though me and my partner are on precaution (condoms) every time we intimate I feel so insecure and scared of getting pregnant and abortions as I'm a mother of 3yr old. hence I start thinking of ipills right nxt moment. for the reason I avoid my partner most of the time and it's for once for a month we get into. this time we had contact on 11th day of my period. i have regular 32 days cycle. kindly help me out come out of this phobia and also educate me regarding management of not getting pregnant.