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What is expected from a 'Sanskari Bahu'?

A 'Sanskari Bahu' should wake up early, take care of the household chores & needs of family members. She should not be too ambitious in her career & always put family over her own aspirations. This is how the society defines Ideal Bahus. What can women do to break the stereotype of an ideal bahu?

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Lathashekar K Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago

I go to job and spend time work at same time before going I also help or do some small small work at home go for job pls think old person who are at home to take t of u and ur kids at home they also gets tired and one more thing I did my degree after my delivery of daughter my mother in law encouraged me a lot in everything and she so supportive in everything for today also

Heena Upase Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

that's Why education is important... if all the women get educated and independent then only things can change.

Bhumika lifestyle Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Ambica

List of Expectations from sanskari bahu
1. Silencer having only yes mode activated
2. Machine or free obedient servant, without any fail giving timely services
3. Definitely she should given birth a baby. AND ITS A BOY
4. All programs as well as all types of programming languages should be feeded before installing BAHU in sasural House. That to zero defect or any sort of rework. Programs like puja, cooking, washing, cleaning, teaching babies, small outside work like grocery, bill payment etc.

5. Lesser time to be spent in doing additional SEVA of in laws.
6. Priority should be sort by like Father in law(FIL) , then BIL, SIL(nanad), Husband, MIL, then ur own child, then of course u should NOT come in this list at all... They are other activities to be looked into.
7. Last not the least, she should be a chameleon type means changing her living to nature as per in laws style. Means or including ur fooding or dressing style must chnge per their one .

so true 😂😂😂😂

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Geetanjali Mom of 2 children 5 years ago

ideal bahu is one who take care of her family and do everything needed to make her family a Happy family. also make her carrier to make her reputation in outside world. in simple words ideal bahu is one who take her responsibilties wisely in personal and professional life. this can happen only when in-laws are supportive and understanding.

Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Bhumika lifestyle

so true 😂😂😂😂

true..😂😂

Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Bhumika lifestyle

so true 😂😂😂😂

true..😂😂

Rutuja Nikam Mom of a 5 yr 9 m old girl 5 years ago

In reply to Bhumika lifestyle

so true 😂😂😂😂

true..😂😂

pratiksha goswami Guardian of 2 children 5 years ago

In reply to Preeti

totally agree with you...if u raise ur voice u don't have manners...in-laws says

absolutely right 👍

Priyanka Gulshan Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

suno sabki kro apne Mann ki.

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Monisha Mohan Mom of 3 children 5 years ago

We can't keep everyone happy at a time. so just bother about your own happiness. loving in laws will always want the best for their daughter in law n her family 😊

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