jb s meri delivery hui h mujhe bhut gussa aane lg gya bhut chidchidhi rahti hu frustrated rahti hu bina wjh bina bat k kai bar m apne baby k uper gussa kr deti hu kai bar usko mar bi deti hu bt bad m bhut roti hu puchtati hu m Or mre hubby akle rahte h mra chhota sa, baby h bt mre hubby bhut supportive h bhut help krte h kisi chij ki koi tensen ni h bt pta ni phir bi mujhe bhut gussa aata h jb s delivery hui tb s akle n mne apne baby ko smbhala h hr choti chhoti bato py gussa A jati hu tensen kr leti hu m happy khush rahna chhathi hu apne baby ko mre baby ki koi glti ni hoti h bt phir bi wo pit jata h phir m mre hubby dono rone lg jate h koi family walo ka support ni h bhut problem parshaniya dekhi h hum dono isliye m ni chahti m mre baby ko ase maru gussa karu dr m usko happy rakna chahti hu khud bi happy rakhna chahti hu kya karu jis s mra gussa mujhe ni aaye m apne baby ko kese happy rakhu plz ap meri help kro m bhut roti hu kyoki m apne baby s bhut pyar krti hu bt jb gussa aata h tb pta ni kha dimag chl jata h kuch pta ni chlta put deto hu chhote s baache plz kuch asa btao jis s, m Or mre baby Or mre hubby hum sb happy rahe gussa bhul tak jau gussa aaye tk ni asa kya karu

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jb s meri delivery hui h mujhe bhut gussa aane lg gya bhut chidchidhi rahti hu frustrated rahti hu bina wjh bina bat k kai bar m apne baby k uper gussa kr deti hu kai bar usko mar bi deti hu bt bad m bhut roti hu puchtati hu m Or mre hubby akle rahte h mra chhota sa, baby h bt mre hubby bhut supportive h bhut help krte h kisi chij ki koi tensen ni h bt pta ni phir bi mujhe bhut gussa aata h jb s delivery hui tb s akle n mne apne baby ko smbhala h  hr choti chhoti bato py gussa A jati hu tensen kr leti hu m happy khush rahna chhathi hu apne baby ko mre baby ki koi glti ni hoti h bt phir bi wo pit jata h phir m mre hubby dono rone lg jate h koi family walo ka support ni h bhut problem parshaniya dekhi h hum dono isliye m ni chahti m mre baby ko ase maru gussa karu dr m usko happy rakna chahti hu khud bi happy rakhna chahti hu kya karu jis s mra gussa mujhe ni aaye m apne baby ko kese happy rakhu plz ap meri help kro m bhut roti hu kyoki m apne baby s bhut pyar krti hu bt jb gussa aata h tb pta ni kha dimag chl jata h kuch pta ni chlta put deto hu chhote s baache plz kuch asa btao jis s, m Or mre baby Or mre hubby hum sb happy rahe gussa bhul tak jau gussa aaye tk ni asa kya karu

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ty bhut acha snjhya sapne

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dekho...after delivery body me kai tarhan ke harmonal changes aate h jise mood badlta h...plus bache ki pariwar ki jimmedari b bad jati h jisse apne liye time  kam ho jata h... sabse pahle aap khud se puchiye ki apko gussa kyun aata h aur kin kin baton pr aata h...
man liziye agar apko bacche ki shaitaniyan dekh ke gussa aata h like ye cheezen kyun bikhra di...pani ka nal kyun khola, khana kyun nhi kha rha aur bhi bhut si baten hoti h...to sabse pahle aap ye accept kiziye ki aap chahe jo kr len chikh le chilla le mar le bacche ne jo krna h wo karega...kyunki jaise aap me change aaye h waise he bacche me b aate h unka dimag bad rha h wo nai nai cheezen sikhna chahte h isliye aisa krte h wo jan bhujh kr nhi krte...unke motor
skills development ki wajha se wo ye sab krte h...aise me unko marna ek trhan se unki growth ko rokne jaisa h... jitna ho sake pyar se kam le...
 dusra apko apne per gussa aata h...kie ye kam theek se ni kar paa rhi, me apne bache ka khyal ni rakh pa rhi, pati se ladti hu ya pahle jaise kyun ni sab kr pa rhi...to iske liye me yehi kahungi just accept yourself...jo situation h jo halat h unhe accept kiziye...apke uper nhi jimmedari aayi h aur saath he sharir me badlaw b aa rhe h to apne pr pressure mat lo..aap akeli nai h sabke saath hota h ye..her insaan alag hota h apna comparison dusron se na kren...cheezon ko man le ki ha ho rha h aisa aur khud ko time de dheere dheere apko khud ni pta chalega kab sab pahle jaisa ho jayega...

apko basically gussa isliye aata h kyunki cheezen badal chuki h wo pahle jaisi nhi rhi plus ek nai jimmedari aur aap accept nhi kr pa rhi in changes ko...kuch nhi bs chezzon ko accept kiziye ki ho rha h aur ye hona he tha aur abhi aur bhi bhut kuch hoga..apka baccha bad rha h aski growth ko enjoy kro use aise moment mt bnao ki use yaad krke aapko rona aaye..

meri b beti apke baby jitni he h aur mene b ye sab feel kiya h aur akhir me yehi kiya khud ko halat ko accept...aur 90% problem solve ho gyi..
dusron ko mat dekho aap kisi ki umeed puri krne ke liye zinmedar nhi ho..maa se jyada bacche ka koi nhi soch sakta...apke hubby itne supportive h aur kya chahiye...

last me yehi kahungi...ki ache parents wo nhi hote jo bacche ko ache se control kr pte h balki wo hote h wo jo bacche ke saath apni feelings ko ache se control kr pate h...jab gussa aye to bacche se dur chale jaye..ya thoda pani piye aur man me ye repeat kre ki baccha h aisa to karega he.. ba pyar se smjhaye mare nhi..

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subh jaldi uth kr yoga karu or kya kya karu jis s mujhe mre mind ko relax mile gussa ni karu happy rahu

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will better with time. see more you can ask your own treating doctor. i am sure they will solve all your doubts and guide yousee only the doctor who can see you in person can judge what is the right status. best to trust her

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Hello mom 
This is all because of hormonal changes in body after delivery. Sometimes it happens and it is quite normal so you should not worry about it at all. You should start doing yoga regularly it will help to reduce anger issues. And start meditating regularly for better results