Hey mommy's! I hope you all are doing good. I really wanted to connect with you all from really long time. I am dealing with anxiety and depression from really long time. I guess it was from right after I gave birth to my baby girl (she is 17months now). The problem is... My MIL is very dominating... She doesn't help me mere bacche ke kisi bhi kam mai... But what she tells or try to feed me is... My daughter doesn't love me... She only loves her grandmother....which undoubtedly created a fear in me that What if my baby will not love me.. I have a fear of separation.. I am dealing with this from very long now... My MIL snatches her from me.. I feel like I am not good enough for my kid.
Sometimes my baby doesn't come to me and rejects me. I feel so helpless and insecure.
Please help me please.

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Hey mommy's! I hope you all are doing good. I really wanted to connect with you all from really long time. I am dealing with anxiety and depression from really long time. I guess it was from right after I gave birth to my baby girl (she is 17months now). The problem is... My MIL is very dominating... She doesn't help me mere bacche ke kisi bhi kam mai... But what she tells or try to feed me is... My daughter doesn't love me... She only loves her grandmother....which undoubtedly created a fear in me that What if my baby will not love me.. I have a fear of separation.. I am dealing with this from very long now... My MIL snatches her from me.. I feel like I am not good enough for my kid. 
Sometimes my baby doesn't come to me and rejects me. I feel so helpless and insecure.
Please help me please.

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meditate and love ur baby. U can't change anyone's nature. So try to ignore MIL.

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you should spend some good quality time with your baby, play with her, make her laugh, be a baby with your baby ultimately she will start loving you. play with her at night in your room. I am sure ye sab aapki MIL nahi krti hogi .. And eventually aapk baby ki attachment aapse hi hogi jaise jaise usko samajh aaygi.

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this depression is postpartum blues don't worry dear discuss with your husband/family,/friends or you can consult a psychologist to share your feelings with.

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This is  delivery depression which occurs due to change in lifestyle suddenly and you do lack of proper sleep and weakness due to lack of proper nutrition the best treatment to come out through this is to spend more time enjoying with your kid and plan your work According to your comfort.
 Try to sleep whenever baby is sleeping And have proper nutritious diet along with water intake

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hiii...aap depression ke liye Kuch medicine use kare?ab Aapka health Kaisa hy.my b depression me hu..iska solution bathaiye plz

A. meditate and love ur baby. U can't change anyone's nature. So try to ignore MIL.

A. this depression is postpartum blues don't worry dear discuss with your husband/family,/friends or you can consult a psychologist to share your feelings with.

A. hiii...aap depression ke liye Kuch medicine use kare?ab Aapka health Kaisa hy.my b depression me hu..iska solution bathaiye plz

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