

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