my elder girl only listens to me and not to my mother and sister and screams and hits them i always talk gentle but they get frustrated easily by her actions.i have told million times to my mom and sister don't react too much because kids crave that reaction but they can't control themselves and want the 4 year old kid to control her impulses . I'm really helpless beacuse I'm in my postpartum period with 23 days old baby girl. I don't how to help my elder girl🥲