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Boy V/S Girl

GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting
Boy V/S Girl
A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?
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Asmita Bingi Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
this is my luck that I got a chance to be a mom and m expectant mother soon going to be mom of a girl or a boy.

few ppl are trying so hard to be mom.

few ppl are blessed with very cute baby girl and few are with baby boy that's der luck.

we always should look down instead of complaining what we have and what we don't have.

as you know baby will always listen to mamma when he/she in the womb

so we should not pass negative vibes to the baby.
if inside we have baby boy and we are expecting baby girl then he will get hurt and vice versa

so always try to be Happy and enjoy your life ❤️

being mom is great blessing and luck and it's God gift and always try to look down and be happy with whatever we have 🥰.

Srashti badkul Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
when I was pregnant I just ask all d time to everyone mughe baby girl hi hogi na agr koi baby boy bolta tha to m chid jati thi... infact on surgery table I asked dr plz baby girl ki hi news dena. but God blessed me with my cute lil munchkin Partish... Baby girl lucky people ko milti hain may be I m not so lucky ...
Srashti badkul Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
when I was pregnant I just ask all d time to everyone mughe baby girl hi hogi na agr koi baby boy bolta tha to m chid jati thi... infact on surgery table I asked dr plz baby girl ki hi news dena. but God blessed me with my cute lil munchkin Partish... Baby girl lucky people ko milti hain may be I m not so lucky ...
Chetna Kundalwal Mom of a 6 yr 10 m old girl 5 years ago
When i was pregnant i wanted to have a girl and my god has given me a doll. I am so happy to get her in my life. ❤
Disha Vyas Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
thank God this topic is raised.
Disha Vyas Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
thank God this Topic is raised.
Community User 5 years ago
In reply to Sheikh lubna
really dosent matter its a boy or a girl.. i have lost my first child ... so seriously it dosent matter for me jst want a healthy baby... inshaallah
A girl has to leave the parents one day. she has to live in a different family and has to take care of her in laws. Why to invest on such a thing that is going to serve someone else and not you. On the other hand boy lives with his parents forever and also brings a daughter in law (who is also someone's daughter). She is supposed to look after these new people and cant take care of her own parents now on.

This is the thought that makes us girls a liability.

This is the truth and reality of our Indian society that we never want to change. Once We become parents of a boy we start seeing him as the heir of property and the girl as a PARAYA DHAN.
Some people will say that it has changed now but I don't think this is going to change ever.

Untill this old tradition of marrying off a girl changes and it's never going to change as I been told by everyone.
jyoti negi Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
Good question...but that time both are equal (girl or boy)
Shefali Mom of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago
Now a days both are equal. But few people still ask for baby boy.

we can clear this difference by giving good education to girl child and respect to females.
Government has already come up with many facilities for girls which anyway increase demand of baby girl like one girl child education which is free.
Meenu Kakkar Kharbanda Mom of a 10 yr 2 m old boy 5 years ago
A Gender Doesn't matter... Every child is special whether it is Boy or Girl... 💞💞💞💞
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