my mother in law is trying to separate my baby from me. when baby cries she keeps saying don't go to your mom, still if you want your mom don't come to me. she says me not to hold my baby for a long time since he 'll get attached with me. but after I move she carries him and hold him and keeps him always on her lap. what should i do? I rock him to sleep bt now she bought a swing and giving him the habit to sleep in it and saying now you don't need mummy. my son is 3.5 months

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never let these narcissistic old hag to ruin this beautiful Period with your child. as her to stop doing it or talk to your husband and go off to your mom's place. cut her off from your life

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same exact situation I am also facing 😔. I am not able to tell my mil... whenever he cries at night she comes fast and Carries away my son. I feel hurt most of the time . she is not giving time to settle.

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just tell her openly that's your baby.

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same problem for me . what should I do, my baby is totally addicting to my mother in law, and my husband is also encouraging baby to be with my mother in law.
I am not liking it nd I am getting depressed , no one is understanding me ,  
I don't want my baby with her  ,  I want my baby only with me, what should I do please answer me, please I am going to dead if this continues

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When you want to you feed or pamper your kid let him with you. For sleep put the baby into Swing. As your mother in law will also fond of the baby let him be some time with her.

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it's not separation but it is the love and caring that the mother inlaw wanted to give.so it's not that the mother should worry because the mother still loves the baby.

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Discuss it mutually and come to an amicable solution which is good for the baby.Baby needs the care and warmth of a mother.No one can substitute that for a baby.For a better tomorrow for whatever reason dont keep the baby from a normal upbringing.

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hello...my baby has lactose intolerance..so which alternate can be given to her other than breast feed...pls suggest...she is 10 months old.she doesn't like formula milk...I am giving her simyl formula but she doesn't like it ..may be due to smell...pls suggest...

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toxic mother in law I should say 
you have every right to hold your baby hug your baby etc 
no other person have any right to say a word about your motherhood. don't let things effect your motherhood just do whatever you feel right and do what is healthy for your baby

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my baby girl is 2.5 month old she is suffering from cold i give her solvin cold drop but it will not work. can i replace solvin gold with wikoryl AF drop.kindly suggest.

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My baby is 6 months old even i am facing same problem as mine is intercaste marriage she says baby belongs to us it should be with us ua parents don have any rights on baby.. for this 6 months my parents only took care of us but now mil expects baby not to go to them. i m only daughter to my parents..nd when she lifts baby she says me u don show ua face go nd sit in room if she see u she won't cm to us.. nd sil supports that nd say don breastfeed baby she gets more attached to u give external feed so that she ll forget u little.. now baby s not cmg to me only she always want her granny only for feed she cries but then mil ll not give her to me.. what shall I dooo??

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My MIL is the same. She wants the baby 24 hours and keeps saying she has not got to play with the baby. If I give her the baby, she won't let my 2 month old sleep and will keep playing with her along with FIL. FIL has such a loud voice. She will keep baby in her lap but will not let me hold her. I have stood firm and even locked my room many times cos she will burst into my room everytime baby cries. She wants the baby all to herself but I am the mom and the baby should bond with me primarily. Moreover my SIL supports MIL completely and together they will do anything to undermine me. You have to stay strong and show them you are more than capable of taking care of your baby.

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please never let her do that to you ...as he is 3.5 months old its the best. time for you and your baby to bond ...same happened with me ...as i was ftm i dint know what to do ,and now my baby always prefers her 😖it hurts but patience is the key...

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i dont think thats a nice thing to do. babies dont just cry for sleeping and feeding, they also cry to get comfort and warmth from their mothers.

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she says that baby will get attached to me more if I told him. is it true?

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talk to your family. Abby always needs parents.
just feed on demand burp well do tummy time cycling motion of the legs. wear weather appropriate clothing swaddle baby well till 3 months of age. hunger cold cough ear pain gases colic cold or too hot temperature dirty diaper are common reasons of crying In babies

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it is your baby and it is your choice you can definitely fight with anyone for your baby talk to your husband in this regard and make sure that your husband is in your confidence

A. never let these narcissistic old hag to ruin this beautiful Period with your child. as her to stop doing it or talk to your husband and go off to your mom's place. cut her off from your life

A. same exact situation I am also facing 😔. I am not able to tell my mil... whenever he cries at night she comes fast and Carries away my son. I feel hurt most of the time . she is not giving time to settle.

A. just tell her openly that's your baby.

A. When you want to you feed or pamper your kid let him with you. For sleep put the baby into Swing. As your mother in law will also fond of the baby let him be some time with her.

A. it's not separation but it is the love and caring that the mother inlaw wanted to give.so it's not that the mother should worry because the mother still loves the baby.

A. peace

A. fghkgfggvjhf

A. Discuss it mutually and come to an amicable solution which is good for the baby.Baby needs the care and warmth of a mother.No one can substitute that for a baby.For a better tomorrow for whatever reason dont keep the baby from a normal upbringing.

A. hello...my baby has lactose intolerance..so which alternate can be given to her other than breast feed...pls suggest...she is 10 months old.she doesn't like formula milk...I am giving her simyl formula but she doesn't like it ..may be due to smell...pls suggest...

A. toxic mother in law I should say you have every right to hold your baby hug your baby etc no other person have any right to say a word about your motherhood. don't let things effect your motherhood just do whatever you feel right and do what is healthy for your baby

A. my baby girl is 2.5 month old she is suffering from cold i give her solvin cold drop but it will not work. can i replace solvin gold with wikoryl AF drop.kindly suggest.

A. please never let her do that to you ...as he is 3.5 months old its the best. time for you and your baby to bond ...same happened with me ...as i was ftm i dint know what to do ,and now my baby always prefers her 😖it hurts but patience is the key...

A. i dont think thats a nice thing to do. babies dont just cry for sleeping and feeding, they also cry to get comfort and warmth from their mothers.

A. she says that baby will get attached to me more if I told him. is it true?

A. it is your baby and it is your choice you can definitely fight with anyone for your baby talk to your husband in this regard and make sure that your husband is in your confidence

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