hi,

my son is 4 years old. I and my husband currently working, while working we left our boy with his grandparents. now he is addicted with mobile games due to them. it's very difficult to manage him. we stopped showing mobile games, so he was arrogant and irritable by crying for nothing. i used to calm down even though it's not worked. because it's bit difficult to control him. also he now joined activity classes yoga and Karate. also he had trust issues problem

Question

hi,

my son is 4 years old. I and my husband currently working, while working we left our boy with his grandparents. now he is addicted with mobile games due to them. it's very difficult to manage him. we stopped showing mobile games, so he was arrogant and irritable by crying for nothing. i used to calm down even though it's not worked. because it's bit difficult to control him. also he now joined activity classes yoga and Karate. also he had trust issues problem

Accepted Answer

Hi my dear mom, that's quite common in kids when they are addicted to electronic gadgets but we have to maintain some boundaries to kids that may take time firstly u have to say i will give 10 min time i will set timer u can play but after completion of timer u have to say to him time is up now let's play together or let's make some activity and even though if he is asking u must say i too want to like to hive the phone for u but it's time so sorry baby i can't
 do anything and if ur kids watching youtube u better to switch youtube kids and u can set timer also i hope it may take time but they we surely change

Accepted Answer

will improve
talk with he child and continue the other activities the child is involved in
will gradually improve the condition
behaviour in small children changes from time to time. it is very important to give more time to the child and play with the child and this will help you in understanding why the child is having different behaviour which you are not expecting. many times rude behaviour for irritability is manifestation when the child is not able to express what he wants so that's spending more time with the child is important. you can take help of clinical psychologist. also sometimes behaviour changes can be due to nutritional deficiency so you'll have to rule out that also. it is very important to totally stop tv mobile and laptop if it is going on .