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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?
A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?
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Heena Upase Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
that's Why education is important... if all the women get educated and independent then only things can change.
Bhumika lifestyle Mom of 2 children 5 years ago
In reply to Ambica
List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .
so true 😂😂😂😂
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Geetanjali Mom of 2 children 4 years ago
ideal bahu is one who take care of her family and do everything needed to make her family a Happy family. also make her carrier to make her reputation in outside world. in simple words ideal bahu is one who take her responsibilties wisely in personal and professional life. this can happen only when in-laws are supportive and understanding.
Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 2 m old girl 5 years ago
In reply to Bhumika lifestyle
so true 😂😂😂😂
true..😂😂
Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 2 m old girl 5 years ago
In reply to Bhumika lifestyle
so true 😂😂😂😂
true..😂😂
Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 2 m old girl 5 years ago
In reply to Bhumika lifestyle
so true 😂😂😂😂
true..😂😂
pratiksha goswami Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago
In reply to Preeti
totally agree with you...if u raise ur voice u don't have manners...in-laws says
absolutely right 👍
Priyanka Gulshan Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
suno sabki kro apne Mann ki.
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Monisha Mohan Mom of 3 children 5 years ago
We can't keep everyone happy at a time. so just bother about your own happiness. loving in laws will always want the best for their daughter in law n her family 😊
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Gousia Jawad Mom of a 7 yr 4 m old girl 6 years ago
In reply to Ambica
List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .
the absolute truth...😆
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