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chhaya nainwal Mom of a 7 yr 6 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to Dr.Deepinder Kaur Dhawan

gender never matters for parents but when children grow up they need a bro or Sis to share their joys and sorrows..,to celebrate bhai dooj and rakhi and when daughter gets married.. a son should be there to look after parents... both are equally important

I am a mother of 18months old daughter. I always think that I am so happy with my daughter only and I don't want a 2nd child but some times I also think like u.......when she gets married,she needs a brother (maayka) after me.

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Community User 6 years ago

yes , sometimes...

Bina biswal Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

gender inequality is existing since ages not known.I am asked for a second child only because my first child is a girl.there are parents in our family with single child that are boys and they are not asked for second child.i was told that your daughter will get married someday so their must be someone as your heir.why can't a girl be the heiress to your legacy when you are gone was my question to them.i am proud that i have got a chance to raise the womb of the universe.its high time...it should stop now.gender comes into play because we are much attached to our bodies.if you are blessed with two children preferably a boy n a girl..do not treat them differently.let them not know that there is something called gender that makes them different from one another.let them grow gracefully together just with one thought that they are blessed humanbeings.

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Asmita Bingi Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

this is my luck that I got a chance to be a mom and m expectant mother soon going to be mom of a girl or a boy.

few ppl are trying so hard to be mom.

few ppl are blessed with very cute baby girl and few are with baby boy that's der luck.

we always should look down instead of complaining what we have and what we don't have.

as you know baby will always listen to mamma when he/she in the womb

so we should not pass negative vibes to the baby.
if inside we have baby boy and we are expecting baby girl then he will get hurt and vice versa

so always try to be Happy and enjoy your life ❤️

being mom is great blessing and luck and it's God gift and always try to look down and be happy with whatever we have 🥰.

Srashti badkul Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

when I was pregnant I just ask all d time to everyone mughe baby girl hi hogi na agr koi baby boy bolta tha to m chid jati thi... infact on surgery table I asked dr plz baby girl ki hi news dena. but God blessed me with my cute lil munchkin Partish... Baby girl lucky people ko milti hain may be I m not so lucky ...

Srashti badkul Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

when I was pregnant I just ask all d time to everyone mughe baby girl hi hogi na agr koi baby boy bolta tha to m chid jati thi... infact on surgery table I asked dr plz baby girl ki hi news dena. but God blessed me with my cute lil munchkin Partish... Baby girl lucky people ko milti hain may be I m not so lucky ...

Chetna Kundalwal Mom of a 7 yr 3 m old girl 6 years ago

When i was pregnant i wanted to have a girl and my god has given me a doll. I am so happy to get her in my life. ❤

Disha Vyas Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

thank God this topic is raised.

Disha Vyas Mom of 3 children 6 years ago

thank God this Topic is raised.

Community User 6 years ago

In reply to Sheikh lubna

really dosent matter its a boy or a girl.. i have lost my first child ... so seriously it dosent matter for me jst want a healthy baby... inshaallah

A girl has to leave the parents one day. she has to live in a different family and has to take care of her in laws. Why to invest on such a thing that is going to serve someone else and not you. On the other hand boy lives with his parents forever and also brings a daughter in law (who is also someone's daughter). She is supposed to look after these new people and cant take care of her own parents now on.

This is the thought that makes us girls a liability.

This is the truth and reality of our Indian society that we never want to change. Once We become parents of a boy we start seeing him as the heir of property and the girl as a PARAYA DHAN.
Some people will say that it has changed now but I don't think this is going to change ever.

Untill this old tradition of marrying off a girl changes and it's never going to change as I been told by everyone.

Boy V/S Girl