Discussion about What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

Pallavi Charupalli Mom of a 8 yr old girl 7 years ago

sanskari in the sense punctual discipline perfect. to be a sansakri bahu it's not a human being it will be a robot. some times it may be little different . but should full fill all the works

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Varsha Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to Namratha Vinayak

Here in India the expectation is different in every house. I have seen at places where they expect their bahu to wake up and do all work but there are houses where they don't expect this. But the expectation is listen to them their ideas and they are the bosses. You are just a slave around. I think its fine to do all household chores if you enjoy and have time for it.

very true

Namratha Vinayak Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

Here in India the expectation is different in every house. I have seen at places where they expect their bahu to wake up and do all work but there are houses where they don't expect this. But the expectation is listen to them their ideas and they are the bosses. You are just a slave around. I think its fine to do all household chores if you enjoy and have time for it.

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shweta singh Mom of a 1 yr 3 m old girl 7 years ago

In reply to reena

If u wish to become a sanskari bahu than u have only one option.always be in kitchen kitchen and kitchen

better to have a full time maid....bahus r not meant for cooking, cleaning and blahh blahh!!! 😉

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Navjyot Kaur Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

i am not the one
in indian society sanskari bahu is a myth u can never be a perfect one
you are working you can be frustated sometimes with juggling of yourself between work and child
also its not the thing to b not polite
be polite to evrryone open your minds grow up and live with love

Rashmi Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

A women is expected to be an all-rounder. Sankari bahu doesn't mean u have to be a typical bahu being at home. Respect elders , know and fulfill everyone needs and love and be loved.

sumitra Mom of 3 children 7 years ago

sanskari bahu, just be with ur in-laws how u were with ur family, u'll get same love from them. its tough but not impossible. lucky to have such family.

reena Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to reena

just achieve your own life's goal.take care of your child and husbands need.no need to be sanskari bahu

If u wish to become a sanskari bahu than u have only one option.always be in kitchen kitchen and kitchen

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reena Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

just achieve your own life's goal.take care of your child and husbands need.no need to be sanskari bahu

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Tanaya Das Mom of a 9 yr 3 m old boy 7 years ago

moder 'sanskari bahu' is far more ahead of the age old concept. they are equally handeling work place n home!! they are not compromising bt following living their dreams n performing house hold duties with super perfection. so to break to age old concept of 'sanskari bahu' we need to make our in laws understand the value of self dependence. a bahu can go office regularly n do household woeks wid little help from their in laws. so they need supports from in laws to do their job at jome n office perfectly. with that lite help their life would b much more better.