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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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Gousia Jawad Mom of a 7 yr 11 m old girl 7 years ago

In reply to Ambica

List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .

the absolute truth...😆

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Shoma Bhattacharya 5 years ago

Just be yourself, do what your heart says.
Don't pressurise yourself in any situation.

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Ratna Varsha Mom of 4 children 5 years ago

surprisingly, husbands also expects the same from their wifes post wedding, even though they know what kind of girl she is before in a love marriage, god only should help us.

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Poonam Meena Mom of a 6 yr 10 m old boy 6 years ago

khud ki beti rani bne dusre ki beti nokrani. bs yhi soch h jis wjh se problems hoti h .pyar do pyar lo give respect take respect

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Soujanya Mom of a 8 yr 1 m old girl 6 years ago

In reply to Aparna Shandilya

Mine is love marriage, both of our families happily agreed on our marriage.
When I first met my MIL, I was like, oh my god... she is soo sweet.
It's been 4 yrs now, and I have been treated like their own daughter, infact they love me more than my SIL.
I am working, and they truly understand this funda of tiredness is equal for both their son and me.
Most of the things I get in my hand, as I used to get in my parents home. ( Being the youngest child, I was over pampered).
I feel truly blessed to have such family.
Every in-laws must learn from them.
They are ideal in- laws one can dream of.

true.. u r really blessed

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harmeet Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

In reply to sweta

nobody can satisfy their hunger, even if you die they doesn't bother.
they will bring another one.

hah

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Preeti Mom of a 12 yr 10 m old boy 7 years ago

In reply to f.s chhipa

SANSKARI BAHU should do her every work with smiling face...n dont do argue with someone..be quite n calm for all time.n fullfil evryone's needs of family members n take care of everyone..

totally agree with you...if u raise ur voice u don't have manners...in-laws says

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Divya Mom of 4 children 7 years ago

It's very obvious to have issues in sasural... it happens with everyone... bt we should play smart and try to win hearts of the members... so that as the days pass by it will be you who vl be asked for everything.. everyone will love you nd yu portrait as a bahu... so few of suffering can make a big difference in the future

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