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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?
A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?
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Sanskriti Mishra Guardian of 2 children 6 months ago
right
meera singh Guardian of 2 children 6 months ago
Throw woman to the Wolves and she will return leading the pack.. This is how i would depict woman.. Woman isn't born only to be a bahu.... she has much more to do for the upliftment of this stereotype society.
Ambica Mom of 2 children 2 years ago
List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .
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M yachha Mom of a 6 yr old boy 6 months ago
We should not be like the previous generations who suffered and also made others suffer too. Women should change the way our children think and feel. Educate them about gender equality and stop the stereotyping. More responsibility falls on shoulders of mothers of boys, we need to teach them to do household chores including cooking and cleaning, just like girls are taught. Equality for all should be the motto.
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Ashima Guardian of a 4 yr 4 m old boy 6 months ago
exactly... true
Rayeesa Tarannum Mom of a 4 yr old girl 6 months ago
Change ur next generation !! Bring up ur own kids with the lessons on equality !
IMRANA choudhury Mom of a 2 yr old girl 10 months ago
keep a maid, let her help you with your household work.. and then you can do your job outside without any tension. your in laws wil not complain much, once household work is over
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p 6 months ago
should respect elders.
Mehnaz Shaikh Mom of a 8 m old boy 6 months ago
honesty
Sailaja Mom of 2 children 6 months ago
Listen to elders and analyse ourselves...sometimes, their experience matters a lot.
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