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Mom of a 1 yr 10 m old girl1 Year ago
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#asktheexpert sir my daughter is 10 month old she is still not ready to leave mother feed please suggest

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POOJA KOTHARIMom of a 8 yr 5 m old boy1 Year ago
A. It's common for a 10-month-old to be very attached to their primary caregiver. Here are some strategies to help your daughter gradually adjust to being away from you: ### **1. Gradual Separation** - **Short Distances:** Start by having short periods of separation. Leave her with a trusted caregiver for brief periods and gradually increase the time as she becomes more comfortable. - **Consistent Routine:** Maintain a consistent routine for when you leave and return, so she learns what to expect. ### **2. Familiarity and Comfort** - **Comfort Objects:** Allow her to have a comfort object like a favorite toy or blanket with her, which can provide comfort and reassurance. - **Familiar Caregivers:** Have her stay with people she knows well and feels comfortable around, like close family members. ### **3. Positive Reinforcement** - **Praise and Encouragement:** Praise her for being brave and for any positive steps she takes towards separation. - **Positive Goodbyes:** Keep goodbyes short, positive, and upbeat. Prolonged goodbyes can create more anxiety. ### **4. Building Trust** - **Consistent Care:** Ensure that her caregivers provide consistent and loving care. This helps her feel secure in your absence. - **Engagement:** Engage with her in activities she enjoys before and after separation times to reinforce a sense of security and normalcy. ### **5. Gradual Transition to Care Settings** - **Visit Together:** If she’s transitioning to a daycare or new caregiver, visit the place together and spend time there with her before leaving her alone. - **Observe and Adapt:** Pay attention to her reactions and adapt the approach based on what seems to make her feel more secure. ### **6. Professional Guidance** - **Consult Professionals:** If separation anxiety seems severe or is impacting daily life significantly, consider speaking with a pediatrician or child psychologist for additional strategies and support. ### **Conclusion** Gradual and consistent steps can help ease your daughter into being comfortable with separation. Patience and reassurance are key, as well as ensuring she has a secure and loving environment when you are not around.
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