AISHANI is now 1year abs 6months old.. from the early day like when she was 5-6months old during potty time she is having tears...we asked doctor and she said using coconut oil can be solution if her potty is too tight. But we saw now a days she is having trouble during potty. She is having tears and it seems she is having pain when trying to do potty. yesterday we saw a symbol of blood in her potty. we got afraid. please suggest what to do..