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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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Sana Rafique Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

.. so true!

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Mansi Mom of a 4 yr 10 m old girl 4 years ago

to break this stereotypes I will first of all raise my kid differently so that in future they would not follow such typical Indian rules ... I will fight for the right thing and never suppress my feelings at the same time take care of others feelings too but will not satisfy their unusual wishes.

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D Gehani Mom of a 5 yr old boy 4 years ago

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I think we should respect our in laws but at the same time we should not lose our identity

what if in laws don't respect us. then can giving respect to them possible?

Prabhawathi Sathiyendran Guardian of a 4 yr 6 m old boy 4 years ago

A women being ambitious and also has to be a sanskari bahu mmmm not impossible until family is understanding especially the spouse.

Aman Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

To follow every instruction given by family members

Aman Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

right

Kamna Mom of a 5 yr 11 m old boy 4 years ago

I think if we share a clear expectation of sharing the load with our partners then it would make a difference.

Amrita Mom of a 9 yr old girl 4 years ago

I also like many other "good Boumas(daughter in law)" have tried everything but more you bend yourself more there will be load of expectations ...Nothing is enough to make people impressed who doesnt want to get impressed.

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Mohan Kadiyala Father of 2 children 4 years ago

harsh reality

Mehrunisha shaikh Mom of 2 children 4 years ago

very true

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