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In reply to Seema K

my mother in law and all my in laws everyday torcher me ... using bad words for me i talk to my husband but he says ignore always busy ignore.my baby is now 11months old .i really don't understand why to do....they all always insulting my parents ...my mother in law is now seek she affected from HIV now my husband says how we can separately live in this situation...they torcher me in pregnancy now also they don't stop ...when husband is not your side nothing will happen for my daughter i m suffering all these shit she loves her father i don't want to spoil her happiness...😔

A small advice, this is my view., better you people separate soon from your mother in law,. HIV is not a small health issues to neglect her but you can take care her from outside. Healthy environment is good for babies to grow stronger and healthier.

Mythily Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

Before my marriage my husband and my mom-in-law, sister-in-law was tat much affectionate. I thought they will be like tat after marriage. After marriage everything changed. My husband is good . I won't say anything bad abt him. my mom-in-law and sis inlaw can't able to tolerate my husband's care and affection on me. I became pregnant soon. my sis in law don't have kids .She got married before 8 yrs. wen I became pregnant, both in-laws anger turned towards me. they spoiled my husband mind. he just saw baby wen he is born. now my child is 5 months old, not even once my husband came or his family members came. My in-laws are just need money from my husband. but he is not aware of that and trusting his mom and sis words. avoiding me and baby

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anuradha swami Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to priya sharma

meri bhi same situation ha dear 😱

hmmm I can understand ur pain 😣😣

Seema K Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

my mother in law and all my in laws everyday torcher me ... using bad words for me i talk to my husband but he says ignore always busy ignore.my baby is now 11months old .i really don't understand why to do....they all always insulting my parents ...my mother in law is now seek she affected from HIV now my husband says how we can separately live in this situation...they torcher me in pregnancy now also they don't stop ...when husband is not your side nothing will happen for my daughter i m suffering all these shit she loves her father i don't want to spoil her happiness...😔

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priya sharma Mom of 4 children 6 years ago

In reply to anuradha swami

very true

meri bhi same situation ha dear 😱

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Lalitha Ramji Mom of 5 children 6 years ago

Staying with in laws is a custom. In a joint family you will have less work load. Your baby will understand what true relationship is and won't feel alone even if you give birth to a second baby. But everything depends upon the in laws. If they are good then everything will be smooth.
In nuclear families, there will be no one to help, and it's tough to look after the child and finishing off house hold works. You will have privacy but after some days you will start hating it as you will feel so depressed because you should do what ever you want, whatever you husband wants and whatever your baby wants. In joint family atleast you will have your in laws to look after the kid.

sunidhi Mom of 2 children 7 years ago

it's well known Indian mother in law are very interfering .. in their mind they are best and we bahus are stupid .. they are really blessed who has understanding in laws

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Revathy Sudheesh Mom of a 10 yr 1 m old boy 6 years ago

I love to live in law home only
I don't mind any fight bcoz even we fight in are home to
I m very adjustable n forgiveness

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Dipti Richard Mom of 2 children 6 years ago

Differences between any two humans is very common it's just the same case with mom in law too. It's our thought process that highlightens it.
Differences with mom in law arises essentially for three reasons. 1. Husband - we want our husband to give us the priority as we give them leaving our families behind.moms also prefer to be prioritized after loving and raising him up for so many years. 2. Differences in family traditions. in a country like India each home has a tradition. 3 . Generation gap.
Giving a thought and dealing with them patiently might help to have a happy family. it's responsibility of every family member to make things better for the rest of others in the family no matter they live together or far.