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A mother is the first teacher, first friend, and first companion of her child. She is the first inspiration for her child! When a child is born, a mother is also born. A new mother may experience discomfort initially, not knowing what’s the right thing for her baby, but she soon learns, because she is a mother.
Before becoming a mother, a woman is an individual with her values for life. When she becomes a mother, she can’t change herself but she decides to be a better version of herself for her kids!
I am a single mom, but I prefer to address myself as a supermom, as I believe if I cannot be the best mom to my kids how will they become the best kids?! I am in process of turning my kids into two super kids!
I have faced enough difficulties in my life, but I can proudly say that I have overcome them. That time was difficult and painful, but instead of giving up, I decided to move on. I didn’t try to hide or protect my kids from those difficulties, rather I made them understand our situation and problems and guided them!
My son and daughter are my family, my special family and I make them believe that we are extraordinary and can do all that others can’t even think of. I am happily sharing that both the kids are doing well in studies and I believe I have set an example for them.
After separation, I started studying and earning certificates and degrees. And I believe, watching me earn certificates and degrees made them realise that learning and education is an ongoing process and a good thing because their mom is doing so.
As I said, I didn’t hide anything from my kids. I made them see the difficulties I was facing, and I did so because I believe that it makes kids understand that difficulties are also a part of lives, just like happiness and that they should not give up when faced with an unwanted situation. I made them understand that there will be problems in lives and things will seem impossible, but we can overcome any situation or at least try to by giving our 100 per cent!
All parents want that their kids should be happy and well-settled in life, but I want my kids to be successful also. They should be independent, but at the same time, they should be good and sensitive.
Kids should be taught not spoon-fed! Being a parent, I believe I have a great responsibility, just like other parents. As parents, we need to raise children who make our society, our country, and the world, a better place to live!
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