i can\'t give time to my baby becous they want me to do all work. cooking cleaning every thing but I can\'t i want to spend time with my baby she is growing so fast I miss every thing that she do.
i can't give time to my baby becous they want me to do all work. cooking cleaning every thing but I can't i want to spend time with my baby she is growing so fast I miss every thing that she do.
every one should give respect and every one must get respect. either it is new bride or the head of family and other members. but it is sad that most of us can\'t get the respect. actually they are afraid of each other. newly bride doesn\'t know about the likes and dislikes of rest of family. she must be treated well in family. and newly bride is not your servent so it\'s not her fully responsibility to do household chores and other works. the saddest part of our society is mother in law often thinks that the bride has stolen her son, but it\'s not correct. she has left her home her family, her siblings for your son not for you. she must treated well she also deserves to spend some quality of time with her husband. but mom-in-law doesn\'t treated her well and quarrels and other issues started, which led mental depression in family specially girl has to go through it. mom-in-law often forgets she also had gone through the same situation in past yet she never stops herself from taunting girl and her family. so according to me it is better to live in nuclear family than joint family. when we live far the love become more.
every one should give respect and every one must get respect. either it is new bride or the head of family and other members. but it is sad that most of us can't get the respect. actually they are afraid of each other. newly bride doesn't know about the likes and dislikes of rest of family. she must be treated well in family. and newly bride is not your servent so it's not her fully responsibility to do household chores and other works. the saddest part of our society is mother in law often thinks that the bride has stolen her son, but it's not correct. she has left her home her family, her siblings for your son not for you. she must treated well she also deserves to spend some quality of time with her husband. but mom-in-law doesn't treated her well and quarrels and other issues started, which led mental depression in family specially girl has to go through it. mom-in-law often forgets she also had gone through the same situation in past yet she never stops herself from taunting girl and her family. so according to me it is better to live in nuclear family than joint family. when we live far the love become more.
depends on the mindset... every girl wants to see her family happy but smtyms mother in law make the girl insecure...i personally wish to live with them if they let everyone a peaceful life.... smtyms they started to compare us with their own time like HAM AISE RHTE THE... but they actually don't realize the time has changed n so frwrd...agar hum b unke Jaise Sochte rkhe to ghar, naukari aur bahar ki zimmedari ni utha Skte... dress se lekar time management tak Sab differ h aaj.... but smtyms they don't wish to support by heart
correct comparison is the main problem .. y can't they compare themselves with their daughter??
Girls are always taught to respect and take care of their in laws..but do we teach the boys...i have seen many videos ..often its shown hearing his wife\'s words, son is leaving his mother and father in old age homes...but there are many parents of girl children who are living lonely because of the norms that girl after marriage needs to look after her in-laws and stay with them...if a parent is having only a girl child or even only girls..they shud be alone during the oldage.....is it the fault of them...or our society
Girls are always taught to respect and take care of their in laws..but do we teach the boys...i have seen many videos ..often its shown hearing his wife's words, son is leaving his mother and father in old age homes...but there are many parents of girl children who are living lonely because of the norms that girl after marriage needs to look after her in-laws and stay with them...if a parent is having only a girl child or even only girls..they shud be alone during the oldage.....is it the fault of them...or our society
i think living with in laws and both pros and cons but it become difficult when only old generation prespective is considered..
its difficult for people who have their own prespective and they cant put otherwise there will be arguments and tension arise in your home..
i m currently dealing with this situation and i m sick of it
i think living with in laws and both pros and cons but it become difficult when only old generation prespective is considered..
its difficult for people who have their own prespective and they cant put otherwise there will be arguments and tension arise in your home..
i m currently dealing with this situation and i m sick of it
Everything will go smoothly only when in laws don't interfere in couples relationship. Mainly mother in law don't always find a topic to embarrass daughter in law among family' members and known people. The cause of Nuclear family begins because these mothers in law don't accept BAHU as her own daughter... always give bad comments to her...
Living with in laws will never be a problem until unless they understand the present generation and adapt it. Problems arise when there is a gap between lifestyle. Their lifestyle is different in those days and our lifestyle is different from them. Everyone has freedom how they wanted to live their life. If there is no interference in each one\'s matters then all can live happily. However in our nation it is very much difficult to find such adjustments since we are democratic. We can\'t tolerate if anyone stealing our freedom. Stay far and be together than being far staying together.
Living with in laws will never be a problem until unless they understand the present generation and adapt it. Problems arise when there is a gap between lifestyle. Their lifestyle is different in those days and our lifestyle is different from them. Everyone has freedom how they wanted to live their life. If there is no interference in each one's matters then all can live happily. However in our nation it is very much difficult to find such adjustments since we are democratic. We can't tolerate if anyone stealing our freedom. Stay far and be together than being far staying together.
No one considers the fact that a woman might also want to take care of her own parents, who don\'t have a son, after her marriage, in their old age. Why can\'t a woman keep her parents with her just as a man? And look after them just as she takes care of her husband\'s parents? Living with her in-laws simply can\'t even consider the option of bringing her own parents to her home even if they are sick and lonely. Always the groom\'s side is considered superior to the bride\'s side. Why does our society look down upon parents who stay with their married daughters? Isn\'t it a bias women have been suffering for too long? And isn\'t this tradition of sending away daughters the reason behind the preference for having a son in Indian families, giving rise to sins like female foeticide?
No one considers the fact that a woman might also want to take care of her own parents, who don't have a son, after her marriage, in their old age. Why can't a woman keep her parents with her just as a man? And look after them just as she takes care of her husband's parents? Living with her in-laws simply can't even consider the option of bringing her own parents to her home even if they are sick and lonely. Always the groom's side is considered superior to the bride's side. Why does our society look down upon parents who stay with their married daughters? Isn't it a bias women have been suffering for too long? And isn't this tradition of sending away daughters the reason behind the preference for having a son in Indian families, giving rise to sins like female foeticide?
living with in Laws is a good gift, they not only supports but provide all the prcious experiences which they have handled.Also, we will not feel any lonaliness . If I talk about privacy then it depends on us that how we manage it.
living with in Laws is a good gift, they not only supports but provide all the prcious experiences which they have handled.Also, we will not feel any lonaliness . If I talk about privacy then it depends on us that how we manage it.
its difficult for people who have their own prespective and they cant put otherwise there will be arguments and tension arise in your home..
i m currently dealing with this situation and i m sick of it
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