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parul sharma Mom of 4 children 7 years ago
in joint family I feel secure my self
Punam Jenna Mom of 3 children 7 years ago
All in laws are not villains it varies from families. To speak honestly if we adjust with them everything seems to be very happy. In laws are also your parents . Sometimes there will be issues related any matter those are common it depends how well manage and handle the situation without brusting out . If we stay with in laws our child learn many things without teaching him/ her . They learn about our indian traditions , culture and history . They get love from their grandparents and know about family values. These things will help your child to become a good human.
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Unaiza Siddiqui Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
In reply to sudipta
About relation ship with in-laws I prefer the western trend. Be separate but be in touch, visit often to both your own parents and in laws, take them to doctors, give respect and care.
I totally agree with you. it's like jio or June do because no matter how good you are with them they will definitely stereotype you.
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Unaiza Siddiqui Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
In reply to kanchan Nayak
adjustment is the key for joint family....but it is only possible if your husband loves and respects u and ur family,as u do to his!
adjustment is the key but only when present on both the sides and not just the girl.
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rani singh Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
some way I have benefited and another way feel of privacy
prasanthi Mom of 3 children 7 years ago
I'm mother of two girl child.we completed our 10th marriage anniversary but still she hates me of not having baby boy.she don't have any daughters. I have pcod. my two kids born with medication. my husband supports me.we r separated from her.happy family now. n we concentrate on kids studies.
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rani singh Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
not a true
Kanchan Mani Choudhary Mom of 2 children 7 years ago
As a daughter you never left the side of your parents whenever your views didn't match with theirs or whenever they tried to impose anything on you. So you always stayed under a roof. Think of your in-laws that way. Stop taking them as responsibilities and treat them as two other members of your family besides your children and husband and every other view will change. When dissent in views, do not bottle up your emotions inside, rather talk to them and gradually a healthy relation will be developed. For a change you can always tour with your partner to any place or visit any local place as such. After all you can always play the best role you have got.
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sai sahashra Mom of 4 children 7 years ago
living in laws after marriage is the best...why because so things we don't know... they will help and guide us..so better to love them and live them
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Community User 7 years ago
You should never step back when you have to take care of in laws in their old age but it is not good idea to stay under same roof all the time which makes everything and every relation messy and leads to unnecessary issues
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