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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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monika Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

to me Skanskar don't have a definition if you want to take control over someone's action try tying them with the rope of so called sanskar .....waking up early should be a choice or your habit ...I dnt belive in the word itself it's just to hide cheepmindset ppl are useing to hide under it .... Sankar ki definition kahan hai kahan hai ? who defined it?

archana chauhan Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

it was old definition I guess, now the definition changes and now if you are giving respect to elder and love to kids and and try to maintain peace in house you will come in sanskari bahu categary

Jyoti Goyal Guardian of a 5 yr 4 m old girl 5 years ago

A sanskari bhu should obey family rules and to do everything with permission. Don't revert back even in laws hurting you. Never demand anything. Perfect in every household chores.

Bijal Gala Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

This is how the TV serial sagas define sanskari bahu..
sanskari bahu is a person who is ever ready for flexibility. House is not a military camp. Household chores are definitely important but at the same time loving it and doing it is crucial. we women started giving importance to chores than family. young unmarried maidens doesn't want to do any chores and they claim it when seeking grooms. We only connect that if we get married we will have to handle household chores....??? why we have such mindset... even Daughters can help out moms. Nowadays I hv heard saying " beti se achi bahu ..wo help to karvati hai"

Sonia Mom of 5 children 5 years ago

sanskari bahu hahaha first of all the I n law can rectify this word to sanskari beti then rest of the other things goes accordingly for the family. As their own daughter lives in the family culture bahu will also serve them right the way they treat their girl.

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Meenu Guardian of 8 children 5 years ago

sanskai bahu k liye ghar or gharwale dono uske apne ho jinke liye kuch bhi krna uski liability nhi khushi hoti hai.

Community User 5 years ago

I think we should respect our in laws but at the same time we should not lose our identity

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Lavanya Muthusamy Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

no matter what and how hard it is be yourself...let you have some u time ,enough rest,self-care and love urself...u don't have to please everyone..live Ur life true to urself

Layeba Habeeb Guardian of 4 children 5 years ago

Joint family are good.. Nd bahu should take care of his family.... Bcz it's very important in our society..

Aanchal Expecting Mom due this month 5 years ago

She should not give up on her dreams . What ever she wants to do,she should .
Prove them wrong, prove them that women can take care of household chores, can take care of baby as well as can earn for herself and baby! We are blessed with superpowers, just don’t give up on your dreams, few things take time 🙏🏻😊

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