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GENDER INEQUALITY Gender Bias in Parenting
Boy V/S Girl
A Boy Child or a Girl Child have been treated differently since ages. A desire of having a 'Son' rather than a 'Daughter' is still there in most parts of the country.Does it really matter for you? Why do you think our society has this preference for having Son rather than Daughter?
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Tessy Stanley Hussain Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
Gender discrimination should not even be thought of. It's queries like these that plant stupid ideas in the mind. Instead, it's best to go for awareness and enlightenment. I have a boy and going to deliver my second baby next month, and I don't care. I just want my baby to be physically and mentally healthy. That's all that matters. Nothing more nothing less. A mother's love can't and shouldn't discriminate. When God didn't discriminate and made women, then why people. If God wanted to discriminate then He would have made only men. He made women for a reason...so let's respect that
Ramseer Guardian of a 6 yr 6 m old girl 5 years ago
nidhi bansal Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old boy 5 years ago
Neha Expecting Mom due in 3 months 5 years ago
Community User 5 years ago
Whatever the child wether a Girl or a Boy both are a blessing to every parent.Incase parents are ungrateful about having a kid either a girl or a boy ,Then let them be reminded of those couples who have been yearning and struggling since a long time to have an offspring a heir to their family no matter what the kid is girl or a boy.Well ,inshort whosoever's kids they are ; their innocence and cuteness of any irresistible and every kid should be the Apple of a parents eye.😍
Rajlakshmi Saha Mom of a 6 yr 1 m old girl 5 years ago
"I think women are foolish to pretend they are equal to men; they are far superior and always have been."
~ William Golding
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swati Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
personally, I believe both are equal. I am mother of two kids, my elder daughter is approx 6 years old and my son is approx 2 months old. My husband preference was girl for our 2nd child too, but society always wants a boy they make joke of us.
Even my mother-in-law was surprised by the difference of phone call received after the birth of my daughter and son.
My daughter was the first child in my entire family but the number of phone call at the time of birth of my 2nd child i.e my son was very high as compared to my daughter birth.

My daughter is only girl child in her maternal and paternal side followed by her 6 cousin (male).
Still everyone dreams for a boy in their family

Their is preference for boy over girl, whether we are in 2020 or 1920.
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Gazala bashir Mom of 4 children 5 years ago
it matters but for me it z not so
Naziya Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
Nothing as differing!
We should not degrade one upon the other.
Both are valuable in their own existence.
Having child is a greatest blessing!
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Hina Mirza Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago
My first daughter is 5 year old and my second daughter is 4 month old .we are very happy to birth of second daughter.because we believe daughter are Allah ki rehmat.
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