my baby is not latching direct on my breast he's just 5 months old now .. i tried but he refuses he takes sometime but that also doesn't latch properly. i used to to pump n give him because he was not taking my breast.. please advise me if baby doesn't latch properly n milk remains in breast will it become hard ?? n if i pump the milk later wen i want to stop breastfeeding will the breast will become hard does it going to hurt me ??